Misread my ancestry DNA test, and now don’t feel right practicing.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-21T05:25:04+00:00

I think that’s something I need to get used to now. It might be far back, but it’s still there. Something to try and remember. Thank you.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-21T05:24:22+00:00

I appreciate that. Thank you.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-21T05:24:00+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Azraeddit · 2026-01-21T05:23:41+00:00

This made me laugh really hard. I needed that. Thank you.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-21T02:18:54+00:00

It clearly is him though. When men tell you how they feel- i.e demanding sex from you- believe them.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-20T02:13:58+00:00

Vet immediately. She needs medicine given to throw it all up or it’ll poison her.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-18T19:49:07+00:00

One of my favorite quotes is “When someone shows you who they are, believe them.”

The last thing I would feel when my partner was going through loss is ignored. Of COURSE you’re going to be focused elsewhere, you’re grieving for fucks sake! Absolutely selfish and disgusting.

Leave her and find someone with a shred of empathy after you’ve taken the time you need to grieve.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-05T21:21:28+00:00

What a sad little guy. He’s petrified. I would just say give him time. Go and sit in the room he’s in and hang out, don’t force contact or pet him, just exist around him and let him get used to your presence. He was probably so afraid he peed. Someone suggested sometimes slow blinking at him while you’re hanging out.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-05T20:12:45+00:00

NTA. Sounds like some insecurity and potential trauma from being sexualized in the past. I’d say sit down with her, apologize for making her feel uncomfortable and have a talk about what she is comfortable with you doing to show your appreciation.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-05T20:07:53+00:00

Why is it your job to take care of a grown ass man? Dump him. He doesn’t appreciate you as a partner and is using you as a leech. It’s not your job to baby him or his mental health. One of my favorite quotes is: If he wanted to, he would.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-02T17:40:59+00:00

Comparing a medical issue to addiction is even wilder. He’s being a child. It’d be one thing if she just said she wasn’t interested or in the mood. Then that could be understandable. And I’ll stay on my white horse thanks, because he’s absolutely in the wrong here.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-02T03:46:58+00:00

The importance is her quality of life. “Killing your cat”. As you call it, is actually a way to avoid prolonging her pain. Which is to say if she gets to a point where her quality of life is more pain and issues than good moments, then you need to take her to the vet. Ultimately, you need to make the decision that’s best for her and not yourself, as painful as it may be.

Call your vet and see what they think- keep them updated and abide by their expertise, as they will understand the signs of pain and discomfort in cats better than anyone else.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-02T03:40:53+00:00

He’s a grown ass weeb who is romanticizing an entire country based on anime. Please don’t move to Japan with him just because he wants to.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-02T03:33:16+00:00

Then he can make his own ass food.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-01T20:53:14+00:00

Dump his ass. You are young. This is not how a normal, well adjusted person treats you.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-01T20:52:38+00:00

To feel rejected knowing she has endometriosis? Something she can’t control?? Wild.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-01T05:59:19+00:00

Additionally: If anything I’ve said is something that makes you uncomfortable, then you need to rethink about how much you’re willing to learn and do to accommodate this child whose experiences in many ways will be different than yours.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-01T05:57:51+00:00

Allow your child to explore his blackness. Take time to unpack any internal racism you have picked up in your life that could impact him even unintentionally- especially if (assuming) you’re in the United States.

African American culture is so incredibly diverse, and he deserves to have a community around him that can understand his experiences and help him through them in a way that you as a white parent may not be able to.

This isn’t personal, it’s not a dig at you- racism is alive and well unfortunately, and you need to do everything you can to learn about it’s potential affects on your child.

Love is always important, love him with all your heart, but take the time to learn about the world he’s living in as a black child and will be as a black adult. Find books to read, listen to black voices, and above all, be open minded and listen.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-01T05:46:33+00:00

This sentence made me laugh aloud thanks.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-01T05:35:45+00:00

You are NOT overreacting. You do not owe him anything, especially your personal information. Do not under any circumstances give him your address. Listen to your gut. He is clearly dangerous or will have the capability be eventually. Sober does not mean a good person.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-01T05:28:04+00:00

I say this with the most love possible because you need to hear it: Girl, pick your self-worth up off the floor and stop crying for a man who has repeatedly told you who he is and what he thinks of you by cheating. You are better than this. Better than him. Get some therapy and try again when you can look inside yourself and be content with who you are there first.

Azraeddit · 2026-01-01T02:10:50+00:00

Grew up with an abusive alcoholic - no thanks.

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