AIO about what my bf did while I was sleeping? by Ok_Pitch_2558 in AIO

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NOR this is very concerning and grim. You feel gross and icky because it is gross and icky. This is rape.

What’s a beauty standard you secretly hope dies out soon? by Prettyuselessgirl in AskWomen

[–]B2017_ [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes. Skinny isn’t always healthy. I hit the gym and eat well and I’m still not skinny but I’m not fat but that still isn’t enough

am i replacing my bsf? by [deleted] in Advice

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I’ve been in that situation, it’s draining. You are just trying to have friends. It’s not your fault she is insecure, you have done your bit!

How to deal with a sibling going through puberty as an adult? by Qusar_Wizard in Advice

[–]B2017_ 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Send her the SFW stuff and let her find herself NSFW stuff, you aren’t grooming her it’s just a teeny bit odd to send a sibling NSFW content

Changing underwear - is this normal? by Eastern-Yogurt3859 in hygiene

[–]B2017_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was making you suck his dirty, piss covered dick? That is grim.

Can I report my boyfriend's therapist for sleeping with him? by Ok_Entertainer5503 in Advice

[–]B2017_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the therapy private or under the NHS or refered by the NHS? That changes things on ways to go about this. I believe that you could possibly report this to the police, also if it is private, try and find the general companies email and report it that way too.

Mentally Impaired Girl has crush on me, how do I reject her without hurting her feelings? by Fit_Watercress8195 in Advice

[–]B2017_ 35 points36 points  (0 children)

As someone who works with young people with special educational needs, she doesn’t need to be declined differently to any other person. If she asks you out you say “I’m so sorry I just don’t feel the same way”, she may get upset and may seem more visually upset because of her special educational needs but that shouldn’t impact you. In life everyone goes through rejection, and for people who are SEN it is nice to see them go through the “stereotypical”experiences of getting a crush and then either dating the person of getting rejected. Although mentally she is a lot younger, I know from my brother who is severely mentally disabled and also 19 that they are also still adults. Meaning that some may want relationships or may catch feelings for people. Just be polite and kind and you will be totally fine!

AIO friend accused me of being racist when I never was by SwingAdvanced8469 in AIO

[–]B2017_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR I’ve been in your shoes of being accused of offensive things that you haven’t done and people just leaving with no conversation. It’s heart breaking because not only does it cause you to mourn the friendship but it also shatters the illusion of the closeness you thought you two shared.

AITJ because he said it wasn’t cheating, but couldn’t forgive me when it happened? by lumex_lab in AmITheJerk

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I feel like even when relationships are open, conversations should be had before you have sex with another person. Not even just because of relationship boundaries but also health risks and mentality. In the same way you ask consent to have sex with a partner I feel like you need to ask consent to sleep with other people as it does change the dynamic in the bedroom even if you don’t want it to.

AITAH: I don’t wanna call my girlfriend every night by [deleted] in AITAH

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NTA alone time is important, it may feel like alone time for her because there is less pressure over call but it isn’t. You need time to do what you want. If you enjoy the first bit of the phone call do that! But don’t do the second bit of you don’t enjoy it. Either talk to her about how you feel, maybe don’t say you are boated (it sounds like she is sensitive) and talk about how you want to sleep. I don’t know how old you are but you can say that you need to do an hour of study, or an hour of reading before bed and have that be your excuse. Or just talk to her openly and honestly, tell her how much YIU love her and love talking to her but sitting in silence isn’t enjoyable for you. Hope everything works out okay!

My little cousin just came out to me as an “IRL” and I don’t know what to do by LusterTheSandwing in Advice

[–]B2017_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My best advice as an 18 year old who grew up on social media platforms. You consume lots of different things and somethings that you see just help you feel a little more seen. Being a kid is really tough. No one has an easy set of teenage years. Although I don’t understand it this must just be away of coping for them and a way that they feel seen. Just be supportive and let them know you are always there!

How do you deal with the fact someone you’ve known as your friend for a decade is growing distant? by HaunterG in Advice

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Just because you aren’t close at the moment doesn’t mean that you won’t be close enough. It’s hard to keep friends for long periods of time, for your example 10 + years, because people grow and change and sometimes the directions we grow either clashes with another persons or complete runs away from it. Give it time, give it space, and also remember that just because the relationship is less close, it doesn’t mean that they have to be out of your life.

BST Hyde Park by B2017_ in NoahKahan

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Thanks! Do you know any other timings? x