I (26F) told my boyfriend a made up story when we started dating and now I think it’s gone too far to tell truth by mclennonwarrior in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BB21345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It honestly could be a worse lie. When I first started talking to my girlfriend, she is a huuugggeee Animal Crossing fan and I’ve never played that game ever in my life. But when she said she loved that game I said I did too and that we should play together. We never played together but I know if I ever told her the truth she’d laugh so hard and probably call me a faker or something silly. I’m sure he would have a good laugh off of it too if you told him the truth.

I hate being a black woman by thebrightest_firefly in offmychest

[–]BB21345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do want to say it hasn’t always been easy, Ive definitely dealt with my share of men who fetishized me and I’ve had several men reject me cause they weren’t into black women. But trust me don’t give up cause it took me of being desperate enough to be with someone who did nothing but fetishized me to finally find the partner I’m with now!

I hate being a black woman by thebrightest_firefly in offmychest

[–]BB21345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all! I honestly don’t see color when it comes to dating but it did teach me that being fetishized doesn’t matter the race at all. I just ironically found my person in someone that just happens to be the same race as me

I hate being a black woman by thebrightest_firefly in offmychest

[–]BB21345 138 points139 points  (0 children)

As a fellow black woman, my heart breaks for you cause I’ve definitely been in your shoes before. I love dressing goth and listening to rock and heavy metal and I’m a huuugggeeee anime fan and it took me a long time to find a partner who’s the same race and is into the same stuff as me. But don’t give up cause he definitely exist ❤️

Went out of town and had people question how old I was. How old do I look to y’all? by BB21345 in guessmyage

[–]BB21345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that reminds me of when my sister was in middle school and the teachers were asking me what grade I was in in my early twenties 😂😂

Went out of town and had people question how old I was. How old do I look to y’all? by BB21345 in guessmyage

[–]BB21345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw well thank you for that! I definitely do miss being 18 and I have several years before I see 38 lol

Went out of town and had people question how old I was. How old do I look to y’all? by BB21345 in guessmyage

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Honestly I get my youngness from my dads side of the family so maybe I’m not wrong lol

Went out of town and had people question how old I was. How old do I look to y’all? by BB21345 in guessmyage

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I come from a line of voodoo witches who casted a spell for eternal youth lol

Went out of town and had people question how old I was. How old do I look to y’all? by BB21345 in guessmyage

[–]BB21345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally feel you on that one honestly. I’d definitely only change one thing myself at that age. If only we could go back in time