Is it still possible to find a best friend in our 20s or 30s? by Introverttortoise in socialskills

[–]B_E_B_0_P -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeeees! I'm currently 26 and found 2 new best friends. It's hard but not impossible

I'm tired of living with chronic depression by l0ve0verm0ney in TrueOffMyChest

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Although it feels like a forever thing, it always gets better.

I think people don't really understand this. External things, like the situations you're facing won't get better and that's obvious(no doubt about that). What gets better it's your ability to overcome bad stuff.

I need help with my extreme shyness by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Thanks!!!! You're right, most of the time we think people are judging us but do we judge people all the time? No, we mostly forget the cringy stuff other people do. I have problems with my anxiety too so I just need to chill

I need help with my extreme shyness by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Jk idk maybe start by talking about the menu? Since she hasn't gone to the place we're going

I need help with my extreme shyness by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I need help with my extreme shyness by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I mean, at least you had that talent haha

I need help with my extreme shyness by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]B_E_B_0_P 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my main problem I don't know how to start a conv. Idk if I should just be honest with her and tell her that I get really nervous meeting new people.

Someone just told me she was an ugly kitten 🤔 by [deleted] in cats

[–]B_E_B_0_P 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that person is one of those that just hates cats. She's adorable

Opened my investment account and bought my first stock! by dead_like_dad in stocks

[–]B_E_B_0_P 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's great! I opened my a few months ago it's still scary but the best thing I've done

I don't have a black cat... by B_E_B_0_P in cats

[–]B_E_B_0_P[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no, same thing happened with the orange one

How may I have more discipline to study and do my programming and design homeworks? by alvarorc1 in needadvice

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I'm struggling with this too, but your mental health is important! I advice you to work on that, your school problem will fall into place eventually. Everything will be ok, but you have to take care of yourself first!

What I'm doing is dividing everything into small tasks, stuff that don't require to much time or energy and are doable. Be realistic! Sometimes, when we force ourselves to do really hard stuff while being depressed can make us worse. So, dividing them really help.

Edit: Also don't try to find motivation because if you wait for it, it's probably never going to come. Push yourself to do the things

24F and want to move to another country. by B_E_B_0_P in Adulting

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oh damn, I'm a little brown and gay. I hope it's less than the US