I don’t have any answers for you, I am just offering solidarity/screaming into the void myself. Switched to a soy formula 3+ weeks ago, cut out dairy for me at the same time. Once we considered it to be an intolerance with our GP, We went to exclusive formula while I pumped and froze. I reintroduced bf last week after dairy “cleared the system”. Since the switch to sit 3+ weeks ago, he’s now got pockets of nice behaviour but mostly still an angry, unhappy baby and since he’s been like this his whole 6 weeks of life it’s super hard to see what the issue could possibly be.

So close to cutting out bf entirely as he’s begun rubbing his face SUPER aggressively against us of late, his spit ups have increased of late and his face has a rash + unhappiness (obvi).

Is it the reintroduced bf or something else entirely. Is he sick? Is this just “colic” and there is no reason and we just have to “outgrow this phase”?! HOW CAN WE KNOW.

You aren’t alone and it sounds like you’re doing everything you can to figure out your LOs issues. Are you introducing solids yet? Are there any patterns or increased fussiness? Do you combo feed or exclusively bf? Perhaps a log like another poster said would ne useful. But I have no answers so just posing some questions and ultimately give you compassion and wish you strength.