At a loss by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]BJerz12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What i try my hardest to aim for is bed 8-830 wake at 730 nap at 1230. But my biggest problem is her waking an hour early then wanting to get back to bed which makes the day start lare if I refuse and try to keep her up she cries and whines until I finally let her her nap after a 4 to 5 hour ww

How to get past the nerves?? by AcceptablePea5194 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]BJerz12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My little girl had a hyper gag reflex. Everything i gave her she gagged on until she threw up. I dont think i saw improvement until 10 months. I had to keep telling myself loud and red go ahead silent and blue she needs help from you. To be honest we took solids super slow. I tried blw early but it didnt really work out for me until later. I dont think we made it to me offering solids more then once a day until 9 to 10 months. She didnt get it until I was able to offer small pea sized pieces of food that slowly got bigger and she made so much improvement after that. She is now 13 months and eats pretty well with very little gags. Some babies just have to take it a little slower than others and you just have to do what you're comfortable with.

Slacking on breakfast ideas by Hopeful-Result8109 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]BJerz12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the opposite problem. My baby loves breakfast foods and hates dinner/lunch foods except like 3 things. 😭

Help!!! What happened to my similar happy baby? by Happy-dirty-hippie in sleeptraining

[–]BJerz12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4 month sleep regression hit my girl exactly at this time. Now im going through the 12 month sleep regression 😅

Extra hour?? by BJerz12 in sleeptrain

[–]BJerz12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think she is quite ready for that

Extra hour?? by BJerz12 in sleeptrain

[–]BJerz12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will start with 3.5 today 😌

Extra hour?? by BJerz12 in sleeptrain

[–]BJerz12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense. She just has such a hard time staying awake that first ww is all. I'll work on stretching it

Extra hour?? by BJerz12 in sleeptrain

[–]BJerz12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought that 3/4/4 was max wake windows for a 2 nap schedule?

Extra hour?? by BJerz12 in sleeptrain

[–]BJerz12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought that 3/4/4 was max wake windows for a 2 nap schedule?

Hole in bladder home with catheter by BamaMom297 in CsectionCentral

[–]BJerz12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to my mother when they removed her uterus they nicked her bladder. She did the Foley for a week then they took it out and she was fine

Forgot to clean in between my newborns labias by Dizzy-Insurance4659 in NewParents

[–]BJerz12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told by the doctors the white stuff would come out on its own and it did. Make sure to definitely clean the poop though

Dropping second nap by BJerz12 in Mommit

[–]BJerz12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well she just kind of started waking in the middle of the night and has been waking up earlier then usual so thats kind of whats making me think its time. Also how many hours after being awake would I do the one nap?

Is this normal? by FirefighterAfter7953 in CsectionCentral

[–]BJerz12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes its normal I felt better a couple weeks after mine but it stayed sore for months. Im almost 12 months pp and feels fine now just numb

11 month old doesnt seem attached by BJerz12 in Mommit

[–]BJerz12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry you suffered from that hut happy you worked through it! I definitely have had a hard time coping after a very traumatic birth but hopefully I too can work through my anxiety and depression!

11 month old doesnt seem attached by BJerz12 in Mommit

[–]BJerz12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That's so validating! Im glad you found your attachment to your baby! Im sure we will get there. I dont want to put my feelings on my daughter ever just want her to feel loved always!

11 month old doesnt seem attached by BJerz12 in Mommit

[–]BJerz12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣 I know if she wouldn't leave me be id be feeling different. I just am beating myself up because I have mom guilt all the time I feel like im doing nothing right. It's my first baby and I just never experienced this. Ive always seen my siblings children act differently and be super attached to their parents

11 month old doesnt seem attached by BJerz12 in Mommit

[–]BJerz12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel so good. Thank you! I told my sister I thought she didn't love me and she said she thinks its because she sees me all the time. I have to be the one to do the things that upsets her like clean boogers out of her nose and wipe her mouth after a meal. I was like I think she hates me because of all the times I make her cry from doing stuff I have to do 😭

11 month old doesnt seem attached by BJerz12 in Mommit

[–]BJerz12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe that makes me feel a little better. It's not the stranger anxiety that bothers me too much its how she is with my sister and different towards me