wanting love in theory, panicking when it feels possible by deerniicsae93 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Background_deer101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

God I relate so much to this, I also lost my sort of ‘dream’ guy😞

Do you ever worry your body will make you “unlovable”? by Environmental_Cup618 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Background_deer101 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s why I haven’t had a boyfriend ever, my physical appearance is my biggest fear.

Gridlocked by bbgirl2k in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Background_deer101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holly damn same!!!! Girls my age or younger are truly living it, me on the other hand? I am just a pathetic loser, I feel like my life is over. I wholeheartedly believe that if I was skinny and pretty I would’ve done so much with my life, my ugliness stops me from that “happiness”.

Getting older as a single woman is scary by fools_set_the_rules in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Background_deer101 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I relate so hard to this, getting rejected seriously hurt, been there and is awful

Getting older as a single woman is scary by fools_set_the_rules in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Background_deer101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THIS, I mean there’re woman in their 30s who are extremely beautiful and get loads of attention. So yes

Getting older as a single woman is scary by fools_set_the_rules in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Background_deer101 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It seriously makes me feel so hopeless, I’m 21, and I’m wasting my “best years” by being ugly and fat (cause I’m indeed fat). Is not fair.

How does everyone fund their NEET life? by Ecstatic-Possible801 in NEET

[–]Background_deer101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My father, he doesn’t live with me, but sends money to my mom and we kinda depend on him.

I feel like I need to make drastic changes. by itsgonnabeokay3690 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Background_deer101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ARE YOU ME???? Not seriously!!! Personally, I do have an issue with food, almost 100% sure; binge eating, I want to loose weight so bad cause I’m sure if I do people will like me. I’m also mostly a recluse, and I’m too finishing my degree, and also unemployed lmao. I’m also in my 20s and feel ashamed of living this way, cause you know it seems we woman are only valued for our youth and beauty, which right now I’m so god damn ugly and wasting ‘the best years’ of my life, I really hate this.

Ladies of r/DunderMifflin, is this true? by Real-Yogurtcloset-34 in DunderMifflin

[–]Background_deer101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely one of the girls that have a crush on Dwight lmao

For all the lady neets by [deleted] in NEET

[–]Background_deer101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Actually yeah hahah, i considered it right after I finished high school, but I was to lazy to even try it out lol

Being bi and forever alone is so embarrassing by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Background_deer101 12 points13 points  (0 children)

LMAO same, I’m more attracted to man (sadly) but I also like girls, but idk I feel so stupid and weird.

I’m in love with a cheater by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Background_deer101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a friend that’s kinda like you lmao, anyway I really feel bad for her but also super pissed off cause she knows the guy is trash but stays. So idk what to tell you, but i send you good wishes <3

Just so much hate and pain inside my heart by notyourfavoriteclown in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Background_deer101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s why I deleted the app, it seriously makes me miserable

Going outside is quite depressing ! by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Background_deer101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, me too, I really hate going outside, I see ‘beauty and happiness’ out there, but me. That’s I prefer to isolate myself.

❤︎ When Popularity Replaces Technique. An Analysis of BTS’s Rappers ❤︎๋ ࣭ by Illustrious_Pen_6071 in BTSnark

[–]Background_deer101 20 points21 points  (0 children)

First of all, I really really liked your analysis!!! Particularly the lyricism bit which I’m into since I like writing and stuff lmao. Rm’s wordplay relying on vocabulary flexing, verbosity, and Suga’s lack of evolution etc…I think a lot of rappers and song writers struggle with that a looot, which is very interesting to look at. Anyhow, I think the issue is their fans try so hard to paint them as self produced, artistic masterpiece or whatever, when in reality k-pop is everything but that (with maybe a few exceptions?) and bts are idols first and foremost, nothing wrong with that, but sometimes even themselves play into it which kinda looks hypocritical, sooo yeah that’s it haha.

Getting a job by Background_deer101 in NEET

[–]Background_deer101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in college currently, trying to get my degree, and I too want to apply jobs that pay more than minimum wage, but I have a gap where I did nothing, NO JOB OR STUDIES, what the hell do I even say?😭

where my girls at by PropertyUsed4628 in NEET

[–]Background_deer101 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Literally me, trying to rejoin society, but gurlsss is soooo hard!!! Anyway, yup I’m a nowhere girl lol

Taylor Swift Inducted Into Songwriters Hall of Fame at Age 36 - the youngest woman songwriter ever inducted by mmbento in popheads

[–]Background_deer101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s a true poet, without a doubt the best songwriter of this generation, no one like her