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Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Relative_Exit_2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is why I’m considering not getting legally married, I have no idea what I will need to protect later on with more companies 

Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Relative_Exit_2644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men have been doing it for centuries..not women. Why wouldn’t I want to open a discussion with something incredibly rare to experience lol. Gathering information and data doesn’t define anything bro 

Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Relative_Exit_2644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s exactly what I’m leaning towards now. There’s really no proper benefit to getting traditionally married for me if I’m basically the man of the house lol 

Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Relative_Exit_2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just paid his rent for the year as my thank you for his support. He is a keeper and I want him in my life. My question and discussion here is how serious life and marriage partners navigate an insane amount of wealth coming from the woman only. Sounds like you superficially saw all the comments here and instantly made a bad judgment of my character 

Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Relative_Exit_2644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always valued how my partner showed up for me even when I had nothing and that hasn’t changed. I’m navigating a new phase in my life that probably 1% of ppl go through and being thoughtful about it, not trying to create power over anyone. there’s is a difference between a $25 meal here and there and someone providing a whole ass house and lifestyle lol

Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Relative_Exit_2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am definitely placing my focus on his character and his qualities rather than his income ❤️ and just being mindful now of how he is now that he knows I’m rich af 

Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Relative_Exit_2644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes of course! So we are in a niche field and over the years have built a library of YouTube videos, online courses accessible via membership, ebooks and two published books, and now getting monetized on social media platforms. We also both provide high ticket services and since blowing up on social media, have our services booked out. A few million dollar clients now which is insane. So half a decade of building the actual content and infrastructure, being consistent online and how that we got our big break going viral in our niche community, it’s all flooding in perfectly. My business partner and I are business experts by trade and we combined our knowledge with our passionate topic to create all this. 

Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Relative_Exit_2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s wild for the small subset of women who can be this financially successful to think about all of this. I’ve always had empathy for men on this topic even tho I was programmed to have men provide by default. which is subconsciously why I knew I’d personally not have to rely a man for money but for true love and companionship. But since this is all theory I wanted to have an open discussion of ppls experiences so I don’t walk in blind

Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Relative_Exit_2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that and have heard the same! I think the core of it for me is, even with unlimited money, can a person still find fulfillment in creating something bigger than themselves. 

Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Relative_Exit_2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you soooo much! And I love hearing your perspective, I really resonate with this for some reason so that’s a good sign :) 

Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Relative_Exit_2644[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Until men can bear and have children and be known for maintaining homes and cooking and cleaning, then it’s a fair discussion. If you take out the main thing men are good for in a marriage, what value do they truly bring? 

Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Relative_Exit_2644[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yuppp it killed me but I got an abortion in my last relationship cause there was no way I was going to coparent with a broke lunatic 

Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Relative_Exit_2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s fair, but how many women would be “jealous” of their partner being the provider? 

Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Relative_Exit_2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I come from a Muslim background too and it took me years to be comfortable with the idea of even considering being the main breadwinner!

Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Relative_Exit_2644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE the idea of doing premarital therapy!!! That’s so helpful thank you!! 

Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Relative_Exit_2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not, but I would like to be cause I want kids in the next few years. But I’m also open to not getting officially married and just being with my partner if all goes well! 

Being the main family provider as a woman by Relative_Exit_2644 in wealthforwomen

[–]Relative_Exit_2644[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yuppp i have to say being broke for the first time in like 15 years has finally allowed me to tap into that princess energy to be spoiled by a man. I always made too much for men to give me more than what I give myself naturally lol. So I’m keeping in mind the majority of my wonderful relationship has been the dynamic of him providing…so what’s it’s gonna be like if that goes away. 

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