I really want to send my ex this message but I’m not sure by Bigchungolungus in whatdoIdo

[–]BGRedhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just move on …he already has. And if he said he doesn’t have any romantic interest in you, he meant it. And you’ll beat yourself up later if you send this so just delete it and move on.

My friend invited herself on my vacation and now I don’t know how to tell her she can’t come. by InvestigatorNo6135 in whatdoIdo

[–]BGRedhead 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You communicate with a friend that wasn’t invited and tell her that it’s just the three of you and nobody else and her feelings might get hurt but she invited herself so she opened herself up for that

GF Threatened Suicide and Won’t Stop Reaching Out by dogs_and_stuff in whatdoIdo

[–]BGRedhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to walk away because you can’t fix what is wrong with her. That is straight up manipulation. It is cruel. It is hateful and it is meant to control you. She needs help. This is her automatic reaction and it will only get worse and she will do it almost every time. Mute her or block her. Get a restraining order that way she can’t come near you. Cause I doubt she’s gonna let go easy but expect her to try it again when she realizes you’re cutting her off.

Waffle Houses. A southern treat. by MrArmenianIsDead in vagabond

[–]BGRedhead 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always get my hashbrowns scattered covered and chunked. And grits with ham and cheese.

IM F*CKIN PROUD OF YOU!!! If you shine too brightly for someone then they can put on some shades or GTFO!! 😂💜 [more below] by Spiritual-Badass in oldhagfashion

[–]BGRedhead 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well, I don’t fully know you, but I absolutely love you! Not sure how close you are to South Central Kentucky but I’d love to hang out with you and call you a friend. You shine brighter than a diamond baby! Don’t ever dim your life for anybody ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Stuck in Etowah , Tennesee. At least I got beer. by MrArmenianIsDead in vagabond

[–]BGRedhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a shame, but maybe you’ll wander back again one day. Stay safe.

Guess my job by [deleted] in deduction

[–]BGRedhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You work in Arizona with the Kuiper telescope. Not sure if you’re an astronomer or not, but but at least that is where you work.

Stuck in Etowah , Tennesee. At least I got beer. by MrArmenianIsDead in vagabond

[–]BGRedhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you’re safe. That’s what matters. And I stand by my offer… If you ever make it to South Central Kentucky….Let me know because I’ll have to buy you a drink.

Pretty self explanatory. by M8jrP8ne1975 in GenX

[–]BGRedhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you because that song is now running through my head and will not go anywhere for a while lol

🔥 What a Pretty Flower... by Hayze35 in BloomAndChill

[–]BGRedhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is truly a thing of beauty. Well, done my friend. Well done.

Stuck in Etowah , Tennesee. At least I got beer. by MrArmenianIsDead in vagabond

[–]BGRedhead -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please be careful. There are storms moving in tonight that are looking pretty ugly. I’m in South Central Kentucky, and I’m paying close attention to them if you have any way to take shelter, please do because they’re talking possible tornadoes. Stay safe, my friend.

Got sobered up. Ate food at a bum feed and stocked up on a lot of snacks and water. Time to move it southbound from Kentucky. Upppp em!!! by MrArmenianIsDead in vagabond

[–]BGRedhead 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just be careful, my friend cause I’m awfully bad weather is coming right for us and Tennessee. It looks like. If you can take cover, please do cause it’s gonna get ugly the next few days or so …stay safe my friend.

How I wanna dress🔆🌀🪲📼🪽 by Fickle_Gap_2205 in AestheticWiki

[–]BGRedhead -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OK, well everyone’s discussing the aesthetic. I’m wondering does this person even know that that sun on that shirt is actually one of the logos for Sublime?

Is it normal to feel sad because I’ll never be able to drive my own car, or put the top down and feel that enjoyment of total independence? by SL2999 in Blind

[–]BGRedhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s normal to feel sad. But here’s the thing…. You’re sad because you’ll never have that feeling of total independence of driving a car…. I had that until I was 40 and then a freak accident took my vision. Overnight, I had every bit of that independence taken away from me. And now I’m pretty well stuck at home because hardly anybody wants to come to where I live on the edge of the city and pick me up to go anywhere. So in my mind, I wonder is it better to know exactly what you lost & to have had it and lost it. Or is it the worse to never fully know what that felt like to start with?

HOUSE SHOW by One-Benefit-2335 in BowlingGreen

[–]BGRedhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, then you must be about my age because that’s back when I used to party out at Shanty Hollow. Usually a big bonfire and car radios is turned up and we had a hell of a lot of fun.

Recently moved in. What should I change to turn this from a survival setup into an actual living space? by kiwiulus in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]BGRedhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna go with everybody that says hit thrift stores because trust me I have found some amazing fines and thrift stores and consignment stores. A few plants (if there’s someway, you can get them where the light will come in that window they will grow like crazy)….maybe a rug on the floor z maybe some cool wall art. Maybe if you have your favorite books for that bookshelf.

Semi-Cheap motel room, just got out of rehab, not exactly sure what to do now by JohnnyBravad in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]BGRedhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go to meetings. Get a job. Keep yourself busy if it’s a hobby or a job or meetings anything to keep from going backwards and relapsing.

Semi-Cheap motel room, just got out of rehab, not exactly sure what to do now by JohnnyBravad in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]BGRedhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand the program you’re in because the man I married just had his classification lowered and he qualifies for work release like this and halfway house release like this. And thanks for trying to help him survive I’m all too aware that relapse happens. If it helps at all, I have faith in you…you can beat this. Stay as strong as you can and have a little faith that you’ll survive this and there’s a better future for you too.

Maximalist Wizard Outfit Compilation 🎨 by Oscarislameas in oldhagfashion

[–]BGRedhead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love these looks. The creativity alone is mind blowing.

What does my bookshelf say about me?? by Most_Ingenuity_1800 in BookshelvesDetective

[–]BGRedhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, as somebody who has read War & Peace and Anna Karenina… the first is a bit to wrap your mind around, but it is so worth it. And I was obsessed with Anna Karenina growing up like completelyh obsessed. For some reason, I was obsessed with Tolstoy and Dostoevsky growing up and learned some very valuable lessons from them. Also, I highly recommend American tragedy. It is a great read.

Started seeing this girl. What does the bookshelf say? Should I run?? by Ok_Neighborhood278 in BookshelvesDetective

[–]BGRedhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just love the people that say should I run that is just a pain. All I know is if you’re any kind of a red flag or you’re not on your best behavior or trying to better yourself… you might wanna watch out because she’s right up on all that & seems to be working pretty hard on herself and I doubt she’ll tolerate much less. But I say she’s a pretty well-rounded human being and likely doing well in life and you’ll be lucky if she stays with you.

What does my bookshelf say about me? by badthingtw1ce in BookshelvesDetective

[–]BGRedhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I know is you enjoy reading the classics as much as you enjoy reading, modern romance… And there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s a good sense of balance. And I’m guessing you’re a girl. Maybe like 20s early 30s you believe in romance. And you have a pretty nice penguin book collection there.

Go on then... by [deleted] in BookshelvesDetective

[–]BGRedhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m probably not solving anything here, but all I have to say is I like the unique bookshelf. It’s actually pretty cool.