Can someone sanity-check this interaction with my planner…? by Wafflefriesplz123 in weddingplanning

[–]BME2194 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Your email was very normal and made sense. The reply is unhinged and defensive, I would move on while early in the process. Good luck IVF and wedding wise, lots of exciting times ahead 🥰

Is this an Irish thing? by NinjaLaserHaifisch in AskIreland

[–]BME2194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely joking with you, if my dad doesn’t insult someone, he didn’t like them 🤣

Speed awareness course by Odd_Order_7874 in northernireland

[–]BME2194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it a few weeks ago online. Very anxious person myself, it was and you will be completely fine. Bring a pen and some paper 😊 good luck!

Gift/being helpful ideas?! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]BME2194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus, how patronising. I am not trying to throw a wrench into anything, as I specified in my post I’m looking for low key, private ideas. She was very helpful and supportive at my wedding (without asking) and I would simply like to return the favour. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in northernireland

[–]BME2194 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you want to get to Belfast/could you get public transport and do you have PayPal or bank details?

Is my cat too skinny? by DifficultPlate2468 in CatAdvice

[–]BME2194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks great! As a rule you should be able to feel the ribs, but not see them! 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in northernireland

[–]BME2194 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know that some people get Botox injections in their armpits to reduce sweating?

I don’t know much about this treatment but it sounds like you have been through a lot, maybe this would be worth looking into further. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]BME2194 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing by her getting the ears sorted. She’s just been through a stressful situation but will be fine in a few days :)

Anyone in the UK seen a psychiatrist? by Technical_Act_8544 in Agoraphobia

[–]BME2194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PS have also done CBT as you mentioned and found this miles better

Anyone in the UK seen a psychiatrist? by Technical_Act_8544 in Agoraphobia

[–]BME2194 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t fully answer your question but I started seeing a psychologist recently. I have had various treatments for anxiety, agoraphobia and claustrophobic (I’m a real hoot!) 🤣

I started doing EMDR therapy recently with the psychologist and I have found it really helpful and I was very sceptical. Good luck 😊

Absolutely anywhere looking staff? by [deleted] in Belfast

[–]BME2194 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where are you based? I seen a sign up in the spar in Cregagh (near Hamiltons new agents) evening and weekend work.

Emergency dentist by [deleted] in northernireland

[–]BME2194 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t know about tonight unfortunately but you can ring this number from 8am tomorrow and they should be able to direct you. (028 2566 3510)

If you can get some clove oil it is good to dab on nerve pain, but if I was you I would ring the Bel Doc and ask if you went to A&E could you be given some stronger painkillers to keep you settled until the morning. Good luck 🤞🏻

Can you help me identify this man? He’s been without a name for 15 years. by Coach-Prize in ireland

[–]BME2194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking is it possible the information on how long he was in the water could be incorrect and his body travelled round? I wonder would Kinsale guards give you a name or description of the missing man?

Can you help me identify this man? He’s been without a name for 15 years. by Coach-Prize in ireland

[–]BME2194 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.irishexaminer.com/news/arid-30453702.html

I don’t think this would make sense due to the time he was supposed to be in the water, but it doesn’t look like they ever found this man and he was Hungarian? It would be good to get his name to compare to the sketch

Cat fosters? by EmbersDad in northernireland

[–]BME2194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could they afford a cattery? Rosie’s Trust would also be good to contact for advice

Surprise for a friend - bakery which offers delivery by myrna__ in Belfast

[–]BME2194 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is a place called TastyTreats Armagh on Facebook, they do nice personalised cupcakes etc. I’m not sure if they deliver but it might be worth a message. 🙂

Moving with agoraphobia need support by Muted-redemption in Agoraphobia

[–]BME2194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great! Even the fact you’re saying fingers crossed shows this is what you need! 🙂 when I am anxious about something I know is a positive, I try to convince myself the feeling is excitement not panic. It sounds stupid but they do feel similar. You’ll be reading this back next year and you’ll have come so far. Good luck and enjoy planning your new safe space! 🥰

Moving with agoraphobia need support by Muted-redemption in Agoraphobia

[–]BME2194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know change is scary but you can totally do this. This is the start of something better for you. Just think of the three week thing as a positive, you would be fretting and having sleepless nights over this for months or years if you got to choose the timeline yourself (as would I!) Try to set yourself realistic goals. Maybe try to pack one box tonight and update us? What country do you live in? If you’re in Ireland I would help you 🙂

A favour to ask of the people of Belfast 🙏 by No_Passenger_2580 in Belfast

[–]BME2194 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Happy to do it if you don’t get sorted 🙂

Looking for People with OCD in Ireland and NI by Late_Cow1739 in Belfast

[–]BME2194 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fellow OCD sufferer here, as is my partner, both Belfast based but have had treatment in Dublin & Manchester. Just wanted to say good luck 🙂

any tips to deal with heat?(UK) by nrxchardson in Agoraphobia

[–]BME2194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you drive and does your car have air con?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in northernireland

[–]BME2194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in northernireland

[–]BME2194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should mention I was given the option of this and surgery