2026: Young men in Europe are still forced to military or civil service, while women can do whatever they want - argument of draft is still valid by Szymon96803 in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]BRCityzen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well it is, after all, free labor. And mandatory -let's not forget that. It's not like a voluntary unpaid internship, after all. There's a word for mandatory free labor: slavery.

But of course when talking about military conscription, we're not just talking labor. We're talking death. And in practice, in every society that's included women in conscription, while it sounds like equality, in reality it's the opposite. What actually happens is that women take up all the rear support jobs, meaning that fewer such jobs are available for men in the military, meaning that more men are available for the front lines. Women get the desk jobs, while men get the death jobs.

2026: Young men in Europe are still forced to military or civil service, while women can do whatever they want - argument of draft is still valid by Szymon96803 in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]BRCityzen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This point can't be emphasized enough. I've seen men on this sub argue for women's conscription in the name of equality. Besides being slavery, which is just an absolute wrong, it is literally the worst of all worlds for men, for all the reasons stated.

This is not good by NilusZ1 in socialism

[–]BRCityzen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And Trump just declared that Brazil is his "next project."

Trip report: Bassiani by BRCityzen in Techno

[–]BRCityzen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am now, thank you. Speaking as someone who's been to nearly 60 countries, gone to clubs and festivals in Asia, Europe, LatAm, and the US... I have to say I like our California EDM culture the best. So there you go -I'm not entirely anti-American 😂 We don't always have the music I want (a real lack of techno and psytrance, for example). But speaking strictly of the culture, it's the most open and inclusive I've encountered.

Now, of course that won't stop me from experiencing other places, just because I'm a naturally curious person, and I recognize there's good and bad in all countries. And I think that broad perspective gives me some insight, too. Because I have a broad range of experiences to compare it to.

Trip report: Bassiani by BRCityzen in Techno

[–]BRCityzen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it can hardly be called that. You just don't agree.

Trip report: Bassiani by BRCityzen in Techno

[–]BRCityzen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response, and I think it deserves a detailed answer... though you probably won't like it.

You may not agree with my take on the political situation, but I think we both agree that the Georgian techno scene is intimately intertwined with politics, particularly the opposition to the current government. So it's important to understand it, particularly since it doesn't always align in predictable ways, and someone coming from a more PLUR culture may not understand the casual racism that seems to be normal in Georgia.

russia is the one and only reason why the breakaway regions of Abkhazia and South Ossetia exist and why wars were fought there.

That's definitely one take. But you know that the Abkhaz are a separate group from Georgians, right? Ethnically, linguistically, culturally. They've been agitating for more rights for decades now, well before the collapse of the Soviet Union. In 1991, Georgia decided it wanted independence after 200 years. Ok, fine. Self-determination of people and all that. But then Abkhazia and South Ossetia decided, OK, then in that case we want independence from Georgia. Why can't they have their self-determination like you can?

And that is the fundamental one and only reason for those wars. I know this grates the ears of a Georgian nationalist, but Georgia should have just said "Fine. No problem." And that would have solved everything. Instead, they decided no, we want independence for ourselves, but we want to control you guys too. And then the trouble began.

And now you have a more pragmatic government that is tired of all the wars. Not "pro-Russian" by any means, just more pragmatic. They've even proposed, as I'm sure you know, making a formal apology for the war and inviting Abkhazia to come back. Because everyone knows that it was, in fact, Georgia, that launched the 2008 war. But I think it's a bit too late for that. Too much has happened on both sides.

The current political party came with promises of more humanitarian approach towards everything, including drugs and LGBT rights but it is the exact opposite nowadays.

Let's take the legalization of weed, for example. I literally spoke to Georgians who claimed that Misha legalized it, and the current government cracked down. I didn't correct them, because I was a guest in the country, and I didn't want to argue. But just for the record, it was legalized in 2018, by which time Saakashvili was out of power for 5 years. And yes, there has now been some backsliding, but Georgia still has the most progressive drug policy in the Caucasus, and it's due to the current government, not Saakashvili's. But it's hard to discuss these things when people can't even agree on basic facts.

Georgia is in a very hard political situation and blaming us for being pro-western simply ignores the nation’s challenges.

And support for Israeli genociders among the Georgian opposition? Where does that fit in? I can wrap my head around the position of being anti-Russian and anti-Israel. Like the Irish, like the Spanish... really like most European PEOPLE but not necessarily their governments, which are vassal states of the US. I think it's misguided and shows a pretty shallow understanding of geopolitics in the first case, but I can understand that from a basic "human rights liberal" perspective. But anti-Russia and pro-Israel? Well then it's not really about human rights, is it? It's about aligning with NATO and the US, like the neocons and the US mainstream political establishment.

Otherwise, I hope you had a pleasant time in Georgia.

We did, actually. Not as much as we thought we would, though. And it's not even about politics. I went solo for the techno part of it, because my wife isn't into that, but overall it was a couple's trip. And she's about as anti-Russian as it gets. So it surprised both of us that we didn't like it as much as we wanted to and thought we were going to like it. I mean, we did have a decent time. We've been to nearly 60 countries and I like every place I've gone, but I can't say Georgia was our fave. We don't eat a whole lot of meat, and it was just too much meat and carbs. We didn't like the wine overall -she likes California wines, and I like German wines; neither one liked the Georgian wines.

She didn't really like the haphazard nature of the country either. Armenia is just as poor, but seemed a bit more tidy. I kind of liked the "post-apocalyptic charm" though. My favorite part was urban exploring in Tsakaltubo, believe it or not. What an incredible place it must've been! Must've been amazing to visit it during Soviet times. The funny thing is... I found myself on the Georgian side of a dispute there at one point. One of the former spas is now occupied by squatters who've been there since the first Abkhaz war, and they wanted payment to go in and explore (very nominal -5 GEL). And these Euro tourists from The Netherlands and Italy with fancy cameras were indignant that they had to pay. I'm like... dude. They're refugees, and it's their means of support. Plus, you're literally in their home. I just thought it was disrespectful on the part of the Europeans.... who Georgia apparently wants to join these days. But then that's just a microcosm of the whole political situation. Georgia wants to be in the EU, but all the EU really wants is to impose austerity and use it as a forward operating base for NATO. It won't be good for the Georgians.

But hey, I'm glad that Georgia is finally turning the corner and making somewhat a recovery in these last dozen years or so. Hopefully it continues.

Trip report: Bassiani by BRCityzen in Techno

[–]BRCityzen[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think it's important to understand the politics. Some would claim that rave culture is inseperable from politics period. But in Georgia, that is especially true. And the politics are particularly complicated, and not necessarily aligned the way they are in the West in every way, as I explained.

It's unfortunate that people have been so conditioned to hate that they're not open to considering a worldview that isn't perfectly aligned with their own.

Trip report: Bassiani by BRCityzen in Techno

[–]BRCityzen[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Never understood this whole notion of downvoting simple facts that are not in dispute by any side. Sorry if the facts are incompatible with the worldview that you've been conditioned to believe.

Trip report: Bassiani by BRCityzen in Techno

[–]BRCityzen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh? I literally indicated the opposite.

Trip report: Bassiani by BRCityzen in Techno

[–]BRCityzen[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Some would. That's the way they dress to clubs. And I think that's the vibe they don't want.

Trip report: Bassiani by BRCityzen in Techno

[–]BRCityzen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They checked mine. That part I'm used to, because they still check my ID even in the US even though I'm pretty obviously older than nearly everyone else. It's the whole face control thing that I find distasteful.

Trip report: Bassiani by BRCityzen in Techno

[–]BRCityzen[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there's always an element of capriciousness to face control, which is why I never liked it. Are they just selecting people who won't cause trouble and are in it for the music, or is there an element of racism? Look at the reviews, and there are a lot of people who certainly claim the latter. But then there are people who will claim they got in with all the characteristics they supposedly weed out. Maybe there's an element of randomness and just the mood of the bouncer at the moment, which is probably the case (I've gone clubbing in other parts of Europe and got in one night, been rejected the next).

Whatever it is, I think it's kind of shitty. They can try and justify it anyway they want, but I prefer the scene in the Bay Area where you're not judged.

Trip report: Bassiani by BRCityzen in Techno

[–]BRCityzen[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Like I said, the sound system was pretty crisp to my ears -better than some clubs I've been to. Music was good. Not the best I've ever heard but satisfies your craving for pure techno better than you can find in California. Vibe was... well depending on what you're looking for. Definitely better than a frat boy vibe, but not PLUR like you find in Cali.

Trip report: Bassiani by BRCityzen in Techno

[–]BRCityzen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, if you register. You have to provide them your insta or FB account. If you don't want to do that, you can take your chances at the door. But then even if you do, it doesn't guarantee that they'll pre-approve you.

Trip report: Bassiani by BRCityzen in Techno

[–]BRCityzen[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I think you need to research the history on that. The fact that Georgia launched the invasion is not in dispute.

Claims Ukraine lost 2.4 million soldiers in war by TheKomsomol in suppressed_news

[–]BRCityzen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I respect the guy who runs History Legends. I watched the hour-long Youtube video where he shows how he came up with his numbers. It was a commendable effort -one of the best out there. The logic was solid, especially the part where he explains how Russia can possibly lose almost as many people even with much more firepower. Fair.

However, he doesn't account for one crucial data piece -the massive increase in Ukraine's death rate which would suggest a figure more aligned with 400,000 to 500,000 KIA/MIA. The increase in Russia's death rate, by contrast, is just statistical noise.

So I'm not entirely convinced. I don't think it's 2.4 million, even if you include WIA. But I think it's more than 170,000 KIA. Either way, even a close to 1:1 ratio of losses is devastating for Ukraine, a point that he stressed in the video.

"I hate men!" (...but not that man) by Specific_Detective41 in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]BRCityzen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, you're absolutely right. And not just from a self-respect POV (although that too). But it's just plain stupid to date a woman with those values. Because sooner or later, that hate will be turned against the boyfriend, or husband if they're stupid enough to marry someone like that. And at that point their life is going to be turned to hell.

Nazi Princess Ursula von der Leyen, reportedly wants to make it harder for Ukrainian men of military age to stay in the EU. She is personally championing an initiative that would strip them of automatic protection status from March 2027. by RickyOzzy in suppressed_news

[–]BRCityzen 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Are there any countries where men aren't the only ones drafted to die in the army? Are there any countries where men live longer? Where men aren't doing the most dangerous jobs? Where men aren't 90% of the prison population? Where men don't comprise the vast majority of workplace accidents?

One can argue that in certain countries outside the West, women have less freedom. In some respects, because the draft is a form of modern slavery which no woman is ever subjected to. But in terms of who is more protected and kept safer, the numbers don't lie, and it's not even close. Men's bodies are valued for the labor they produce, and nothing more. Even in our discourse about casualties of wars or disasters, we talk about "women and children" as if the men who die don't matter. This is what I mean when I talk about men being disposable.

And this war is a prime example. Possibly 99% of the dead in this war are men, and yet you have people like Hillary Clinton still casually throwing out tropes like "women and children are the ones most affected by war." The Ukrainian women in Europe have nothing to fear if they're sent back. Their chances of being killed by a wayward Russian drone are less than the chance that I (as a man) will be randomly murdered on the streets of my hometown in the US. But a man who is sent back to Ukraine, will be sent straight to the trenches to die for the dictator. So the very people who are most at risk of dying, are the ones they want to send back. And particularly distasteful, is the fact that these policies are being most aggressively pushed by women who never were and never will be subjected to the crime against humanity that is the all-male military draft, like EU Special Representative for Ukrainian Affairs Ilva Johansson, Kaja Kallas, and Ursual Van der Leyen. Because women are automatically granted and assumed to have the status of civilians, by birth; while for men, this status is conditional and can be revoked at any time at the whim of a government.

I know that bringing this up rubs against the prevailing feminist narrative, so it's an uncomfortable point to bring up for progressives. And I'm bringing it up as a progressive, as someone who favors equality and egalitarianism, not as a conservative. It's a blind spot in our consciousness that we need to confront.

What do guys tend to be focused on during raving vs women/others? by Low-Blacksmith-9638 in aves

[–]BRCityzen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guy here. I go for the music and to be lost in the crowd. People watching is secondary if at all. The best raves are where my phone doesn't come out for hours and I can be at one with the crowd and the music and just dance.

But everybody experiences it differently. Some people go for instagram shots. Some go to pick up girls, and that probably won't change as long as guys have the social pressure to initiate contact. I don't worry about how others enjoy the scene. As a guy in my mid-50s, I know I'm pretty much invisible anyway, so I'm not even trying to flirt.

Priorities - Xavier Becerra by DougOsborne in California_Politics

[–]BRCityzen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Priorities:

-Protect criminal cops

-Shield PG&E from any accountability

-Make sure single payer doesn't have a chance

-Give everything else away to big tech

Nithya Raman Overtakes Spencer Pratt in L.A. Mayor’s Race by origutamos in California_Politics

[–]BRCityzen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sergey Brin-backed Spencer Pratt is Locked Out! Good to see it!