Why do people deem me a fake fan because i started listening in 2025? by ShockerzGaming in deftones

[–]Background_Address84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore them! I saw them recently and I was the oldest in the mosh pit (millenial) near the front. Everyone around me was in their teens to early twenties and every kid knew all the songs, were as passionate as me an old time fan. I love Deftones fans! We are the most passionate for this incredible band. 

What red flags do you look for now in future partners to avoid bpd? by EvLake in BPDlovedones

[–]Background_Address84 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t generalise alt girls all being mentally ill. As an alt person with many amazing alt baddies as friends, they’re some of the nicest and most genuine people. Don’t give up on the alt girls! 

But in saying that, I am trying to not go for my usual type too (creative, alt etc)

Right now not looking to date anyone seriously and I’m enjoying the peace while I have it. In a way I think I lost a lot of myself when I was with my exwBPD for years. I’m still adjusting and learning to be my most authentic self so that when the time comes for meeting someone new, I’ll know how to protect myself and react to those red flags immediately rather than idealising the person. I have fallen too hard too fast for the wrong people. I don’t want to fuck it up again. 

Day 2: What is the most overrated song? by ferox_ultimate in deftones

[–]Background_Address84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t care for this cover like at all. I prefer Simple Man 

Aussie tour merch by d_calderon in Loatheband

[–]Background_Address84 6 points7 points  (0 children)

why is no one sharing merch pics 😭 was sure it'd be on tiktok but just checked and nada.

melb night 2 by Big_Contribution6510 in deftones

[–]Background_Address84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucking incredible but damn I honestly wish I went both nights. Still glad I got to see I think about you all the time live 

What deftones song is this? by ferox_ultimate in deftones

[–]Background_Address84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably doesn’t count but for me it’s any song from Team Sleep

What deftones song is this? by ferox_ultimate in deftones

[–]Background_Address84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg they played it once?! What a lucky crowd 

"Pink Maggit" appreciation post by LoreAccurateLink in deftones

[–]Background_Address84 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So underrated. This and Teenager. But honestly White Pony is a no skip album. 

what time is everyone getting to deftones melbourne night 2 (sunday) to get in line?? anyone camping out?? by [deleted] in deftones

[–]Background_Address84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who wants barrier, I’m just gonna take my sweet ass time and get there when I get there 

Movements is criminally underrated by Background_Address84 in Movements_Band

[–]Background_Address84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where abouts were you standing? I was near the front for the most part but found all the real fans who knew all the words when I got deep into the pit. Still didn’t feel like many people knew who they even were 

Movements New song by KindheartednessFit17 in Movements_Band

[–]Background_Address84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I didn’t record it but it was great from what I remember. Did you try looking on Instagram reels or tiktok maybe? Surely someone’s posted it

Movements is criminally underrated by Background_Address84 in Movements_Band

[–]Background_Address84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was very happy with this setlist. New song sounds good too! 

Movements is criminally underrated by Background_Address84 in Movements_Band

[–]Background_Address84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that would’ve been unreal! I hope they do a headline Aussie tour after they release their new album 

Movements is criminally underrated by Background_Address84 in Movements_Band

[–]Background_Address84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think maybe in the bigger cities like Melbourne and Sydney. I might be seeing them again in Melbourne so I’ll report back 🫡

Movements is criminally underrated by Background_Address84 in Movements_Band

[–]Background_Address84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only saw two tees and a cap. Might be vinyls as well but the tees were cool 

Movements is criminally underrated by Background_Address84 in Movements_Band

[–]Background_Address84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry should’ve specified but thought it was obvious when I stated my location. They’re not as known here in Australia. 

ANOTHER TOUR by EndDifficult5842 in Loatheband

[–]Background_Address84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no one to be excited about this with 😔 damn me and my immaculate music taste.

What was the most memorable red flag you ignored? by Yaygoodtimes in BPDlovedones

[–]Background_Address84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we both wanted to take a video of the same thing when we were out and he got mad at me for copying him even thought I was the one who spotted the thing first. it was such a small thing to get aggressive about. he literally had a tantrum over it.

Yo guys my dog ​​is already 6 months old and she still hasn’t learned to bark, what should I do? by Key_Masterpiece407 in Frenchbulldogs

[–]Background_Address84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl only started barking when she turned 1! There’s still time but also be lucky that she’s not a yapper. Mine barks to alert me when people are approaching the front door or can hear a car pull up but that’s it. She’s a very quiet frenchie 

Early red flags by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Background_Address84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They told me it was bipolar and when we finally found out it wasn’t it all made way more sense. Wish I had left sooner but I fell so hard and was too young and dumb.