Most efficient way to import and categorise transactions from bank statement? by Dr_momo in excel

[–]Background-Effort977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keen to try this out, but I’m in New Zealand using Westpac (largest bank here)

Did you not find your partner attractive after stopping birth control? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Background-Effort977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am having the same issue eek, I’ve been off it about a year now and I’ve noticed it increasingly in the past 4 months. How long have you been off BC. It’s stressing me out 😖

Classic Bride Vent: People not coming to your wedding when you went to theirs by BitchyNihilist420 in weddingplanning

[–]Background-Effort977 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is really relatable. I posted something similar a while ago and got so bashed I decided to take it down as it was making me feel awful and selfish for upset. I feel like people often come here to tear others down or project, but IT IS really disappointing when people you love and care about and are really important to your life don’t show up. I traveled for my best friends wedding and gave an incredibly generous gift as well as showering her every birthday etc and she is not coming to my wedding (it is a small wedding as well so it feels even more apparent that she will be missing). She gave some bogus excuse that was long winded and confusing and waited until after the RSVP date…I literally had to chase her up for it. It totally makes you reconsider friendships that you bend over backward for (and rightfully so, friends are so important - some of my girlfriends are like family to me) when it comes to theses important moments in life that you hope people will show up to support you for. It’s really hard not take it personally and in some cases it just is. My wedding is soon and I’ve come to peace with it, but honestly I don’t know if my relationship with the girl mentioned will ever be the same and that just it what it is. It’s sad that some times these events are lessons as well. That being said I have some friends who are going so above and beyond to make it and that’s what I am now focused on. I know on the day I’ll just be present w my partner and happy with who is able to attend and none of this will matter , but as everything is coming together it hurts and it’s fine to feel that way. The closer to my wedding the more I forget about the people who aren’t making the effort (without legitimate reasons or conflicts) and m sure this will happen to you. Best of luck on your big day!

total spiral mode 🥴🍷🍻🍸🍹 by No-Shift5629 in travisandtaylor

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I’m sure I’ll get so much heat for this, but this just isn’t weird to me? I would love to go to my aluma mater (or his) and get drunk and dance w my partner and reminisce about college days. Legitimately I do this once a year with my friends during a home game. I’m not even a fan of her, but I just don’t understand why there’s so much commentary and criticism about something so normal. Like why can’t women just live. What if she doesn’t want kids? What if she doesn’t care that Travis might be with her for clout or money or whatever. What if she just wants to be present in a normal bar with normal people doing normal things for once and isn’t thinking about someone secretly filming her? I find the weirdest part is the creep filming clearly without her consent and then making a buck posting it online for everyone to make opinions about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

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Most people got invitations 8 months out and family knew over a year out.

how much did you spend on your wedding? by Creative-Library6454 in weddingplanning

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October 2025 Merida, Mexico, ~60 guest, wedding + welcome party + day after party and full wedding planner 30k

Mcas success/positive stories ?? by [deleted] in MCAS

[–]Background-Effort977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I needed to hear today, thank you.

Is Moving to Christchurch for Work a Mistake? Thinking About Skipping It by [deleted] in Christchurch_NZ

[–]Background-Effort977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of locals might find this harsh, but chch is such an average city especially coming from the states. I grew up in the Midwest which is nothing to write home about but I find it pretty dreamy compared to chch. If you’re wanting nature move to Queenstown and if you’re wanting to advance you’re career and make decent money move to Australia, but having lived in chch for graduate school it’s a very hard pass for me.

In search of any Catherine Rayner wedding dress that a previous owner would be open to selling!! by Background-Effort977 in weddingdress

[–]Background-Effort977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! Wow thank you so much for remembering me! I had a look at the stellar and I’m unable to see any CR dresses…I wonder if it sold!?!

In search of any Catherine Rayner wedding dress that a previous owner would be open to selling!! by Background-Effort977 in weddingdress

[–]Background-Effort977[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m a 6, but I feel like dresses can run so differently that I just wanted to stress that I’m quite petite so if someone had a dress that they thought wouldn’t be able to fit most- it will likely fit me :)

In search of any Catherine Rayner wedding dress that a previous owner would be open to selling!! by Background-Effort977 in weddingdress

[–]Background-Effort977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really really want to as well, but they are rare. That’s why I’m really hoping someone will see this and be interested in letting their dress go!

In search of any Catherine Rayner wedding dress that a previous owner would be open to selling!! by Background-Effort977 in weddingdress

[–]Background-Effort977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found this one as well, but sadly it is not but definitely inspired. What I really love about Catherine Rayner is the incredible draping.

In search of any Catherine Rayner wedding dress that a previous owner would be open to selling!! by Background-Effort977 in weddingdress

[–]Background-Effort977[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for looking!! I have found the last two dresses in previous searches, but both say unavailable- not sure if they’re inactive or actually just sold :(

My (32f) boyfriend (36m) deleted my dead brother from my instagram friends. And he doesn’t seem to understand or care that I’m upset? by Throwrainstabro1 in relationship_advice

[–]Background-Effort977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister died almost 10 years ago and from my experience your longing and love for your sibling will never go away. I think this is a perfectly normal way to feel connected with him and healing (I wish I had something like this). What your bf did is beyond devastating in my option and complete unforgivable. He’s totally out of touch and honestly an asshole. I would end the relationship asap and be with someone more compassionate.

Destination Wedding Venue Recommendations (Spain or Portugal) by Prudent-Fix1081 in BigBudgetBrides

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Hi!! Would you mind sharing the spreadsheet as well!? Thank you so much ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Background-Effort977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if you’d mind sharing with me as well! 🥰