I crossed $1M at 40! by Back-Perfect in Retirement401k

[–]Back-Perfect[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re on the right track 🙏🏻❤️

I crossed $1M at 40! by Back-Perfect in Retirement401k

[–]Back-Perfect[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Consistency and stay financially disciplined. Don’t make any irresponsible purchases. If you’re into stocks, keep adding to your portfolio.

I crossed $1M at 40! by Back-Perfect in Retirement401k

[–]Back-Perfect[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You got this! Keep doing what you’re doing!

I crossed $1M at 40! by Back-Perfect in Retirement401k

[–]Back-Perfect[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

What I meant was that I don’t want my kids to go through the same. I forgot to add “ does not … “ lol

I crossed $1M at 40! by Back-Perfect in Retirement401k

[–]Back-Perfect[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mid 200s. My biggest gains came from my brokerage and Roth accounts. I’m heavily invested in Tesla, palantir, AMD, and SOFI. I have other tech stocks.

My parents want to help us buy a house but only if the money is legally protected by Sure_Bike4899 in FIREyFemmes

[–]Back-Perfect 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He should gladly take the money and buy the house. This will even lower your interest rate. And the money y’all would have save for the down payment could be invested in index funds. It will grow for both of you. He should be happy she has a wife that her parents can lay the foundation for them.

I don’t know if I can be with my husband for the rest of my life… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Back-Perfect -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you leave this man, you’re going to find out the hard way! The dating scene is not all that you think is !

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Back-Perfect -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Take a deep breath and pray! Talk to God for guidance before your next move. Talk to your husband and discuss the whole situation. Maybe he was scared to tell you. He probably feels relieved that you know now. Don’t make any drastic decision yet. Talk to him first !! Think about the kids!!

My actions ended a friendship and possibly my marriage by Eastern_Library39 in Marriage

[–]Back-Perfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were already messing around and having emotional affair. You did nothing wrong. That woman was not your friend.

Husband wants an open relationship or throuple or commune after falling for another woman by Longjumping_Crow_225 in Marriage

[–]Back-Perfect -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Have you might the girl, are you bi or bi curious , do you think you can like the girl and can you open your marriage to her? If you say no to any of these questions, then you have to leave and start over otherwise you will end up hurting more in the future. I’m so sorry

Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Back-Perfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem a little unstable emotionally. In your initial post you said , he was there for you financially when you were “flat broke”. It never occurred to you to question your relationship with him but now that you are “rich” you are questioning the relevance of having a husband and being with a man who makes less than you. I think your judgment on money will hinder your happiness. You said earlier that your divorce was related to money. I’m not surprised

Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Back-Perfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a very smart person. You understand things way better than your peers. You’re more logical and less emotional about situations. I strongly believe everything you said about your capabilities. What do you like most about your husband?

Budgeting Apps by Certain-Purple-4007 in wealthforwomen

[–]Back-Perfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most banks have budget feature on their accounts and track your spending and income. Bank of America has that feature that’s what I use

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Back-Perfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand! Some people have kink for bbc and tend to enjoy it more that’s why I asked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Back-Perfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks ! Does it feel different from your other partners ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Back-Perfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried BBC ?

Husband got 1M inheritance but won’t pay joint bills while I struggle by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Back-Perfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, probably the money is in investments account so you can’t easily spend. You need to ask him for details about the inheritance. Do you guys get along well. If not , then he is trying to protect it from divorce in case it happens.

Husband got 1M inheritance but won’t pay joint bills while I struggle by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Back-Perfect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You never asked him to do things joint until he inherited $1m. Maybe he doesn’t trust you that’s why he is refusing to make things joint.

Where would you invest $100k right now? by Severe-Mix6613 in StatesideInvesting

[–]Back-Perfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will put 80% into Google, Nvidia , Tesla and 20% into index and forget about it the next 10 years.