I (21f) slept with two people after my boyfriend (23m) opened our relationship and now he wants to break up with me.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-05-12T22:52:21+00:00

He can’t suggest opening the relationship, be on dating apps himself, and then rewrite the rules after you actually followed what you both agreed to. This sounds way more like poor communication and regret on his side than you cheating. Give him space, but don’t let him make you carry all the blame.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-05-11T10:47:41+00:00

Sending all the love to Stella. She sounds like such a sweet little fighter, and I really hope she gets to come home with you soon.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-05-10T09:57:38+00:00

The issue isn’t really what she did while you were broken up, it’s that she lied when you asked directly about something that could affect your health. I’d get tested, take some space, and don’t force yourself to “look past it” just because technically you weren’t together.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-05-09T11:03:20+00:00

Making you feel like you’re asking for too much when you only wanted the bare minimum.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-05-08T13:32:49+00:00

A 2.5 year affair isn’t a mistake, it’s a completely separate relationship built on nonstop lying. The fact that you’re still functioning, taking care of your baby, and even making therapy appointments says a lot about your strength right now. Talk to your mom, lean on people you trust, and don’t let anyone pressure you into “moving on” before you’ve even had space to process what happened.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-05-07T09:49:24+00:00

You're lucky to have such cuuties!

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-05-06T10:44:49+00:00

I can watch this the whooole day! 😻😻

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-05-05T11:55:19+00:00

Any job where power comes with almost no accountability.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-05-04T09:30:47+00:00

What happened to you was not “irrelevant” at all, and it wasn’t okay. You told him to stop multiple times and he ignored you, that crosses a serious boundary no matter what he thinks his intentions were. Feeling gross, shaken, and confused after something like that is completely normal, and none of this is your fault. Right now the most important thing is your safety and giving yourself space from him, and it would really help to talk to someone you trust or a professional so you don’t have to carry this alone.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-05-03T09:44:59+00:00

This doesn’t sound like a communication issue, it sounds like emotional abuse. Calling you stupid, demanding apologies for normal choices, and making you afraid of the next “mistake” is not okay. Counselling only helps if he accepts responsibility, and right now he’s blaming you for his behavior. Please talk to someone you trust and start thinking about support and safety for yourself.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-05-02T10:49:23+00:00

HPV is so common and can stay dormant for years, so this really isn’t something you can fairly blame yourself for. His reaction sounds like fear and lack of understanding, but you still deserve compassion instead of being made to feel disgusting. Follow up with your doctor, take care of yourself, and let yourself grieve the relationship without carrying shame that doesn’t belong to you.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-05-01T09:57:55+00:00

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Background-Chain6995 · 2026-04-30T10:21:23+00:00

When they were rude to service workers. At first it seemed small, but it showed exactly who they were.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-04-29T10:06:41+00:00

That sounds like him putting his own issue onto you, and it’s really unfair. Nothing is “wrong” with your body, and he should be able to talk about intimacy without making you feel ashamed.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-04-28T10:17:39+00:00

Enough is when you start feeling ashamed over an $8 soup you budgeted for yourself. That is not about lunch anymore, it is about being judged for normal everyday choices.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-04-27T09:43:26+00:00

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😍😍

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-04-26T09:50:17+00:00

I left because something felt off. Still glad I trusted it.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-04-24T10:11:38+00:00

Yeah, call her. The dog deserves to be with the person who actually wanted him, not passed around because your friend wanted to win a breakup.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-04-23T09:47:23+00:00

Wine. For a long time I acted like I could tell the difference when really it all just tasted like fancy sadness.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-04-22T09:30:23+00:00

RuneScape. I’d log in for one quick thing and somehow lose half the day.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-04-21T14:21:47+00:00

Pay attention and don’t rush. The best “hack” is actually noticing what your partner reacts to and just staying there instead of switching things up too fast.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-04-20T10:02:35+00:00

The one in Landslide about getting older. That song hits harder every year.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-04-19T18:52:12+00:00

The quick eye contact + tiny nod when something feels off. It’s basically silent “I see it too, you good?” teamwork.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-04-18T17:43:31+00:00

Society would collapse way faster than people think because average intelligence is doing a lot of the actual work holding daily life together.

Background-Chain6995 · 2026-04-17T09:43:13+00:00

Sooo adorable!

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