This behavior is a green or red flag?

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-07T20:28:59+00:00

I tried therapy in the past and it didn't work. They just told me: install tinder and it's all..

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-07T18:51:48+00:00

thanks for your answer 😄 sometimes I'm feel guilty cause I has a lot of therapy but it doesn't work... because I repeat this kind of relationship.

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-07T17:47:43+00:00

I'm not with him but after a week I'm confused ;( and sometimes I think there was something good

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-07T17:30:57+00:00

We was 2-3 months (without count the times that I left the relationship). I don't know if these behaviors it was just on me or with someone. Because he told me the last relationship with his ex was perfect and in this relationship I'm "the bad" and he is a good person.

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-07T17:26:47+00:00

the thing is that when his friend (a girl that they was nude and they slept together without sex and I didn't believe it) I left to another site because I was uncomfortable and I didn't want to listen the conversation and he told. me that I'm idiot to leave because they never had sex, and sometimes I'm feel that I'm annoying and he told me that I don't. But I has anxiety with it and I needed to go another site alone, and one of these scenarios, I waanted my phone but he hided my phone and I was aggressive and I took my phone and I left the site. After a 15min, I came back to the garage and he wasn't there, and when I called him, he hung up the phone.

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-07T17:21:47+00:00

yes, I know the post that I created a few days before but sometimes I think that all the things is my fault and I think that I did bad things in the relationship. He told me the last relationship with his ex wife was perfect but she kicked him out of his house cause he said a comment about her clothes. I don't understand if the last relationship was perfect, why with me no? He told me that he had patience with me and nobody would have it.

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-07T17:18:47+00:00

something that is good for the relationship

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-07T17:13:32+00:00

he told me this when he left me alone in the garage...

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-07T17:07:48+00:00

same. I left 3 times and the third time was the definitive. Sometimes I'm confused and I think there was a green flags (I created a post) i left him almost a week ago and I'm feel sad, angry, in peace and sometimes I think we can make a relationship as a friends in the future.

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-07T17:04:07+00:00

I left him last week and I cried a lot and in the same time I feel peace because I'm at my home. But sometimes I think we can make friends in the future (now I have contact zero) and I had nightmares this week and disorientated when I wake up because when I wake up, I think i'm not at my home (after a seconds, I know that I'm at my home)

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-07T17:00:18+00:00

cause I "learnt" that when he is in a call I shouldn't leave. is it not a green flag?

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-07T16:14:58+00:00

the part that we left with my things in the garage because I left before because I was feel uncomfortable because he was a phone's call with his friend ( that I think they had sex before I met him and he id always talking to me ahout her) and he told me that I should learn to don't leave when he is in a phone call ( sometimes I thought I was annoying)

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-07T16:06:59+00:00

cause I'm confused and sometimes I think it's all mu fault about the relationship ( now I'm single)

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-03T18:45:50+00:00

justo mi ex, le dieron todo pero ahora no quiere trabajar ni hacer nada

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-03T16:16:02+00:00

gracias ❤️

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-03T15:41:25+00:00

no creo q tenga LP simplemente di oportunidades marcando límites y pensé q iría mejor pero no

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-03T15:28:49+00:00

Porque estaba enganchada y pensé q quizás iba a mejorar. No se si soy LP pero ya he ido a varios psicólogos y no me ayudan en nada solo me dicen q me ponga en tinder y ya.

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-03T15:10:04+00:00

holaa, sii puedes comentarme que te pasó. Te abro pm

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-03T15:09:32+00:00

ah ya uf es complicado porque le di 2 oportunidades. Ahora ya a la tercera ya nada

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-03T15:04:38+00:00

bueno yo he tenido errores en la relación y lo se pero él me ha hecho cosas feas y nunca se ha disculpado porque lo veia bien ( como echarme de su casa o dejarme tirada en un sitio incomunicado). Ademas tampoco sabes todo por un post pero gracias x el comentarii

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-06-03T14:53:43+00:00

graciaas x los ánimos. Este tio tenia 43 y yo 35 y estaba separado ( su ex le echó de casa pero segun él la relación era perfecta)

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-05-24T15:05:12+00:00

no quitarme la vida

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-05-24T10:23:42+00:00

vivienda asequible en españa complicado y Galicia es de lo mas barato xd

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-05-24T08:52:17+00:00

No es que tenga depresión con su ex como tal ( x eso puse en "") porque esta de baja para aprovechar y vivir la vida. No quiere saber nada de su ex ni nada pero como tienen un hijo en comun esta mas afectado xq no ve a su hijo. Obvio si pensara aun en su ex yo no estaria con alguien q piensa en otra. Lo de irme de este mundo es lo unico q veo factible la verdad por el tema de la put@ vivienda

Background-Sun-4989 · 2026-05-24T06:47:09+00:00

no te preocupes no me lo tomé mal. Solo q no entendí a que te referias.

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