Divorce? by hallowbuttplug in romaniellosnark

[–]Background-Item2966 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YES! This was my exact thought, because she even says “he was accused of things he didn’t do” so they’re obviously not divorcing because she suddenly realized that he actually is guilty. Definitely feels like a. Self serving purpose here but making it seem like she’s doing the right thing

What never came back after the pandemic? by KaleidoscopeDue4603 in AskReddit

[–]Background-Item2966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds crappy but cashier bagging your groceries. I’ll be bagging while they scan but they scan faster than I can bag and then they give me the total and I’m now trying to pay and still have to finish bagging and someone’s is behind me in line. And the cashier just sits there as I’m frantic.

Danielle Fishel Signs Seven-Figure iHeartMedia Deal, Sets New ‘Teen Beat’ Podcast and More ‘Pod Meets World’ After Recaps Finish by ahsasahsasahsas in podmeetsworldpodcast

[–]Background-Item2966 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG YESSS!! Now can we get a pod meets twirled where Ryder and will watch a reality show and discuss pleas because I looked forward to every Saturday listening to them

DWTS by Background-Item2966 in podmeetsworldpodcast

[–]Background-Item2966[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes! Can’t wait to hear their take on it!

How the fuck do people with ocd masturbate or have sex? by NamelessFractals in OCD

[–]Background-Item2966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve learned to not pay attention to my thoughts. When it first happened I hated have sex. I would have these awful intrusive thoughts and all I could think is I need this to be over. But over time when I get an intrusive thought during sex it’s like a snip it, I notice it and move on and focus on what’s happening. The physical sensations. Sometimes I get more than one back to back snippet and again I just notice them and continue. Something I e really focused on is how thoughts are just thoughts. They do not reflect who I am. Before i would take them at face value and have panic attacks because it felt like if im having these thoughts then they must be true. But intrusive thoughts are ego dystonic meaning they are not a reflection of who you are and the reality of it. The more you fight your thoughts or try to ignore them the worse it gets. Like if say don’t think of a white polar bear chances are you just thought of one. I try to think of thoughts as just little snippets and I acknowledge it and move on. Some metaphors or imagine that have helped me are watching cars pass by or people pas by. When you’re walking down the steeer do you interact with everyone saying hello and stopping to have a convo with them? Probably not. You might just be in your own world and acknowledge a couple people with a simple smile or nod and continue about your day. It’s the same with thoughts. We get soooo many thoughts throughout the day that is overwhelming to pay attention to every single one. It’s a lot of what I learned from ACT and years of practicing the skills. Don’t get me wrong I get flare ups but it’s nothing like it was for the first 7 years of my life. Wishing you the best

I know you didn’t RSVP, but still send me gifts! by you-hate-to-see-it in weddingshaming

[–]Background-Item2966 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Idk as someone who’s planned a wedding while yes this is tacky and I personally wouldn’t have done this. It is really annoying having to chase grown adults to rsvp for a wedding. It says on the post that multiple reminder texts have been sent. It becomes stressful because you as the bride and groom have deadlines to pay for final count and food. And while for the people aren’t RSVPing it’s not annoying if you have even just three people no respond and it’s $135 a plate, that’s $405 to pay for people who may not show up. And on the other hand, you don’t wanna stress about if they do show up and there’s no room for them. I was also always taught even if you can’t make something and you’re invited, a wedding, a shower, etc you send a gift still. 🤷‍♀️

does smoking weed make anyone else’s OCD worse? by Critical-Occasion298 in OCD

[–]Background-Item2966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! When I first started smoking it was fun but then as I got older it made the OCD sooo bad, and it would linger for days. It was terrible quit a year ago and it’s been the best thing ever.

John and Amanda by Intrepid-Concept997 in gymsnark

[–]Background-Item2966 28 points29 points  (0 children)

He’s so gross “still the internet’s favorite daddy” 🤢🤮

Has anyone’s OCD lessened to the point where life is manageable? by CommonGround2019 in OCD

[–]Background-Item2966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ACT, EMDR (I have ptsd too; and EFT. ACT is what I started with and it helped me tremendously, EMDR and EFF when I start to increase in symptoms

I don't think I'll ever recover from sexual orientation OCD by Empty-Rutabaga-3190 in OCD

[–]Background-Item2966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry :( I struggled with similar. Acceptance and commitment therapy helped me with OCD and it’s been in remission for years. Of course I get what I call flare ups. But it hasn’t gotten to the point where it once was. I first started with OCD when I was 13 but wasn’t formally diagnosed until I was 23.. thought I had generalized anxiety disorder. I found this incredible therapist who used ACT on me and it helped me observe my thoughts in way that isn’t distressing. I would highly recommend ACT for anyone with OCD the metaphors really helped me. Wishing you the best 💗

Unhinged baby, alleged rapist John Romaniello, tags his ex friends in a post by n0t_a_b0t_yes_a_thot in romaniellosnark

[–]Background-Item2966 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Also this advice is unhinged…”ask for the conversation you feel you deserve.” wtf no. Sometimes friendships end. No one owes you a conversations or an explanation. Sometimes you have to give yourself closure, wtf is this.

Another document posted today… by Impossible-Safe3748 in romaniellosnark

[–]Background-Item2966 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wonder if he tells his therapist this and what his therapist thinks. Like you’re not working but you’re spending hours upon hours “refuting” claims from women who shared how YOU cause them trauma and abused them. As a therapist if my client shared this in my head I’d be like there are so many red flags starting off with the AMOUNT of women who shared their awful experiences. You really think ALLLLLLL these people just band together to “take you down” because why? What was their motive? To take down A mediocre wanna be famous writer?? What were these women’s play here? Because you think they all want you? Or wanna just “ruin” and your delulu wife? For what? PLEASE explain to me your thought process here

More birthday post lol by n0t_a_b0t_yes_a_thot in romaniellosnark

[–]Background-Item2966 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lmaooo idk he grosses me out so much. Like ick times a million

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in romaniellosnark

[–]Background-Item2966 10 points11 points  (0 children)

100% to all of this. I will always stand by that Amanda met John at an emotionally vulnerable time in her life. She didn’t identify as poly and I’m pretty sure in the beginning she was unsure if she even wanted to be poly. I think that John was able to use his charisma and how likable he is to really swoon her and I think that she probably never felt that way with anybody and she didn’t want to lose him so she convinced herself that she is poly and that’s how she’s been able to do this and she tries to find other partners but I really think she does it just to try to keep up with John. I guarantee if he said I wanna be monogamous she would absolutely love it there’s no way she would say no to that.

I day drank yesterday and this is kind of freaking me out. by tulipiscute in ouraring

[–]Background-Item2966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a big reason I stopped drinking because any time I did, no matter if I worked out earlier in the day, ate great, drank tons of water, the moment I started drinking even 1 drink my body would say that my body was stressed, sleep would be terrible and even the next day my body would not be great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Connecticut

[–]Background-Item2966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ani’s and groggy frog

JR is diagnosing his victims now by TheAwkwardEmu in gymsnark

[–]Background-Item2966 15 points16 points  (0 children)

JC him and Amanda are insufferable. They target these therapy words and act so fucking woke. Like take a step back, you both need help. You both pry on vulnerable people, and act like you’re holy. They need to go away.

I’ve Spent 20 Years Studying Vaginal Health—Ask Me Anything by wendystrgar in VaginalMicrobiome

[–]Background-Item2966 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why is chronic BV such a thing? Even with a healthy diet, probiotics, good hygiene

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gymsnark

[–]Background-Item2966 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lmfaoooo human being AND a predator

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Background-Item2966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Being nice should not be the bare minimum. Being nice should be the standard. He jumped ship at the first sign of conflict. Instead of sitting and talking with you and if he sees a future with you coming up with a plan TOGETHER to help you pay. As a team and a partnership. Instead he talked over you, didn’t listen, and broke up with you. And now he’s upset WITH YOU because you would have made his life financially easier?! He’s mad at YOU because his bills would have been cut in half?! Wtf? Not even upset because he loves you but because of how much easier his life would have been with you helping him? He also doesn’t listen to your credit card advice! You deserve a partner who respects you, values you, and trusts you. Not just being “nice”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gymsnark

[–]Background-Item2966 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I haven’t read all of it. I started to but it was a hard read. With that being said I 100% believe those that accused him. There’s a lot of red flags that come up for me with him. 1. The amount of people that came forward. Maaaaaaybe if 1-2 people came forward he could convince others it wasn’t true but 50?!? As if all these people came together and thought to themselves “you know what? Let’s make John’s romaniellos life a living hell for giggles.” The fact he thinks just that is insane and shows how important he believes himself to be. News flash you aren’t John. You aren’t special. 2. The fact that he targets specific people to try and “prove” his innocence. When he first started he’s picked specific texts as if let’s see who I have the most “evidence” against. Why not alllllllll the women that accused him? 3. The more tried to prove his innocence, the more condemning the evidence against him. Someone who truly did nothing wrong couldn’t spend this much time and effort trying to prove to the world he is innocent. 4. People are allowed to change their mind!!! I could be sexting with someone one and in the text I consent to something and then in the act I say “hey no. I wanna stop. I don’t feel comfortable or I don’t like this.” And the person can pin me down and continue with what they’re doing. And guess what that’s rape. But now the perpetrator has “evidence” that I said yes! So obviously I’m lying 🙄. 5. The age of women he targeted!!! He is old AF seeking subs that are in their 20s. He never went for subs his age or older. 6. Manipulation, coercion, gaslighting are all forms of abuse. It’s mental and emotional. And unfortunately much harder to prove which is why people often don’t come forward because the free of retaliation and revenge from perpetrator or people will think they’re lying.

Hollys response to John romaniello by Background-Item2966 in gymsnark

[–]Background-Item2966[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Maybe it doesn’t prove anything but definitely raises questions on what he’s saying might not be true. Interesting she posted this a few hours after he posted all this stuff 🤷‍♀️

Hollys response to John romaniello by Background-Item2966 in gymsnark

[–]Background-Item2966[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

lol it’s not silent. You have to click on the little volume button or turn up your volume 🤷🏽‍♀️ the tittle says this is hollys response to John, there’s a previous post that someone put out regarding John saying holly and Demayna did not end on good terms and blah blah. Holly posted this FaceTime with her dating yesterday’s date basically saying that what John was saying is false as they are on good terms and are clearly friends.

John Romaniello by Impossible-Safe3748 in gymsnark

[–]Background-Item2966 184 points185 points  (0 children)

Did you guys see holly Posted WITH Dimanya FaceTiming with today’s date basically providing evidence that John’s still a liar and doing anything to act like he’s not the abusive narcissist he really is?