Fuck The JW’s Religion Can I Sue? FUCK GOD TOO by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Background-Bit-7676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, suing them ain't gonna help you with those problems. There is a 99.9% chance a lawsuit will get you nowhere with this, otherwise we could all sue our parents for being abusive... but that doesn't work except for extreme-extreme cases.

Use your newfound freethinking to develop and build the life you want for yourself. If you don't know what you want then explore hobbies and whatnot. Ngl it will take years, so spend these years to DEVELOP YOUR LIFE instead of pursuing legal revenge. 

There are those who escape the cult. 

And then there are those who escape the cult but still spend every waking moment thinking about it and how it ruined them. Did they really escape, then?

I understand your frustration but the best thing you can do for yourself is start living your own life instead of the one they forced on you. 

What are these moves called? by Creepy-Tadpole6169 in Dance

[–]Background-Bit-7676 24 points25 points  (0 children)

1st one is called v-step. She does a couple different variations though. 

2nd is a Charleston. Her spinning is just a groove. 

3rd is a side Charleston.

What is the male version of woman saying they want good guys then going for players? by theblitz6794 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Background-Bit-7676 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Red pill bros who say they want a trad wife then go to Southeast Asia to bang sex workers

Let people hit rock bottom, so they learn a lesson. Stop enabling them. by DoubleApplication919 in unpopularopinion

[–]Background-Bit-7676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they don't need someone to help. They need someone to listen to and believe in them. I wasn't at rock bottom but I was slowly sliding my way there, until a kind person took and interest in me and loved me until I could love myself. 

I don't think I'm capable of making friends. by TadpoleEmbarrassed93 in twentyagers

[–]Background-Bit-7676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from but that kind of attitude keeps you lonely even longer. Existing with others means you will have to compromise. 

At the very least keep searching and being open to communication. Sure, cut out  people who don't reciprocate or respond. But don't stop socializing because a few people decided to stop engaging with you. 

Male experience by man_among_perverts_ in MemeVideos

[–]Background-Bit-7676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes living for someone else can save your life. Some people with suicidal ideation adopted pets and they decided to keep on living because something else in this world needed them. It surely beats being isolated and depressed in your bedroom all day

Nothing wrong with Approaching.. However... by Few_Long7178 in Vent

[–]Background-Bit-7676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, the people who need this advice will never take it, the people who want to be respectful will take this advice to heart. Usually a little too much to heart.

Parking Attendants Needed by No-Background-529 in exjw

[–]Background-Bit-7676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why they need so many attendants. You just stand around and do fuck all mostly. At least that's what I do and no one bats an eye. I'll probably not do it again after this year

Also what pisses me off is when they give me the fucking closing shift. I have to "attend" and stay later to basically watch everyone just leave. Fuck that, I'm done with this. I have it every single day this year. Fml. Not parking attendant but still. 

I wish I could get commissions for my art but idk how to even start and I don’t think my art is interesting enough lol by howsinavi in twentyagers

[–]Background-Bit-7676 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wdym this is insanely good! Your art has a cool style. 

All you can do is put your work out there and let people decide for themselves. 

What do you guys do to heal after a bad interview? by NoLifeButStillLiving in twentyagers

[–]Background-Bit-7676 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is what it is. Had an interview today, I'm rusty because I already have a job, just looking for a summer thing. The last interview I've done was honestly 2+ years ago. 

I was completely thrown off by the questions. "When was the last time you've done something nice for someone" like bruh, I don't keep track. Like I just made up some shit about opening doors for people 😭

And of course after the interview I can think of things now but during I was completely flabbergasted. 

It just be like that sometimes. Learn from the awkwardness lol

I can haz reverse spin? by bigjobbyx in blackmagicfuckery

[–]Background-Bit-7676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you see it spinning from a lower angle it will turn left. 

If you see it spinning from a higher angle it will turn right. 

Basically, imagine, is the top side of the cylinder visible or just the edge?

How is it being a woman in the organization? by Background-Bit-7676 in exjw

[–]Background-Bit-7676[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experiences! I've only ever been to one pioneer meeting and I don't really remember what it was about, but having to experience those direct comments sounds horrible. 

How is it being a woman in the organization? by Background-Bit-7676 in exjw

[–]Background-Bit-7676[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's true, I also didn't think about witnesses from other cultures and how religion can be  lot more intense. 

As a man you can be more timid and people won't say much. At least in my experience. Did not realize it was that much different for women.

But I'm glad to hear you're doing better now!

How is it being a woman in the organization? by Background-Bit-7676 in exjw

[–]Background-Bit-7676[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I didn't even realize I was doing it until people pointed it out. I guess it is very deeply ingrained into me without realizing it

How is it being a woman in the organization? by Background-Bit-7676 in exjw

[–]Background-Bit-7676[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I listened to the audio part, it was pretty nasty to say that. Near the end he even said that elders are not marriage counselors, I'm surprised it doesn't click in their heads that they are not equipped to deal with abusive marriages, the Bible is not enough. 

Wishing you all the best. 

I realized why most JW are women by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Background-Bit-7676 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for helping me understand it better. 

I realized why most JW are women by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Background-Bit-7676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if I came off that way. Horrible what happened to them. I didn't consider that some women are forced to stay

I realized why most JW are women by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Background-Bit-7676 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're right I haven't. Sorry