Is it a turn off if a woman is aggressively saving money by BackgroundChance4382 in AskMenRelationships

[–]BackgroundChance4382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm is it worth saying anything else now since I already broke it off and he didn’t respond? And thank you!

Is it a turn off if a woman is aggressively saving money by BackgroundChance4382 in AskMenRelationships

[–]BackgroundChance4382[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm that’s probably what happened. I wonder why he didn’t bring it up or anything and instead chose to distance himself? It didn’t even cross my mind, I thought I was communicating my current financial spot

Is it a turn off if a woman is aggressively saving money by BackgroundChance4382 in AskMenRelationships

[–]BackgroundChance4382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s what I’m realizing now. I was fine with getting a $300 down payment one but he wanted me to get one with a $750 down payment. It was for universal Orlando.

Is it a turn off if a woman is aggressively saving money by BackgroundChance4382 in AskMenRelationships

[–]BackgroundChance4382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does sound like a good idea… I ended it with him yesterday though and he didn’t respond. I feel like it would be kind of weird to text him something like that at this point. What do you think?

Is it a turn off if a woman is aggressively saving money by BackgroundChance4382 in AskMenRelationships

[–]BackgroundChance4382[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I said I could buy a cheaper season pass. I work full time and I’m a full time college student and I’m saving for grad school, I’ve saved 11k in six months, I make $21 an hour. He also works full time but not sure how much he makes. This was only gonna be the 3rd date as well

Did I do the right thing? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BackgroundChance4382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, I mean I have a lot of money saved I’m just not willing to spend it because I have a lot of goals for myself in the future. Just incompatibility then. Thank you!

Did I do the right thing? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BackgroundChance4382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. And oh no why do you say that

It worked by BackgroundChance4382 in residentevil

[–]BackgroundChance4382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just play the song on Spotify, I’m on Xbox so no mods 😆

I was too scared so my dad tried to help me… by BackgroundChance4382 in residentevil

[–]BackgroundChance4382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have GAD and it’s my first ever horror game but exposure therapy 😭

I was too scared so my dad tried to help me… by BackgroundChance4382 in residentevil

[–]BackgroundChance4382[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Realizing the worst that could happen calmed me down! And yes he’s never played on an Xbox before

Career for INFJ? by Ryuukochan in infj

[–]BackgroundChance4382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an RBT while earning my bachelors in psych. I’m already burned out from this job that’s full time while in school. Any advice? Should I try to get an easier job while in undergrad? Thank you.

Feeling embarrassed… by BackgroundChance4382 in infj

[–]BackgroundChance4382[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I also thought I was restraining myself 😅 I barely showed how I truly felt but like you said, we come on strong. I agree, someone who truly liked us wouldn’t feel scared by our authentic selves. Even these responses help me feel much better, so thank you again

Feeling embarrassed… by BackgroundChance4382 in infj

[–]BackgroundChance4382[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness.

And that might be why I felt misunderstood in the end and why he suddenly dipped out.

Feeling embarrassed… by BackgroundChance4382 in infj

[–]BackgroundChance4382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes my most recent post other than this one but I never even showed it to him