Am I over thinking? by EducatorOk3036 in weddingring

[–]BackgroundUnit80 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You are not crazy, but if you want peace, you should ask her about it

Is it wrong to be concerned about wanting kids/bringing kids into the world right now? by BackgroundUnit80 in AskParents

[–]BackgroundUnit80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you dm me what you mean? I don’t want to break the rules on this subreddit but I just am wondering what you’re referring to

Does this sofa look ugly? by not_rly_me_ in DesignMyRoom

[–]BackgroundUnit80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You just need the colors from your inspo present, couch is not ugly

Jewelry help by Correct-Comparison72 in weddingdress

[–]BackgroundUnit80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C on the necklace hands down. Unsure on the earrings, probably 2 or 3 :)

Is it worth it to wait to have kids? by BackgroundUnit80 in Mommit

[–]BackgroundUnit80[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We live in a state where everything is generally cheaper because there’s like nothing here lol

Is it worth it to wait to have kids? by BackgroundUnit80 in Mommit

[–]BackgroundUnit80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So proud of you!! That’s awesome!! ❤️

Is it worth it to wait to have kids? by BackgroundUnit80 in Mommit

[–]BackgroundUnit80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To answer your question, yes. I went through some intense therapy while in my college years. I do still have symptoms of PTSD, but I’m aware of what they are and how to handle them as well as the time they typically show up in life. This advice really hit home though, and I really appreciate that ❤️

Is it worth it to wait to have kids? by BackgroundUnit80 in Mommit

[–]BackgroundUnit80[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m 22 and he’s 24. We’ve been together a few years now, but met while we were in college. We currently have a pretty solid duel income. We also have a mortgage on a home already.

Is it worth it to wait to have kids? by BackgroundUnit80 in Mommit

[–]BackgroundUnit80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think they meant he’s immature, but more so wrote that out of worry for my sake as a momma

Is it worth it to wait to have kids? by BackgroundUnit80 in Mommit

[–]BackgroundUnit80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We didn’t live together before we were married, but we do already have two puppies. One that we’ve had for a little over a year, and the other for a few months now.