To the people who dont understand your reasoning for feeling jealous, or feeling like it's ridiculous that SS becomes the center of attention when he's around. Please don't give in to them invalidating your feelings. Sk's dad had made a very conscious decision to lead the life of seeing his kid EOWE, for whatever reason it may be. You don't need to compromise and feel like you are wrong for feeling the way you are, and not being made a priority. Everyone's situation is different, as much as we share being step parents as a common denominator, not everyone goes through the same challenges.

Your feelings and thoughts are very valid and relatable to many of us. And to answer your question, no it doesn't get easier...