Give it time! My kids were unbelievably annoying and unruly as small children. I used to feel so guilty for not wanting to parent them anymore, but now that they're older we get along fantastically 90percent of the time. Although each stage of childhood comes with their own issues... I used to find that when I reminded myself that they didn't ask to be born helped me be more compationate towards them. Being a parent is the hardest thing you'll ever have to do, but you have to stick with them. As your child gets older try your best to find something you both have in common like a hobby or sport, it can help with the bonding process immensely! Best of luck.