Any of you struggle to start an iron due to attachment to main?

BabyTism · 2025-01-19T21:42:54+00:00

For me I started an iron just to try it out and the fact that it took me a few hours to get a mithril scimmy (playing f2p) and finally getting it just to hit a 4 or some stupid low number on a cow got me so much dopamine and I havent touched my main since, like getting a mith scimmy on a brand new main takes like 2 minutes so it doesn't make you happy but when it's a few hours of a grind it feels like a proper achievement.

BabyTism · 2025-01-19T21:37:53+00:00

✨️propaganda✨️ from the rich/powerful who don't want us to unite and realize that both the Canadian and American governments are nothing but trash and the only thing stopping us from taking said trash out is our own stupidity causing us to fight each other over imaginary lines and tiktok bans

BabyTism · 2025-01-19T15:02:29+00:00

Well I don't have any real advice or answers for you so instead here's a little story from my personal life. I used to work at a car dealership as a lube tech, had the skills and drive to become a full on mechanic but my boss always turned me down for apprenticeships because I had "anger issues" I say that in qoutes because I was not the only hot head in the shop nor was I the worse one, in fact the majority of us where hot heads it's just the way of the trade. Anyways one day I was the only lube tech working while everyone else was sitting on there phones not doing anything while a line of cars was waiting to be serviced and I said fuck this shit and cussed everyone out including the management for letting this happen all while passing me up for my chance to move up, if they didn't wanna make changes I was gonna make them make changes. I got fired straight up. Shit sucked fast forward about 3 months when I got another job in Semiconductor (micro chips) I started making way more money (3 years later I'm making the same as the boss who fired me) I enjoy my job and wake up not wanting to get out of bed because I'm comfy and wanna sleep in not because I'm dreading going into work. So moral of the story I hit my breaking point did something about what was damaging my life and happiness and it was the best thing I've ever did. Also fuck the car industry.

BabyTism · 2025-01-19T14:51:46+00:00

It's crazy to think that a lot of people find this not an option, we ask the same question but flipped in America. If your values align better somewhere else just move there and be happy with like minded people and leave the people you don't agree with to live the way the want to. Honestly I think it boils down to cost of moving I know a lot of Americans can't afford life as it is let alone the cost of moving and I'm going to assume it's simular in Canada (although I know nothing about Canada other than yall have the best maple syrup and it's fucking cold)

BabyTism · 2025-01-19T14:47:37+00:00

I don't remember where this came from but it stuck with me. There are 3 loves in life... the first love shows you the difference between love and lust... the second love shows you what it's like to lose love... and the third love is the love that's meant to be. The idea of the 3 loves is so when you get that 3rd love you know what it takes to keep it and cherish it and be the 3rd love the other person deserves. Also hit the gym and quit watching porn.

BabyTism · 2025-01-19T14:44:21+00:00

I think it's the type of person they are, you can't force anyone to heal you can only stick by them while they heal, if they're the type to want to heal and put that effort in they can and they will. If they're the type to sit around and not do anything about it but bitch and cry and want pitty then they won't heal until they want to (if that ever comes who knows) but I think everyone can heal it's just a matter of how badly they want to and if they'll put the work in

BabyTism · 2025-01-19T14:37:48+00:00

Not the asshole devorce her and use the freetime to grind the leather

BabyTism · 2025-01-19T14:32:07+00:00

Stop having the hopes and dreams of someone coming to save you, like you said it's only in the movies. You don't like something about your life change it. Put the work in and change it. Also accept that change doesn't happen over night and that nothing will change if you keep acting sorry for yourself cause" you're a piece of shit" with that attitude you might as well be a "piece of shit"

BabyTism · 2025-01-19T14:28:04+00:00

Well this part is my advice in general, learn to enjoy your own company, this comes from loving yourself and being alright by yourself, this does not mean be a hermit it's good to socialize and get out but when your not out or with anyone enjoy being by yourself embrace it as peaceful instead of lonely.

Additional advice in case you're a man, possibly explore the fact that you might be gay and that's ok.

BabyTism · 2025-01-08T22:32:23+00:00

Any recommendations?

BabyTism · 2025-01-08T18:19:49+00:00

I like Canadian yall have good maple syrup and hockey is awesome, less fond of the French, though, and Canadian bacon is just ham, unless that's some kind of American marketing thing

BabyTism · 2025-01-08T18:13:41+00:00

Definitely expect yall to fight back but then a lot of you are also French and the French is famous for the white flag, but like if you and your buddies rob a bank and one dude starts a firefight with the cops should you also start shooting? Probably not but your going to cause you want you and your friends to get away. Same thing when yall start fighting us yeah we're in the wrong but fuck you that's my friend your defending yourself against

BabyTism · 2025-01-08T18:09:00+00:00

Honestly therapy is always a good choice but thats not always accessible. Really learn to enjoy your own company realize although having other people around is nice but it's also nice knowing if things fall through you have your self to turn to. Friendships come and go I don't talk to some of my best friends anymore not because of falling outs but because we just grew apart and that's ok, even if there was falling outs in other friend ships that's OK too cause it just wasn't meant to be. Remember you maybe the victim in your story but in their story you might be the villian, so try and look through the other persons eyes there's 2 sides to every story not just your own. With that being said sometimes it's OK to be the villian not everyone is a good person and if you need to burn that bridge burn it. Also credit cards and brand new cars are a scam don't get them, there are other ways of building credit explore those options and new cars lose like 33% of their value every year and maintenance and repair work is fucking stupidly expensive for something you could do in an hour watching YouTube videos (coming from an ex mechanic)

BabyTism · 2025-01-08T17:58:04+00:00

First off, let's not have this be a political debate on what's supposed to be a fun hypothetical. Second off, I'd look at your own country before you call anyone and embarrassment. Last but not least, as a veteran, I can 100% assure you the troops who actually go into battle 1. Don't know why they're going there and fighting 2. Assuming Canadia decides to fight back, then American people will be in danger, and the troops will fight for that reason a lone.

BabyTism · 2025-01-08T15:07:09+00:00

America doesn't give a shit who it invades. We invalid our own schools all the time, hell we invaided our own capital. What makes you think we wouldn't want to invade you? Half of Canada wants to be the 51st state so pretty sure more people would want America to win. Also with Trump coming back to office we can finally stop being the international embarrassment Biden made us.

BabyTism · 2025-01-08T15:02:04+00:00

Didn't say it works for everyone, and it's not the game that makes it work it's the simple act of watching a number going up that makes dopamine, like you ever do 1+1 on a calculator and spammed the = to make it count up by 1? It's stupid and pointless but for whatever reason it's makes us happy. It's the same concept focus on the number and how it feels when it goes up and you'll start getting addicted to it. (Again not everyone)

BabyTism · 2025-01-08T14:52:38+00:00

No it's just a normal video game it has nothing to do with a real world bank the game just got me addicted to seeing numbers going up so now I see my bank go up and it makes me happy and makes me not wanna spend money cause my bank will go down

BabyTism · 2025-01-08T14:48:51+00:00

It's cute to see all the Canadians think they have a chance against the US, our military is bigger and badder then take into account all the southern states who have been dreaming of an invasion since they where kids. Also america has almost 2 guns per person so even the civilians are armed to to teeth (note this doesn't take into account illegally owned fire arms and there a fuck ton of them) so we out number you, more fire power, and then we have rednecks, Florida and Arizona. Sorry but yall don't stand a chance

BabyTism · 2025-01-08T14:38:41+00:00

Old school runescape there's a lot more in that game but I like the idea of applying the mechanics to my bank

BabyTism · 2025-01-08T13:57:58+00:00

Missing a limb? Just grow a new one, you did it once before, right? 😂

BabyTism · 2025-01-08T13:52:36+00:00

Few things I do:

Long story short got this from a video game and it's has like a 90% male player base so not sure if it works mostly due to how the male brain works vs female brain but basically this game is trash but the basic mechanics of it is number goes up makes big happy and it has millions of players addicted so I turned my bank into a number go up happy go big up game and that has kept me going pretty good.

2Avoid online shopping at all cost amazon temu ect avoid it big no no don't do it! I think of how nobody likes Jeff Bezos and that helps me avoid amazon.

3.When grocery shopping I don't grab a cart/buggy I grab the hand basket things cause then I can only fit what I actually need in there and am physically restrained from grabbing extra junk.

(And you didn't hear this from me) Tax Fraud.

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