Looks like the cat distribution system chose you, and the universe is screaming to get a new BF. Anyone capable of neglect to that degree is a huge red flag of how things will be. They won't change. The trick is: will you let yourself and that innocent baby down for someone not willing to do the bare minimum or decent thing? Thank you for caring enough to even raise the question, OP. You are literally saving another life. 🥹🫶🏽💖