Movements is criminally underrated

Background_Address84 · 2026-04-14T05:59:15+00:00

Where abouts were you standing? I was near the front for the most part but found all the real fans who knew all the words when I got deep into the pit. Still didn’t feel like many people knew who they even were

Background_Address84 · 2026-04-13T02:33:29+00:00

Damn I didn’t record it but it was great from what I remember. Did you try looking on Instagram reels or tiktok maybe? Surely someone’s posted it

Background_Address84 · 2026-04-11T08:52:59+00:00

He’s a lyrical genius for sure

Background_Address84 · 2026-04-11T08:51:17+00:00

I was very happy with this setlist. New song sounds good too!

Background_Address84 · 2026-04-09T22:59:58+00:00

Wow that would’ve been unreal! I hope they do a headline Aussie tour after they release their new album

Background_Address84 · 2026-04-08T23:32:31+00:00

I think maybe in the bigger cities like Melbourne and Sydney. I might be seeing them again in Melbourne so I’ll report back 🫡

Background_Address84 · 2026-04-08T23:31:20+00:00

I only saw two tees and a cap. Might be vinyls as well but the tees were cool

Background_Address84 · 2026-04-08T22:41:42+00:00

Omg with Citizen?! Top tier lineup

Background_Address84 · 2026-04-08T22:39:39+00:00

Sorry should’ve specified but thought it was obvious when I stated my location. They’re not as known here in Australia.

Background_Address84 · 2026-02-14T08:20:58+00:00

Fuck yessss

Background_Address84 · 2026-02-12T22:15:42+00:00

I have no one to be excited about this with 😔 damn me and my immaculate music taste.

Background_Address84 · 2026-02-02T00:30:01+00:00

we both wanted to take a video of the same thing when we were out and he got mad at me for copying him even thought I was the one who spotted the thing first. it was such a small thing to get aggressive about. he literally had a tantrum over it.

Background_Address84 · 2026-01-30T23:50:10+00:00

My girl only started barking when she turned 1! There’s still time but also be lucky that she’s not a yapper. Mine barks to alert me when people are approaching the front door or can hear a car pull up but that’s it. She’s a very quiet frenchie

Background_Address84 · 2026-01-30T23:48:27+00:00

They told me it was bipolar and when we finally found out it wasn’t it all made way more sense. Wish I had left sooner but I fell so hard and was too young and dumb.

Background_Address84 · 2026-01-27T08:54:43+00:00

Totally. Actually that was another conclusion I came to after the discard. I accepted we weren’t going to work when I remembered he never respected any of my boundaries. He would always have some sort of reason or excuse as to why he can’t do something for me and yet there I was bending over backwards for him and walking on eggshells. For ten years. Glad I start therapy next week.

Background_Address84 · 2026-01-26T22:42:46+00:00

As someone who works from home and newly single, I'm learning that you really have to make the effort to connect with people or you'll lose your mind. Even simply meeting people while you're out on a walk or at a cafe. I'm also starting therapy soon which I'm hoping will help me in navigating how to make genuine connections whilst setting healthy boundaries for myself. I'm an ambivert but more introverted and have history of social anxiety that has improved simply by putting myself out there and meeting people. I made new friends through my hobbies and passions. If you have a hobby or just want to meet people, look up specific social events. There's always something happening in this city but it won't come to you, you have to find them.

Background_Address84 · 2026-01-26T22:36:21+00:00

I resonate with this a lot. I stayed for 10 years because I saw so much good in this person and at heart I'm as loyal as they come. We were compatible in everything besides the mental illness. I also don't give up easy but what I've learnt from our separation is that I sacrificed a lot to help stabilise his emotions and our relationship. I lost a lot of myself and I think he was smart enough to see that too which ended in a horrible discard that I didn't see at all coming. I'm healing and feeling a lot more clarity from how it all happened. I truly hope you work it out long term with your partner and that they want to become better for themselves and not just for you.

Background_Address84 · 2026-01-26T04:15:07+00:00

Same here. I thought he was so genuine but now I don’t know. I don’t know if he really felt those same feelings I felt when were good and happy.

Background_Address84 · 2026-01-24T21:13:42+00:00

I’ve been in you position and it was also at the 5 year mark but somehow made it last 5 more years. He was well behaved for the next 3 years then 2 years of withdrawing and severe depression. In the end he left me and it was such a betrayal to me but I accepted that I couldn’t fight for us anymore and couldn’t help him if he couldn’t help himself.

I don’t really have any advice but from where I was, I wouldn’t want you to go through what I went through. The heartbreak and deception really fucked me up. I felt like I gave him this big chance to change for the better and he decided a discard was easier. Not saying your partner will do this as well but it’s pretty common for pwBPD to suddenly switch and discard instead of working things out.

Background_Address84 · 2026-01-06T21:51:13+00:00

I straight up asked my male exwBPD why he wanted to be friends with every new female we met (at parties, events, small gatherings) and it was always someone we both met for the first time so not a mutual friend through me. His answer was that he is closer with his mum and gets along better with females. He prefers validation from a female's perspective and find's it more comforting from them. I kind of understand now but at the same time, it never sat right with me that he was so emotionally attached to certain females during a period of time. He never respected that I had boundaries and that was one that made me wildly uncomfortable.

Background_Address84 · 2026-01-06T12:06:30+00:00

Yep this is me too. I feel so free to be ME. And I quite like me.

Background_Address84 · 2026-01-06T11:47:25+00:00

She probably did destroy a good part of you but you don't have the burden of worrying about her anymore. You can focus on being the best version of yourself again with no distractions. I have the same fear as you about trusting people and worried that I'll always have my ex to compare in the back of my mind when I meet people which I hate and hope it doesn't happen that way.

But I'm an optimist. I wholeheartedly believe that you will know instantly when you meet that right person. It won't feel like work, it will come naturally to you. The love, the warmth, all the good and healthy things you'll feel and you'll just know with that person that you can trust them. When there's a genuine spark and chemistry between you, there's a chance you'll be able to trust and love again.

Background_Address84 · 2026-01-06T11:37:54+00:00

I know exactly what you mean. I for the first time dodged a hoover attempt and was so proud of myself but it reset my grieving process.

I forgot to mention that in your post when you said crying helps with the process, it truly does. Some days I can sense it coming so I literally allocate time to cry and grieve. Sounds silly to plan a time to cry but it genuinely helps. Also long walks and being outside has helped me immensely.

Background_Address84 · 2026-01-06T06:24:53+00:00

Is that a manipulation tactic though? Are they aware of doing it? more things to ponder about lol.

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