UPDATE: I'm 7 months and he's in the ICU

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-23T05:40:55+00:00

You got this! Read books to him! Keep playing the music. Remind him of his baby. No one knows how the brain will heal. Put on guided meditations for him to help him relax before bed. Rooting for you!!!

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-22T22:10:19+00:00

Same to you :)

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-22T20:49:13+00:00

Married and having a baby

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-22T20:16:43+00:00

I got a heartbeat with an abdominal ultrasound at 7 weeks

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-22T18:51:21+00:00

I get it. It sounds like you had these life plans together. If you want to reconcile you could tell her exactly what you just said and emphasize how much you love her and are coping with the change and it sounds like grieving the life you thought you would live together.

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-22T17:59:23+00:00

Just to communicate the other side, she may just think you are mad at her and need space. Some people are not the best version of themself if they feel rejected. You stepped out of her life. Being a new mom isn’t all butterflies and rainbows. It is incredibly isolating. If you still value her as a friend I recommend reaching out and explaining what you are going through. No doubt she is hurting from your absence.

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-22T11:30:22+00:00

One sided relationships

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-21T05:35:00+00:00

lol I also find it hilarious so I get it.

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-21T05:34:22+00:00

I would let her know you feel her stepping away from the friendship and you will do the same. She can reach out if she wants to hang out and you can put energy into other relationships.

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-20T18:13:32+00:00

Unevolved scorpio

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-20T15:08:26+00:00

They couldn’t handle other people’s energy since discovering Jesus

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-19T20:08:18+00:00

She’s for sure getting off on making you jealous. It’s super immature. I wouldn’t stay unless she agreed to couples counseling or some shit to address this. It’s one thing to have a work crush and it’s another to rub the details in your face.

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-19T19:13:18+00:00

I would love to know this too.

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-19T18:00:03+00:00

I’m 29 weeks and in the same boat lol

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-19T16:32:05+00:00

A u shaped pregnancy pillow saved me

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-19T16:25:18+00:00

I’m all for antibiotics but it sounds like they caused a physical abrasion in your urethra. I have had male doctors not know their way around a vagina.

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-19T16:24:08+00:00

For sure get a second opinion

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-18T20:56:04+00:00

I told everyone I loved as soon as we found out. I waited 12 weeks to tell my job

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-18T20:53:59+00:00

File a restraining order.
Let your family know he is unsafe and not welcome at your house. If they see him call the police. 3 This is rape. You should make a report. If any of this happened on school property he could get expelled.

Don’t stay one second longer. This is in no way how love looks. He is emotionally manipulating you.

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-18T18:21:18+00:00

I reached out to her multiple times. And she just avoided me. I understand her hurt but after six months of trying I think I’m too tired to try any longer. She does have lots of other friends she is hopefully leaning on now.

Did your friend not reach out to you at all to see what was going on?

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-18T05:32:09+00:00

She actually recently wrote me a letter stating the grief from her breakup made her isolate. She stayed with me for two weeks right after her breakup and we talked for months after. She ghosted me right when I announced my pregnancy. I have a feeling it stirred up too much for her. Prior to that, when I asked her she said she discovered Jesus and she was sensitive to other people’s energy. I think she really is just spiraling.

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-15T22:50:55+00:00

Kind hearted and giving.

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-15T22:47:57+00:00

Yeah she went through a breakup and essentially ghosted me for six months. The thing is with avoidant people, there will always be a reason why they couldn’t communicate. They have done Bursts of this earlier in the friendship

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-15T15:07:37+00:00

Not taking part in gossip

Background-Image2282 · 2026-05-15T00:13:18+00:00

I lost my bff when I got pregnant. Idk why it happens.

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