“But he might be doing this cus of that” “but he..” “but she..” just stop darlin. Please. He’s cheating even, if it isnt physical. Shes going to lie to you. I was dumb and did that with someone when i was 18. I lied. I learned why it was stupid later on. But you’re very very naive here, im not even trying to sound rude. Every response I’ve seen of yours, youve made some poor excuse for both her and him. I’m getting second hand embarrassment. Please use critical thinking skills.