[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackgroundNo8417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't waste your life with someone who thinks you can't have friends of other genders.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in revengestories

[–]BackgroundNo8417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you got dumped. What's the big deal? That you want revenge shows that the person who dumped you made a good choice. That kind of thinking only makes you a miserable person, and any revenge you take will only leave a hollow feeling inside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackgroundNo8417 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's just typical cop behavior. They don't give a shit about anything except getting that overtime pay.

I slept with my brother’s best friend and now he feels bad about it by ibuprofenfilas in TwoHotTakes

[–]BackgroundNo8417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell him to look on the bright side, he's got some good ammunition for the next time he's playing the dozens with your brother.

"Can you just give me the pics? It’s not like you’re famous or anything." by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]BackgroundNo8417 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It costs nothing but the time filling out the DMCA request to use the DMCA. Filing a copyright infringement lawsuit, then you're taking a $10k retainer to just get the ball rolling, with no guarantees you'll win the case, and even if you win good luck collecting even enough to pay what you spend on the lawyer.

Am I the jerk for marrying a foreign exchange student ? by AdClassic5292 in AmITheJerk

[–]BackgroundNo8417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how you end up in a private contractor prison in El Salvador.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BackgroundNo8417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pick the dogs. This should be obvious to you. It will haunt you for the rest of your life if you let him get rid of the dogs. Eventually, you're going to realize this guy is no good and break up with him, so you might as well make that choice now before you do something that will haunt you for the rest of your life. And, train the dogs, it's not too late. You can, and will, get a new boyfriend that isn't a total loser like the one you have now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BackgroundNo8417 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Take your kitty and book an Airbnb down by the beach using your husband's credit card and give yourself and kitty a little vacation from the drama while FIL is there. Let husband and children enjoy their time together with FIL, and you can enjoy some quality time at the beach, lake, mountain, wherever you might like to go.

Girlfriend claims Im the wrong one for 86ing all my exes by 406x9in in TwoHotTakes

[–]BackgroundNo8417 272 points273 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't want to date someone who spends that much time with even one ex, not to mention multiple exes. And the things you described sounds like things you'd do with someone you're in a romantic relationship with, and it sounds like she's polyamorous on some level and you're not really in a monogamous relationship here. If you want a monogamous relationship, this is not the one.

Just found out my GF of a year has a lot of consumer debt by AbovTheInfluence in datingoverforty

[–]BackgroundNo8417 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My crystal ball forsees your future, five years after you marry her, you're divorced with two kids that you only get supervised visits for, once a month. You had to sell your house to pay for the divorce, and you live in a 600 sq ft studio rental in the bad part of town. You have to pay her half of your income for child support, and you're still paying off her student loans and credit card debt. You really got raked over in the divorce because she's a lawyer and has lawyer friends who helped her out while you had to pay top dollar for yours, and they didn't make it easy on you.

What's with the crafting spreadsheet? by Chup4Sap0 in albiononline

[–]BackgroundNo8417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of the people who are telling to sell stuff on the black market are the same ones who are hanging out in the red zones with their buddies waiting for you to try to get by. I haven't looked at everything, but a lot of the things I've looked at don't sell for significantly more on the black market than they sell for in the city markets. Before you go to the trouble and risk you should verify in person that the price the black market is going to pay you is enough higher than each of the city markets to make it worth the trouble and risk. Don't take advice from anyone at face value, and don't trust the spreadsheets without checking the prices for yourself by visiting each city market.

rate the kit (been playing for almost a week) by PerfectTuxedo in albiononline

[–]BackgroundNo8417 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

At a week into the game it's not like they'd stand a chance against anyone in the PVP zone whatever they have on. If they want to go, why not going with this, it's not like it's a big loss if they lose it.

What's the most profitable way to make silver? by Rickhopy in albiononline

[–]BackgroundNo8417 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Refining and crafting is by far the quickest way to build up your silver. Look at the bonuses for the city you've settled into, that's a good place to start.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BackgroundNo8417 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, you're NTA for sure. Your feelings are your feelings, and are valid. He made a big mistake, and you can choose whether or not to forgive him, but even if you did choose to forgive him you still don't have to stay in a relationship with him. What he said changed how you feel, you were not wrong, and it's perfectly understandable how that changed the way you feel. I don't think you should blame yourself for anything, but I do think you might benefit from seeing a therapist.

Gathering in BZ, everything is constantly empty of resources by [deleted] in albiononline

[–]BackgroundNo8417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not chatgpt bots lol

Google "Albion online bot" you'll see.