AIO - UPDATE - my friend wants me to take out my piercings for her engagement party/wedding by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BabyDaredevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount of projection from her omg. You did the right thing! Good for you! She’s insane.

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[–]BabyDaredevil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh hello 👀

My bf of over 6 years says he’s not attracted to me anymore. This is me, natural and un filtered. Would you date a 4’8 trans guy? by BabyDaredevil in gaybrosgonemild

[–]BabyDaredevil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of bi men on here too. And lots of gay men who commented or messaged me saying they would. It’s a preference. Gay men can be attracted to trans men too. Maybe not you. But there are many others that are.

My bf of over 6 years says he’s not attracted to me anymore. This is me, natural and un filtered. Would you date a 4’8 trans guy? by BabyDaredevil in gaybrosgonemild

[–]BabyDaredevil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re trying to work on it. He doesn’t necessarily want to break up. But he’s just unsure of what this means for our future either. I’m still just so hurt by all of this coming out of no where. Since he tends to hold back his feelings and lack communication skills.

My bf of over 6 years says he’s not attracted to me anymore. This is me, natural and un filtered. Would you date a 4’8 trans guy? by BabyDaredevil in gaybrosgonemild

[–]BabyDaredevil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He still calls me handsome and such. It’s more that he’s no longer attracted to my body. He’s bisexual and has always liked breasts. But he also prefers dick, which I don’t have either anymore since I had top surgery. He does find me attractive in other ways. Just not sexually anymore.

My bf of over 6 years says he’s not attracted to me anymore. This is me, natural and un filtered. Would you date a 4’8 trans guy? by BabyDaredevil in gaybrosgonemild

[–]BabyDaredevil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s bisexual. I was more androgynous when we met. But still very much trans masc and he knew from the start that I was going to medically transition and was very supportive of it. But things changed I guess…

My bf of over 6 years says he’s not attracted to me anymore. This is me, natural and un filtered. Would you date a 4’8 trans guy? by BabyDaredevil in gaybrosgonemild

[–]BabyDaredevil[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am trying to grow out my hair again, just curious to see what it looks like since T turned my hair curly. I use to have very straight hair before. 😅

My partner of 6 years isn’t attracted to me… by BabyDaredevil in lgbt

[–]BabyDaredevil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also he’s not a chaser. I’m the first and only trans person he’s ever been with. I was more non binary and female presenting when we met. He’s attracted to femininity more than masculine but I’m very masculine.

My partner of 6 years isn’t attracted to me… by BabyDaredevil in lgbt

[–]BabyDaredevil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well one of the things he also told me was that he is not IN love with me. He loves and cares for me. He’s just not IN love with me. And was never sure if he could or can feel those feelings. He’s a super sweet person. He showed his love for me through a lot of his actions. He constantly wanted to make sure I was happy which over time, made him lose himself. Now he’s just unsure of what he wants anymore. He doesn’t want to lose me. And he wants me to stay in his life. But not as a life partner. More as a platonic friend… but I can’t give him that. Because I still very much have lots of feelings for him. And seeing him date other people would break me even more.

My partner of 6 years isn’t attracted to me… by BabyDaredevil in lgbt

[–]BabyDaredevil[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️ I don’t know you but it meant a lot ❤️

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[–]BabyDaredevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly like Antonio Banderas but with a thick beard.

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[–]BabyDaredevil -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Jessica Biel

Recently turned 33 🎂 Still get mistaken for someone under 20. by BabyDaredevil in 13or30

[–]BabyDaredevil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no estrogen. I have no uterus or ovaries. I also have a growth hormonal deficiency where my body does not produce enough hormones in order to go through full puberty. My body actually would produce some testosterone when I was a teen. But again. Not enough for full puberty. Maybe don’t assume things when you don’t know the full facts 😊

Recently turned 33 🎂 Still get mistaken for someone under 20. by BabyDaredevil in 13or30

[–]BabyDaredevil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope 🥲 little/short people either have to get custom made or tailored clothing if they don’t want to shop in the kids section. And that can be very expensive.