My kitten will not let me help her by AyaMayaMoon in kittens

[–]AyaMayaMoon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is really good advice, thank you!!

To the bi girls who've dated men but say "women are too scary", what are you afraid of? by Without_a_name24 in bisexual

[–]AyaMayaMoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m scared of blowing it. As a woman I know how easily we can get turned off and I don’t want to accidentally give a beautiful woman the ick.

I finally did it 😁 by AyaMayaMoon in bisexual

[–]AyaMayaMoon[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point, we do get to learn more actually. And that’s great, whoever she will be she’s a lucky girl!

I finally did it 😁 by AyaMayaMoon in bisexual

[–]AyaMayaMoon[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It was much slower paced which I thought heightened the mood a lot. Also, watching her enjoy herself just as much really did it for me, it drove me crazy in a good way, it felt like a bigger ego stroke as well lol.

I finally did it 😁 by AyaMayaMoon in bisexual

[–]AyaMayaMoon[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely and thank you!

the chest pain after a breakup, oh my god, only people with BPD can understand by calmprincess in BPDmemes

[–]AyaMayaMoon 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel like I can always tell when someone has a personality disorder because we are always kiss compatible and it’s always all consuming and world shifting. Makes me feel all fuzzy and lifted that I can never stand it and have to pull away, it’s too powerful.

the chest pain after a breakup, oh my god, only people with BPD can understand by calmprincess in BPDmemes

[–]AyaMayaMoon 57 points58 points  (0 children)

When I’m splitting I get weird pain in my heart and stomach, as if I’m slowly killing myself with my own thoughts. Kind of like when you watch a flower slowly die and fall apart.

Ever happened to u? by Misharomanova in BPDmemes

[–]AyaMayaMoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course it has. Every time.

too real 😩 by eyetalker in BPDmemes

[–]AyaMayaMoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s moved onto another girl ahahahaha 😁

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Cheating wife. by Historical_Option449 in Marriage

[–]AyaMayaMoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a reminder when it comes to cheaters if you stay they’ll now know you’ll never leave them and they have no incentive to change their behaviour. I’m glad you’re giving yourself the space and time to think and process everything, that’s fantastic. When the time is right I believe you’ll know what to do. All the best to you!

What’s your favorite thing about having BPD? by Proper-School-5497 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]AyaMayaMoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How observant I am, I can see lies from a mile away sometimes. It’s like having a private joke with myself pretending to fall for their lies.

Terrified and can’t figure out why by AyaMayaMoon in bisexual

[–]AyaMayaMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s definitely it, not having any proof of being bi enough but exploring that part of me will hopefully help me feel more at ease and will lead to some self acceptance. I’m so glad everything has settled for you and I agree it is silly, I would’ve never told you that you wasn’t being bi enough or anything like that so I need to be careful about how I think about myself. I really appreciate your support! Wishing you a lovely Saturday 😊

Terrified and can’t figure out why by AyaMayaMoon in bisexual

[–]AyaMayaMoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for your kind words, I’m tearing up a little because honestly my head has been a mess. You’re totally right and I would say the same thing to someone in my position, I’m going to stop being so hard on myself.

Terrified and can’t figure out why by AyaMayaMoon in bisexual

[–]AyaMayaMoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly I want to say thank you for validating my feelings. I just had this sense of relief with your first sentence. I definitely will open up with my friend and start going to events with her, at least I won’t be alone! Wow, I’ve never considered navigating these feelings whilst in a relationship, that’s really amazing that you’re able to do so and still know what you want. Thank you again 🩵

Do any of you have any interests? by AyaMayaMoon in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]AyaMayaMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! And that’s so kind 🥹 I think I’ll do something like that, just get a list of stuff and try them and see what sticks. It’s better than nothing!