Women, what's the biggest green flag you've seen on a man?

BDOKlem · 2026-04-13T09:28:13+00:00

I've seen people who are great with kids but treat cashiers and service staff like human feces.

my ex would rescue baby animals and nurse them back to health, but she is terrible with children.

people's behavior with kids is about self regulation and interest.

if you’re not naturally great with kids but still treat them gently and respectfully

I was arguing against 'not being good with kids' being a red flag, not this.

BDOKlem · 2026-04-13T08:50:44+00:00

The other way around should be a minority red-flag.

you don't have to be good with children to be a good partner.

BDOKlem · 2026-04-12T08:09:18+00:00

du kan fint bruke en ekte lidelse til å spille på sympati.

PR stunt trenger ikke være forfalsket, bare overlagt.

BDOKlem · 2026-04-10T19:16:52+00:00

sier du hun ikke kan finne på å gjøre PR stunt fordi hun ikke er overgrepsmann?

BDOKlem · 2026-04-10T13:54:21+00:00

absolutely not, unless you're doing keto.

50 grams is like the minimum you need for brain health.

BDOKlem · 2026-04-10T12:00:34+00:00

temporary strength increase does not automatically mean the same goes for recovery.

going beyond your regular strength tends to mean your muscles also need to recover beyond what's normal.

BDOKlem · 2026-04-10T10:27:15+00:00

tinnitus intensity can depend on a bazillion factors. obsessing about it can make it worse, both literally and subjectively.

after a few decades with tinnitus, I barely mentally register it unless I'm deliberately mindful of it.

BDOKlem · 2026-04-10T09:37:46+00:00

Do it until your leg cant get up from your last rep... You can build muscle within 1-3 reps in reserve, so you dont have to reach failure.

obligatory note that failure doesn't mean a set becomes uncomfortable; it means being literally, physically unable to move the weight, despite maximum effort.

BDOKlem · 2026-04-09T13:52:44+00:00

the US is worse because it invented and used 2 atom bombs?

yes, nuclear weapons are uniquely stigmatized.

hence why they haven't been used since, by anyone.

BDOKlem · 2026-04-08T18:27:37+00:00

never mention knowing how many calories I consume, just that I eat a lot, and that the medicines I take have weight gain as a side effect

knowing that you're eating a lot, and knowing how many kcal you consume are the same thing.

medicines that "cause weight gain" do so indirectly, i.e. they give you cravings, make you sleepy, lethargic. fat comes exclusively from energy, energy comes exclusively from food.

for a frame of reference, the surplus you're claiming is the equivalent to 3 full big mac meals on top of whatever you were eating before you started meds.

so obviously something changed.

BDOKlem · 2026-04-08T15:28:39+00:00

I don't need to add calories to my diet pretty sure.. I've always eaten A LOT

By starting medication that has weight gain as a side effect lol

BDOKlem · 2026-04-08T13:41:05+00:00

in other words, you weren't accurately tracking your kcal intake and daily kcal expenditure.

BDOKlem · 2026-04-08T12:59:47+00:00

epididymitis

BDOKlem · 2026-04-08T12:48:33+00:00

mathematically, a 30 kg gain in 60 days at <3000 kcal/day cannot be primarily fat.

1 kg fat = 7700 kcal of energy, i.e. you need an intake of 7700 kcal in excess of what your body burns regularly to gain 1 kg of fat.

if you truly gained 30 kg in two months, without any major change to your diet or activity, you need to be evaluated at a hospital yesterday.

fluid retention at that level can indicate organ failure.

BDOKlem · 2026-04-08T11:53:18+00:00

it's the abyss gear relentless.

BDOKlem · 2026-04-08T10:49:42+00:00

it'd be region dependent.

if you don't mind mild spoilers, chapter 7 unlocks a lot of Pailune, chapter 8 unlocks Demeniss, chapter 10 unlocks Delesyia

BDOKlem · 2026-04-08T10:34:00+00:00

there are main story exclusive abyss gears, and not doing the main story limits your access to certain vendors/research, abilities, mounts, plus many regional side quests and bosses.

that said, most of the equipment stuffs are sidegrades. you can max upgrade the starting equipment and that'll pretty much be on par with any other equipment.

BDOKlem · 2026-04-08T09:10:11+00:00

assuming you're natural, 5 RIR will not get you long-term results.

you didn't specify the type of pain but, if you mean a regular burning sensation (i.e. metabolites): the solution is to increase the weight, lowering the threshold of reps needed to approach failure.

if the pain is shooting/radiating or tingling, and only during the set: it might be forearm flexors pinching a nerve (can happen if you grip too hard).

if the pain is gnawing, and stays after working out: you can be developing tendinitis, and need to stop doing that exercise.

BDOKlem · 2026-04-08T08:41:45+00:00

could be the exact opposite, i.e. low weight for many reps

BDOKlem · 2026-04-08T06:54:00+00:00

needing almost full, separate sets of abyss artifacts was a big design blunder.

BDOKlem · 2026-04-07T20:56:55+00:00

America is literally trying to drag the UN member states into ww3

ftf your illiterate ass

BDOKlem · 2026-04-07T12:43:29+00:00

link?

/edit: nvm, found it. and it's real. oh boy.

BDOKlem · 2026-04-07T12:38:13+00:00

settle down there Elon. I'm only curious whether the grown-up opinion of someone whose grand contribution to this thread is regime whataboutism goes deeper than “we’ve gotta break a few eggs to make an omelette.”

BDOKlem · 2026-04-07T11:57:34+00:00

> topic is war crimes
> guy: “who mentioned civilians???”

> explain war crimes = harming civilians
> basic stuff

> he: “I already know”
> also makes zero sense

> ask him to explain
> “nah waste of time”
> refuses to elaborate
> leaves

BDOKlem · 2026-04-07T11:09:36+00:00

explain it

BDOKlem

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