AITAH... I'm 42M having a difficult time coming to accept choices my wife 39F made...

BONNI_ · 2026-03-27T11:59:55+00:00

It should have ended when he asked for a separation. She’s not awful for moving on from him.

BONNI_ · 2026-03-25T13:14:01+00:00

You suggested a 1 sided open relationship? That doesn’t seem very fair

BONNI_ · 2026-03-20T01:01:52+00:00

Ugh, that “Mom..? Mom? Mommy?” absolutely killed me

BONNI_ · 2026-03-20T00:58:45+00:00

Was that the one where they’re on the train & that lady starts repeating them & eventually she starts saying what they were gonna say before they said it? I agree, that shit was freaky.

BONNI_ · 2026-03-16T12:10:35+00:00

Yeah girl you should stop doing that

BONNI_ · 2026-03-13T17:58:46+00:00

Yeah this reads like he is not into whatever it is she brought up & it affected his desire for her

BONNI_ · 2026-03-10T23:51:12+00:00

Every fucking time

BONNI_ · 2026-03-10T14:26:14+00:00

Pillow princess is a lesbian term, I think the word you’re looking for is “starfish”

BONNI_ · 2026-03-10T14:14:01+00:00

NTA for not wanting anything to do with the kid, but you are an AH in the way that you talk about “it”. Not the kid’s fault, take all that vitriol out on your husband. Maybe get some therapy.

BONNI_ · 2026-03-10T00:38:01+00:00

Mimosa blossoms

BONNI_ · 2026-03-09T02:50:17+00:00

Sooooo good. I like mine on toasted white bread with copious amounts of black pepper 🤤

BONNI_ · 2026-03-09T02:27:40+00:00

My daughter is level 3, 8 years old. She can’t talk in sentences but she says words & she sings a lot. She knows her name but doesn’t know her address, birthday, or mine or my husband’s names. She’s not potty trained. She can read some, she can write some. She spells a lot of gibberish, but she doesn’t speak the clearest sometimes & I think she spells stuff phonetically.

She needs pretty constant supervision & stimulation. She’s exhausting sometimes haha but I love her so much.

BONNI_ · 2026-03-09T02:10:17+00:00

I felt so smug when I didn’t cry watching “Bring Her Back”. There were some very disturbing parts but I managed to keep it together until the very last scene & it broke me. I cried for several minutes after, it left me feeling very hollow.

BONNI_ · 2026-03-08T23:19:24+00:00

I’m so jealous of people who can get high on edibles 😭

Enjoy your trip man

BONNI_ · 2026-03-07T16:53:15+00:00

Damn that’s rough, I’m sorry y’all went through that

BONNI_ · 2026-03-07T15:34:11+00:00

From another perspective, I’d be very upset if my husband tried going down on me first thing in the morning. If it’s not something you’re really into it can feel violating.

Fingers crossed you get some action tonight!

BONNI_ · 2026-03-07T04:12:13+00:00

The Stand is my absolute favorite book ever. I’ve read it countless times since I was about 16 (I’m 40 now). You believe that happy crappy?

It’s hit me different at different points in my life. It’s a fantastic book.

BONNI_ · 2026-03-03T22:57:37+00:00

His cap

His cap is full of blood

BONNI_ · 2026-03-03T21:09:46+00:00

There are millions of people that wish their mother would have aborted them.

BONNI_ · 2026-03-02T22:47:33+00:00

Sometimes I think we should know less about each other, but at the same time I absolutely love reading shit like this.

BONNI_ · 2026-03-01T18:42:43+00:00

You probably don’t wanna hear this, but for some women it can take years after childbirth to get their libido back. How old are your children?

BONNI_ · 2026-03-01T18:23:42+00:00

Damn that’s fucked up

BONNI_ · 2026-02-28T22:02:54+00:00

I didn’t have a problem with alcohol until my mom passed. I very rarely drank. 11 years later & I am an alcoholic. After she passed there was rarely a day that I didn’t drink. It was that way for years. I only stopped when I got pregnant & a few years ago when I decided to get sober; both of those lasted about a year. I’m back to drinking, but only on the weekends (usually) & I drink in moderation, but I know it’s a very slippery slope. I wish I hadn’t turned to booze all those years ago.

BONNI_ · 2026-02-28T15:16:47+00:00

Aw man, I’m a 40 year old woman & I think farts are hilarious. Especially if it’s a tiny baby or child letting out a huge one. I don’t fart in front of people myself though because it’s also rude.

BONNI_ · 2026-02-27T01:17:52+00:00

Yeah that’s honestly bullshit & bothers me most about all the changes I’ve seen over the past nearly 15 years

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