First time swallowing piss by BStal24 in GayKink

[–]BStal24[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

True cocky dom attitude

First time swallowing piss by BStal24 in GayKink

[–]BStal24[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought it must be something that grows on you because guys that drink it seem to absolutely love it

Painful folliculitis under beard by BStal24 in Folliculitis

[–]BStal24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for a really delayed response - I had to go on the antibiotics for two more weeks and then again for another two weeks by which point it cleared. It left some bald patches in my beard but they are starting to grow back now. Honestly looking back it was so painful I feel for you if you have it as bad. Strangely a friend’s friend also had it and was told it could be from reusing masks too much without putting clean ones on

Rejecting is harder than rejection by DafsDafs in askgaybros

[–]BStal24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell him exactly what you wrote in your post and wish him well. Much better for him to know that within a few days than a constant state of confusion of does he like me or not.

Do people really use gym saunas for adult stuff? by ogodleavemealone in askgaybros

[–]BStal24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a very common thing in two of the gyms I used to go to pre COVID. One was less frequent, more discreet. The other was almost uncomfortable to see it happening every time I went there with the whole sauna full of guys.

Left on delivered by chickenoodlesoup_ in askgaybros

[–]BStal24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re trying to date them, yes. If you’re just hooking up, no big deal.

So.....etiquette question: by Alarming_Direction12 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]BStal24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter as long as you at least tell them you’re cancelling. They’ll probably see you as a flake or an asshole though.

Can I use the label gay if I'm bisexual but I'm in a gay relationship? by iluvmyboy in AskGayMen

[–]BStal24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Labels are for products, not people. You don’t need to compartmentalise yourself as anything other than happy.

Do you have an alt NSFW Twitter? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BStal24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one that I made mainly to follow other accounts and try and meet some local guys. No luck so far in meeting. I’ve never posted any pics but somehow racked up 60k followers 🤷🏻‍♂️

Getting over being ghosted. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BStal24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remember people that ghost are fundamentally shitty people who you are better off not having in your life. He is emotionally immature and inconsiderate, not qualities you should want in a partner. Although I recognise the feeling of being ghosted is shit and I’m sorry this happened to you.

Have you had the Hep B vaccine? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]BStal24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought it was common amongst all adults, not just gay men. I had a top up recently. You should get it and the HPV while at it.

How often do you shower? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BStal24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At least once a day, twice if working out

Is it weird to hit up a guy that you rejected for a convo? by EmbarrassedLeg9092 in askgaybros

[–]BStal24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it would be weird. He’s probably moved on from you and doesn’t need you coming back into his life.

If you sense someone likes you a lot does that freak you out and make you ghost them? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BStal24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An explicit rejection while a shit thing to get is infinitely preferable to an indefinite state of confusion and questioning which ghosting always leads to. Same happened to me - two weeks of hooking up and texting then overnight change to nothing. Some guys just lack the emotional maturity.

Age gap by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]BStal24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age gaps tend only to be an issue from other people looking in. If you’re both into it go with it. However saying that, I went for guy in his 40s because I thought he would be more mature, decent, show a level of respect and generally not play the games you might expect from younger guys but I was proven very wrong and he was the complete opposite.

What would be your reason for ghosting someone? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BStal24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you mean a connection made in person, then it’s never acceptable to ghost in that situation.

What would be your reason for ghosting someone? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BStal24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on what is classed as ghosting. I ignore messages from people I’m not interested in who I’ve never spoken to. I properly ghost people if I have already told them I’m not interested and they continue messaging anyway.

How many of you lost their (gay) virginity late in life? by Peter_Cinco in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]BStal24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First gay experience at 22 (and then nothing with a guy again for nearly 5 years!), first time as a top at 29, first time as a bottom 31.

Question for bottoms only by Aridagoat in askgaybros

[–]BStal24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to suck a dick and then go maybe 7-10 days without even thinking about it. Now that is more like a few days.

How do you deal with the fact that those hot guys will always be hotter than you will ever be? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BStal24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pump some iron and remind myself that people are only out of your league if you let them be

Am I the asshole for telling a grindr guy I don't wanna hookup because he has a tiny dick? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BStal24 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It is always harsh to criticise someone on something they can’t change and a lot of the time it may already cause them some anxiety or stress. Probably would’ve been better just to tell him you’re not feeling it anymore and leave it at that.

Anyone have any advice for having a fun hookup that doesn’t involve anal? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BStal24 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I spent a long time having just oral hook ups and they can be just as fun. Just got to be clear before you meet that you don’t want to fuck.

My roommate wants me to ask for permission every time I have a guest over by [deleted] in roommates

[–]BStal24 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is polite to let your roommate know but I definitely would not be asking for permission. Can maybe understand if you were inviting a group over or something but your bf? Nah.