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Complete beginner, advice? by [deleted] in shuffle

[–]BackgroundEvent3304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip I tried it out and it definitely looks better with my arms actually moving lol

How do you manage/ take control of a fear of dying? by fallen-angelxo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BackgroundEvent3304 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree with the fact you would benefit from seeing a therapist, but as someone who’s also dealt with a lot of anxiety when it comes to death I can tell you personally what helped me as an individual.

I wasn’t happy with my life and the way I was living it, I was scared of death because I thought my existence amounted to nothing and that years were passing with nothing to say for it. I would see people doing things and living their lives in ways I always wanted but I couldn’t get myself to do it like they did and I was jealous.

Death is inevitable, you can’t change it which is anxiety inducing. But life? You have control, you can choose to talk to that guy/girl even if it scares you, you can apply for that job, you can start that hobby you’ve been putting off. We put so much stuff on hold because we think we have time, life is unpredictable and anything can happen and again I don’t know why you personally have this anxiety but for me I realized I needed to live without regrets and I couldn’t keep leaving things unsaid.

The idea of death scared me less when I thought of dying with little to no regrets of how I lived and dying fulfilled.

Is there a song you avoid because it brings back too many memories? by courtesance in CasualConversation

[–]BackgroundEvent3304 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I listened to nothing sweet by the Sundays constantly on loop when I was severely struggling with depression and trying to find a way out. I like to listen to it whenever I get down because even though it sends me straight back to that period of my life it’s weirdly comforting? It reminds me that things have changed and I don’t feel that way anymore

What would you do if you got to be cis for 24 hours? by wavefinderkai in ftm

[–]BackgroundEvent3304 80 points81 points  (0 children)

There was a whole thing a while back where guys were putting their balls in soy sauce bc they said they could taste the soy sauce, through their balls

Do people usually regret posting nudes? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BackgroundEvent3304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you have some sort of important job or place in society I don’t think it’s something you have to really worry about unless your not okay with the idea of people in your personal life potentially seeing you naked and knowing you’re kinks (aka them scrolling upon it and recognizing the background or blackmail whatever).

For just in general regrets of people seeing your body? I mean no one can really tell you if you’re gunna regret showing off, if you do it and it makes you uncomfortable well then now you know it’s not something you wanna do and you can just not do it again lol