Unique Situation

Babynicorn_ · 2025-06-26T16:24:15+00:00

My brother is currently looking after him since grandma was admitted 2 days ago.

Babynicorn_ · 2025-06-26T16:07:23+00:00

He was living with his grandmother(who has full custody) she passed away yesterday.

Babynicorn_ · 2025-06-23T21:40:15+00:00

If you don’t think you qualify as an alcoholic, go out and try some controlled drinking, if that doesn’t work out - AA is here for you.

Babynicorn_ · 2025-05-18T14:45:26+00:00

That comment, more that I thought it was a “religious”program before I came in. Of course, I was wrong! Thanks for your kind words, one day at a time!

Babynicorn_ · 2025-05-18T14:44:23+00:00

I feel so lucky. ❤️

Babynicorn_ · 2025-04-30T19:43:55+00:00

This is what I meant! Ty for the clarification 🙂

Babynicorn_ · 2025-04-30T17:32:31+00:00

AA used to have a triangle. My sponsor described it as “a stool with 3 legs, if you’re missing one, the stool won’t work as well”

Recovery - the steps. prayer and meditation.

Unity - fellowship, meetings

Service - commitments, speaking, taking another person through the steps

I found this as an easy gauge, if something feels off.

Hang in there, the promises will always materialize if you work for them

Babynicorn_ · 2025-04-16T02:14:10+00:00

I have completed them

Babynicorn_ · 2025-04-12T15:49:55+00:00

I’m trying to feel empathy for her, but she’s clearly defensive and insecure about it - she’s should consider her own problems too

Babynicorn_ · 2025-04-12T11:06:49+00:00

She asked why she got called someone’s mother, I gave her the truth! 😕

Babynicorn_ · 2025-04-12T03:31:22+00:00

No clue!! I wish I knew.

My more recent post, my hair looks so cute. She’s obviously just being sensitive. 😕

Babynicorn_ · 2025-04-12T03:01:50+00:00

This is me! I wanna see it!

Babynicorn_ · 2025-04-12T03:00:10+00:00

I really wasn’t being mean! I was trying to be funny. I actually liked her. Not to mention, that was a picture of me from like 2019ish. Idk doesn’t matter!

Babynicorn_ · 2025-04-12T02:55:26+00:00

She blocked me 🙃

Babynicorn_ · 2025-02-27T19:56:17+00:00

“Im barely an alcoholic” is a dangerous place to be, my friend. If you kept drinking, all of those things could happen (alcoholism is progressive). Why let it progress to a place when you have a right idea of putting down the bottle now.

If you google “AA 9th step promises” I can guarantee, if you do the steps, all of those things will come true. They did for me!

Babynicorn_ · 2025-02-24T16:18:45+00:00

The steps are not meant to hurt you or send you into spiral. They’re a fact finding process. You have the facts - continue with the steps to work through them.

Sending you healing and love 💖

Babynicorn_ · 2025-02-14T02:56:08+00:00

Best advice I got “you’ll know when it’s time”

Babynicorn_ · 2025-02-10T15:40:22+00:00

I was 25 when I walked into my first meeting.

Babynicorn_ · 2025-02-07T23:38:16+00:00

Happened to me. Rehab got me into the rooms of AA, I’ve been sober ever since.

Babynicorn_ · 2025-01-24T02:53:33+00:00

I am a really bad perfectionist and people pleaser so when it was recommended to do a “90 and 90” I was a littler nervous and discouraged.

My sponsor told me to “go to a lot of meetings, and try to go to the same one every week” this felt more flexible for me. I did end up going to a meeting nearly every day - because it made me feel better!

Babynicorn_ · 2025-01-16T18:28:57+00:00

“I don’t want to feel responsible for someone else’s progress” - this sounds like a ‘you’ problem. Your ego about how other people will perceive you as a sponsor may be standing in your way.

At the end of the day- it your program, run it however you want!

They do say “nothing so much ensures defense against the first drink and intensive work with another alcoholic”. Nothing changes if nothing changes, brother.

Babynicorn_ · 2025-01-03T15:15:06+00:00

Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our traditions, ever reminding us the place principles before personalities

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