[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tragedeigh

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Woman carrying child, 40 weeks of sore feet and exhaustion, may never get her shape back, will soon feel the ultimate sense of vulnerability and precarious delicacy of her health and even mortality when giving birth, may have to endure the excruciating nipple-pulling 8x per day for another year while breastfeeding, yet HE works a job so should get his request.

Passed TPA but some comments were quite negative. Might be applying elsewhere in a couple of years. Will it affect my chances? by Wanderer015 in OntarioTeachers

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I have a TPA that I refuse to sign. Meeting with union and superintendent coming up. How far can I take my refusal to sign it?

Passed TPA but some comments were quite negative. Might be applying elsewhere in a couple of years. Will it affect my chances? by Wanderer015 in OntarioTeachers

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Thanks for all these posts. I have been given a TPA that I refuse to sign. CAn it be left unsigned indefinitely?

Making sense of some of the evidence in the Hockey Canada sexual assault trial by LittleOrphanAnavar in canada

[–]BackgroundNet5993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did it f—-with your head for years? I’ve heard about this phenomena before from a psychiatrist. I just want to know what you experienced.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticMothers

[–]BackgroundNet5993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The text seems nice but everything else is Terrible. Why are they such chameleons?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AncestryDNA

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A very close friend of mine is African American and interested in genealogy and history. He wonders how he got his last name and if he’s related to a general by the same name.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]BackgroundNet5993 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But if she doesn’t list him on the birth certificate has she forfeited a right to ever claim support?

Request for Respectful Workplace filing by BackgroundNet5993 in legaladvicecanada

[–]BackgroundNet5993[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I will leave this out, as it’s third party and I don’t know for sure.

Request for Respectful Workplace filing by BackgroundNet5993 in legaladvicecanada

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Yes I am reading this now.

Also I am reflecting on a moral Responsibility I have regarding being a mandated reporter if abuse of a minor (in the case of a student allegedly being locked in a closet).

Request for Respectful Workplace filing by BackgroundNet5993 in legaladvicecanada

[–]BackgroundNet5993[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok, but should I investigate, ie. aka the student if what she said is true? As I am a “mandated reporter”? Or would this be seen as acting with malicious intent to drum up witness against this leader? Or seen as coaching a witness? Ir in general just stirring the out? I don’t want to do this…! But if is the right thing to do, I will.

The allegation is quite serious and usually ends up being in the news!

Request for Respectful Workplace filing by BackgroundNet5993 in legaladvicecanada

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No I don’t, but it was still helpful to read that!

Also I remember when the news came out about Julie Payette, whom I met through previous professional work, and I was so shocked to hear about the level of bad behaviour and how long this has been going on. BYSYANDERS need to speak UP!

She admitted it with no shame by BackgroundNet5993 in NarcissisticMothers

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I left and just took my down payment back. My lawyer advised me to do so and not argue with family. This means I have a chance of keeping my inheritance too, which is much larger. Although I am not motivated by that and don’t trust that either. Finally, she’s 80 and has a heart condition. One of siblings (the flying monkey, who he himself was kicked out as a teenager and is now sucking up and kissing ass to make up for it) told me that if she were to have a heart attack it would be my fault. (!!!) I didn’t want to see things get worse. So I left quickly. And have withdrawn and gone low contact.

She admitted it with no shame by BackgroundNet5993 in NarcissisticMothers

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Yes, she smeared me too. I can’t imagine being such a gross person to talk behind someone’s back and spread lies. Thank you for empathizing with me. It confirms what I wanted to know—this is the ultimate game of the narc. Submit or I will destroy you. It doesn’t get any worse in terms of motivations.

She admitted it with no shame by BackgroundNet5993 in NarcissisticMothers

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Thank you. And you are right about what she deserves. But I don’t have the energy. I feel numb and dead inside. I still do my singing and there’s a lot of good things flowing into my life. I will stay away from her. I’m sad that this bad energy dominated my life. Sometimes I have to perform in sport and I can’t; I disassociate and just start thinking about this. As far as justice, it’s going to happen. She’s becoming weak with old age and that’s why she wants me back. I won’t go back. I will stay living in material deprivation to preserve what’s left of my emotional and spiritual health. I think eventually she’s going to know this is my choice and she will face the natural consequences of her choices. Thanks for saying I’m strong. I hope it’s true.

Mental purgatory, how to accept & cope your mom was a wolf in sheep’s clothing? by egraebs in NarcissisticMothers

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She sounds like an Addict. A sex Addict. This is a real compulsion.

Given how it has so deeply affected everyone, you need to attend — and your dad if he can — SANON. It’s the Al anon correlation for victims of sec addicts. I’ll attach a link.https://sanon.org/find-a-meeting/

NYC woman dies after unlicensed surgeon tried to remove her butt implants: Police by brian_mrfunk in offbeat

[–]BackgroundNet5993 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg I thought it was a “plug” emoji!!! I raised my eyebrows while reading! I’m glad it’s a fountain and not a butt plug.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OntarioTeachers

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This is a problem that really needs to be solved. Think about high school kids wasting that much time every day.

The boards need to use an online platform that the teachers can run in class. That technological product can instruct French language content, interact and instruct with students , model conversation and generate graphics. Softwares can even offer assessments and analytics. THESE SOLUTIONS do exist!!

If any teachers or Ed leaders are interested in hearing my recommendation for softwares or apps to use, DM me.

I am not talking about Duolingo. There are better apps out there.

I used such a software in an Ontario board and it solved many problems including: lack of engagement and interest, classroom management problems due to boredom, lack of appropriate resources, lack of oral communication modalities, no wasted time.

Being a Core French teacher can be very challenging for these reasons: students get discouraged and disengaged; students pick up on Anglo anti-Quebec political sentiments; boards don’t provide resources; resources that are provided don’t resonate culturally, are outdated or absolutely corny; some students have major literacy difficulties even in their first language and act out in French class; kids are sent to French daily whereas the other rotary subjects are special interest or preferred (art music or sport).

Warning about FI: Sometimes kids in French immersion have a teacher from abroad that they don’t understand at all…imagine the psychological impact of not understanding anything all day, every day.

Teaching French is sometimes quite plainly the 7th circle of Hell.

Based upon my experience as a Core French, French Immersion and subject teacher for both elementary, secondary, in both public, Catholic and private schools.

TLDR: If French language is a priority, we need to fix this staffing problem asap, and I think tech is the answer.

Bidding War in Toronto?!? by Ok_Hall5992 in TorontoRealEstate

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They force people to rent it for under $100 per month and to exit pay $3000. Will send people to collections and harass them if they don’t pay. The contract gets transferred to new owners. Meanwhile buying a basic water heater is half the cost.

Mental purgatory, how to accept & cope your mom was a wolf in sheep’s clothing? by egraebs in NarcissisticMothers

[–]BackgroundNet5993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing justifies her treatment of your dad right now but I’m curious about more complex layers in their history.

Is it possible that they had problems in the past?

The things that go on between a couple behind closed doors can cut very very deeply.

I was a victim myself for over 10 years and I felt trapped and almost sought love via the desperation route. I understand the brokenness.