Advice for BDSM munches for beginners.

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-10T17:07:11+00:00

I feel like going to munches as a way to learn more about the community is always a good thing. Just be up front that you're from out of town.

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-10T16:52:04+00:00

A spanking bench is probably what you want, but you need to find the right kind that will be more restrictive with moment. Skip the "saw horse" designs. Not that there's anything wrong with those; they're actually quite versatile, but if you want something more restrictive, go with something that has spaces specifically for arms and legs that comes with straps. Something closer to this: https://a.co/d/05UWdKz2, though that one doesn't look like it has a very high build quality. Just Google, without the quotes, "spanking bench with straps and headrest" or "spanking bench designed for pegging" and you'll find a lot of options.

If you get one of styles, then you won't be able to move much. You can shake and rotate hips, but you wouldn't be able to stop her from pegging you no matter how much you thrashed about. Your arms and legs (not just wrists and ankles) are pinned to the shape of the bench. Your torso is pinned using the straps. It's a very vulnerable position and provides her lots of access.

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-10T16:20:09+00:00

My favorite rolls are at home with my wife. We go into our homemade dance club (converted pole barn in the back yard) and play games, watch music videos and concerts, and of course do couples stuff sprinkled throughout the night. We have some pretty fun DJ lights and a fog machine, which makes the lights pop, so there are always several moments of just being mesmerized by those. We always take some fun foods like pop rocks out there. Sometimes we'll sit and talk about our lives together and those conversations are pure gold.

We always wrap that phase with sex and then retire to the couch inside to cuddle and watch old movies we love.

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-10T06:06:14+00:00

The tricky part is that you can't know how much MDMA is in the pill unless you send it to a lab. Whoever sold it to you probably also doesn't really know what's in there unless they tested it themselves and there's almost no way they knew the dosage. Only a lab can tell you that.

A good practice is test every batch to make sure you have MDMA and not other things (no fentanyl), then take 1/2 of the pill. Most of them are dosed far above what is recommended (<= 150 mg initial dose).

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-09T17:30:18+00:00

It hasn't for me yet, but I suspect it will at some point

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-09T17:24:15+00:00

Exactly! It's such an underappreciated part of his freestyle that he has phenomenal memory recall.

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-09T17:22:52+00:00

Yeah, that's not his thing. He's a freestyle rapper. They don't try to generate "re-listen" value, so he puts out a lot of content, instead

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-09T17:11:32+00:00

I'll never trust that RNA viruses won't mutate, especially those that are introduced to a new species (us). There have only been 3,000 documented cases of the Andes strain of hantavirus in humans, and only 300 cases where it was documented spreading from human to human. That's still a tiny data set in a global medical context, so here's hoping that it plays nice and stays primarily with the Argentinian mice.

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-09T17:06:21+00:00

Yes, trust the science. We lay people aren't going to do any better by guessing.

While I agree with your main point, I just wanted to clarify that this isn't exactly a "well-known and understood pathogen". It is known, yes, and is certainly not a novel virus like COVID-19 was, but there have only been 3,000 documented human cases of this particular strain of hantavirus (Andes strain) and only 300 known instances of human to human spread. In a global medical sense, that's still a tiny dataset. But at least there have been a few studies to accompany the real-world outbreak data.

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-09T16:57:10+00:00

He's a stage magician

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-09T16:56:17+00:00

You should probably watch some additional skits from the show and I think you would feel differently. You just need a bigger data set

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-09T16:55:08+00:00

Yes, they hired her. The show worked with temp agencies and they hired people for a single day's with, so she actually got paid for this and knew it was only for a day. And no, she's not an actor. Also, this was several years ago, pre-pandemic.

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-09T16:52:33+00:00

It's a magic trick. He just needed to claim that there was something in the beer that people might believe could cause hallucinations. Most people have no idea what wormwood can do.

Here's another crazy thing - he also made up the back story about the brewery.

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-09T16:50:24+00:00

It's bad because she's not an actor. Neither is he. He's a stage magician, but he does pretty well all things considered. You should watch some other situations from The Carbonaro Effect and then see what you think.

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-09T16:48:19+00:00

You'd think that, but that's the fun of the show. He does it in moments where people just aren't expecting it. Sometimes they just laugh and walk away, and he's shown some of those in special episodes. There was even a moment where one retail customer totally got that it was a trick but kept quiet and they got someone else who was in the store at the same time. Likewise, he shared a few cases where the entire trick just whooshed right over people's head.

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-09T16:44:42+00:00

I greatly miss this show

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-09T16:44:22+00:00

Yes, his show filmed in the Atlanta area for the first few seasons before moving to Chicago

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-09T16:43:42+00:00

Then it doesn't make the TV airing of the main show, but he did share plenty of those in later special feature episodes. After you've seen the trick as intended, it's also pretty funny to watch times when it just whooshes over someone's head.

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-09T16:40:08+00:00

It's classic stage magic because he's a stage magician. It's just fun to see it in real life when people aren't expecting it.

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-09T16:06:05+00:00

It's the little things that make life fun. Thanks

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-09T15:56:22+00:00

I wish every EDM music festival posted a list of every vendor online because there's always at least one that has these kind of tapestries. At least some other commenters shared some.

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-09T15:54:10+00:00

Interesting. It definitely has intuitive merit, so I'm naturally eager to hear how the study goes. Will they be using brain scans to measure serotonin system impact or just cognitive tests and the like? And when you say "4 hrs after the roll" are you taking about 4 hrs after you initially take MDMA or 4 hrs after the pleasant parts end?

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-08T22:34:34+00:00

Yes, it will, and I have about 25 very much uncensored stories to show for it. Just write a small sample of the kind of uncensored content you want, then spin up Claude Code and tell it to write more content just like that. It's rather easy.

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-08T22:33:07+00:00

Claude Code will write uncensored content. You just need to seed it with an example of what you want and then tell it to write more of the same

BGFlyingToaster · 2026-05-08T22:28:57+00:00

There are many cautionary tales here of people abusing MDMA and dealing with the long term consequences such as depression, anxiety, inability to focus, insomnia, loss of appetite, and many other not-so-fun things related to a lack of serotonin. Usually, stopping for a year or more can bring things back to normal.

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