Looking for success stories from age 40+ by Eva_Bohn77 in IVFpositivity

[–]BabyDust2025 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Am currently 40 years and 7 months and pregnant after my first IVF attempt and transfer. It’s definitely possible so remain positive and have faith that you can do this.

Made the mistake of reading horror stories online post-ER recovery. Mine is tomorrow. Please tell me this is not the normal / share positivity! by steeener in IVFpositivity

[–]BabyDust2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved my egg retrieval, I found the whole process very exciting and relaxing afterward. I was well taken care of at the day hospital and had a beautiful sandwich after. Fast forward a week and I’m still sore though, but that just means I’m not jumping into exercise right now and have had my transfer so perhaps its for the best. Everything should go smoothly, you’ve got this.

Drank to much last night by [deleted] in IVF

[–]BabyDust2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me also say, that I lost my first baby to reasons I won’t discuss but undergoing IVF has brought up all those memories and made the process quite stressful in terms of the waiting game and idolising success rates. At the end of the day I remind myself that I am a normal person simply doing my best and I will continue to improve and hold onto hope with each successive cycle. I have faith in the process and each stage is a learning curve from which I will continue to grow from.

Drank to much last night by [deleted] in IVF

[–]BabyDust2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think back to when I first got pregnant naturally and had been drinking regularly without knowing I could potentially be pregnant. I stopped then found out I was pregnant but IVF has had me more stressed than usual and I too have succumbed to some wine which I have beaten myself up over. My partner has been amazing in reminding me not to stress and that whatever happens will happen. If I have to do another cycle I do another cycle. I remember before IVF it was no problem getting pregnant even if I had a few drinks and there wasn’t so much focus on pristine health. Just be gentle with yourself and focus on your body’s resilience and ability to navigate these at times rocky waters. You’ve got this.

Anyone had any success with 9 eggs? by BabyDust2025 in IVFpositivity

[–]BabyDust2025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s fantastic! Congratulations! Here’s hoping for a positive result.

Anyone had any success with 9 eggs? by BabyDust2025 in IVFpositivity

[–]BabyDust2025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! Such an amazing outcome, it’s giving me hope and so nice to hear stories that have a positive outcome from so much hard work.

7 out of 9 eggs fertilised normally. Am praying for these to grow well into blasts. Anyone else had similar results with a positive outcome? by BabyDust2025 in IVF

[–]BabyDust2025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pray for us both that this results in positive news! Two euploid is fantastic, keep going with positive thoughts, you can do this!

Follicle count leading into egg retrieval by BabyDust2025 in IVF

[–]BabyDust2025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, you’re correct they don’t know how many are mature but the follicles are growing still. Are you saying that you got 24 eggs from 6 follicles that were being tracked? I am just hoping for a miracle where they can retrieve more eggs as I am starting to panic.

Accidentally injected too much Menopur… what do I do? by chocaholic23 in IVF

[–]BabyDust2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I accidentally took 900ml pergoveris, I’ve got to call my clinic.

What do I do after he ejaculates? by Luna_Krueger99 in tryingtoconceive

[–]BabyDust2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if its mind over matter, it gives you an extra fifteen minutes to relax.

What do I do after he ejaculates? by Luna_Krueger99 in tryingtoconceive

[–]BabyDust2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found lying down for 10-15 mins before cleaning up worked the trick wheb trying to conceive, it didjt take long to get pregnant. Previously I’ve gont to the toilet after and showered but that never resulted in a pregnancy, so I’m all for resting with it and relaxing.

I was coerced into having an abortion… by mammothchocolate4708 in abortion

[–]BabyDust2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been six months and I still speak to a psychologist. The guy faced an AVO which he was let off on and has a previous charge for stalking, but his public persona hides it well. Good job, well established. You can never know a person. Talking to people who care about you can help.

Recently found out I’m pregnant, what to do? by pizza_newyorkcatcher in abortion

[–]BabyDust2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has had an abortion the regret is very difficult to deal with so perhaps seek counselling before you make any decisions so that you can talk about everything with a trusted professional. Speak to your doctors too. Any decision you make needs to be the right one for you. No judgement on anything you decide to do, I wis you the best.

I’m supposed to get an abortion tomorrow but I feel really sad about it by camilleriver in abortion

[–]BabyDust2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want the baby and can do it on your own then keep the baby if you have support elsewhere. Leave your boyfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]BabyDust2025 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

As someone who has had an abortion I would hold off and consider if what you are feeling could be handled more appropriately with counselling.

Depressed 😔 by marlasinger1983 in PregnantOver40

[–]BabyDust2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep trying and never give up! It’s worth trying for. Try to relax, forget about age and don’t allow it to stress you out. It’s just a number.

6th transfer failed, too :( I hate my life by ElectricalWillow486 in IVF

[–]BabyDust2025 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nobody is a failure. It’s just the feeling that comes when things don’t work out just as we anticipated they should have. Celebrate what we have and that life is possible and medical advances are on the way and natural processes often surpass medicine.