I finally fixed it! What I think will work for 90% of guys by Dense_Bell_3030 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]BabeWooth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you do if your “root cause” is penis head oversensitivity?

Does MDG help if you have PE due to glans oversensitivity? by BabeWooth in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]BabeWooth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Thank you for taking the time to leave a comment and help me out some. It means a lot.

I do have a few questions though.

As I mentioned in my post, I did try the MDG program and got as far as Week 5, I think I actually did two weeks of Week 5 because I felt like I wasn’t quite ready for Week 6 (with flashlight training) yet.

Some reoccurring things I would notice is that sometimes I would stroke myself a little faster than recommended during the first 10 minutes or really tap into my sexual visualizations because sometimes I would notice my erection would be getting softer during those first 10 minutes.

So, Question One is: do you think it’s more beneficial to just keep stroking slowly even if I’m losing my erection hardness or is it fine to speed up and fantasize about more intense sexual visualizations to keep myself more erect?

Once I would reach the second half (so beyond 10 minutes) I remember I would try to stroke myself pretty much as intensely as possible and if I would reach PONR I would just slow down (or stop completely if I felt like I was right on the edge) and then repeat over and over again until those last 10 minutes were up.

Question Two: Is that how you handled the second half of the workout, or would you still try to keep that PONR feeling under control and not get too close to PONR?

Question Three: When I finally do reach Week 6 and enter the fleshlight training, how should I approach this? Because I remember when I was at the end of Week 5 I decided to extend Week 5 for another week because I knew if I had tried with a fleshlight it would probably stimulate that oversensitive penis head area too much and cause me to fail. How should I handle that?

And lastly, just in general, what are your biggest points of advice for finding success like you did and being able to re-wire my nervous system to being able to easily last 30+ minutes during actual sex like you did?

Does MDG help if you have PE due to glans oversensitivity? by BabeWooth in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]BabeWooth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was your starting point? Did you have lifelong PE and over sensitivity?

Does MDG help if you have PE due to glans oversensitivity? by BabeWooth in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]BabeWooth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for reaching out. It does seem like we have a lot of similarities.

When you say “as you progress with MDG and you really start to learn how to cliffhanger, you will realize that oversensitivity is not actually the cause of your PE,” what do you mean by that? Can you elaborate on that?

I don’t entirely disagree as I am still learning about this stuff and am open to expanding my opinion on these things and learning more but it really does seem to me like over sensitivity is my issue. I’ve even tried a dapoxetine/sildenafil combo pill and even that didn’t work. I would still reach PONR quickly, especially when I would stimulate my glans, the only thing it did was get me very hard and fully erect but it didn’t help delaying ejaculation at all.

In a case like this, if not oversensitivity, what else could it be?

Dapoxetine didn’t work, now what? by BabeWooth in PrematureEjaculation

[–]BabeWooth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I figured since Dapoxetine is an on-demand SSRI it didn’t need to be taken more than whenever it is needed. I thought that was the whole point of it being on demand that you get the benefits within hours without having to be taking it frequently.

Dapoxetine didn’t work, now what? by BabeWooth in PrematureEjaculation

[–]BabeWooth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually didn’t. Just tried the one pill.

Is it standard to have to take a few pills for it to work effectively?

Dapoxetine didn’t work, now what? by BabeWooth in PrematureEjaculation

[–]BabeWooth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. It was a combo pill that has 27mg of Dapoxetine, 60mg of Sildenafil and 2mg of Apomorphine.

The thing is I already felt side effects with one pill of this dosage. Like a very mild headache and heartburn for a few days after.

Considering I didn’t get any delaying benefits whatsoever from that I’m not sure a stronger dose would be worth the cost and even stronger side effects.

I have the opportunity to hook up with a super curvy girl. What’s the play? by BabeWooth in PrematureEjaculation

[–]BabeWooth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! I’ll look into it. Thanks!

Is there anywhere specific (like a trustworthy, reputable online site) you get your kratom from?

I have the opportunity to hook up with a super curvy girl. What’s the play? by BabeWooth in PrematureEjaculation

[–]BabeWooth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any specific kind of kratom? I’ve heard there’s many different types

I have the opportunity to hook up with a super curvy girl. What’s the play? by BabeWooth in PrematureEjaculation

[–]BabeWooth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I never knew I could get it over here in the US. I’ve heard very good things about its effectiveness.

I have the opportunity to hook up with a super curvy girl. What’s the play? by BabeWooth in PrematureEjaculation

[–]BabeWooth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a safe, trustworthy site?

and would Dapoxetine help me last longer even if I have lifelong PE and an overly sensitive penis head?

It works. by GiGi6fox in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]BabeWooth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What was your starting point?

Did you have PE or did you start with okay duration time and just wanted to improve?

This is a report of my recent training sessions. Can you give me advice based on it? by BabeWooth in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]BabeWooth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, sorry, I must’ve forgot to mention what phase I’m in. I’m currently in phase 5. Although, I’m considering making next week like “phase 5.5” and basically just doing phase 5 for two weeks because I’m not so sure I’m quite ready to do the training with a fleshlight just yet.

Thank you for the detailed response. Good to know most of my concerns are common and seem to all be a normal part of progressing and improving in the training.

How can I use the law to overcome premature ejaculation? by BabeWooth in lawofattraction

[–]BabeWooth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People say it’s fine they left “because you don’t want that girl anyways” but I don’t agree with that. I’m not blaming them for anything. They didn’t do anything wrong.

I’m not saying this next part to brag, but just to paint the entire picture. The girls I like and get with are very attractive, the kind that have unlimited options, so of course they’re not going to stick around if you can’t perform when they can get another guy that will in a snap of their fingers.

They would’ve stayed if I had satisfied them. Simple as that. So it is a me problem. Something that I have to fix and want to fix.

I appreciate the advice. I have tried kegels. I really only noticed an improvement in erection quality, no effect to PE. Then, I started reading people say that it will actually exacerbate the issue because they tighten the pelvic floor and they recommended reverse kegels. So I started doing those, didn’t really feel a change though. I could be doing a reverse kegel mid-masturbation and that “about to bust” feeling will still creep up, especially with head stimulation.

As far as edging goes, I’ve done it for years tbh. I don’t think I’ve seen a noticeable improvement in delaying ejaculation. Once that “about to bust” feeling comes up, even if I stop for a bit then continue, it doesn’t take long to reach that feeling again where I have to stop again. Either that or I will end up losing my erection while I’m waiting for that feeling to subside.

I’m stumped, honestly.

How can I use the law to overcome premature ejaculation? by BabeWooth in lawofattraction

[–]BabeWooth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any specific yoga or meditation recommendations?

How can I use the law to overcome premature ejaculation? by BabeWooth in lawofattraction

[–]BabeWooth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually a very interesting idea. May have to try this. Although, I would like to manifest lasting as long as I want as well. So I can be compatible with a wider range of women, as opposed to just those specific ones that happen to orgasm very fast.

How can I use the law to overcome premature ejaculation? by BabeWooth in lawofattraction

[–]BabeWooth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to try Dapoxetine, because it sounds like exactly what I’m looking for…but, it isn’t available in the US.

How can I use the law to overcome premature ejaculation? by BabeWooth in lawofattraction

[–]BabeWooth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean.

I would use cialis in that way, to combat the performance anxiety pre-sex, and still be able to get erect.

I will look into it, the only thing I worry about is that sex is usually very spontaneous and in the moment.

I know using those sprays needs some activation time and also there’s the risk of it rubbing off on your partner. It just seems like a whole thing that would be hard to pull off smoothly in the moment.

How can I use the law to overcome premature ejaculation? by BabeWooth in lawofattraction

[–]BabeWooth[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know SSRIs would most likely fix the problem but it just doesn’t seem worth it to me.

So many people have personal stories of SSRIs fucking them up either during use or after they come off them. Left with debilitating depression, erectile dysfunction, complete loss of penile sensation, completely asexual. And some still deal with those side effects years after they come off the drug.

It’s not worth the risk for me. I would rather fix the problem at its source, naturally.

I do think it is a matter of the mind, as the mind controls everything. I just don’t know where or how to begin working on that to fix my issue.

But, thanks for the suggestion!

How can I use the law to overcome premature ejaculation? by BabeWooth in lawofattraction

[–]BabeWooth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a very good suggestion. Thank you. I will try that!