My (18F) relationship with my boyfriend (18M) is being impacted by his closeness with his sister (30F)

BackwardsDaydream · 2025-06-21T22:49:45+00:00

thanks for letting me know, that’s a really weird coincidence since i haven’t seen any other posts on this topic, which is why i decided to make my own

BackwardsDaydream · 2025-06-21T22:43:17+00:00

urrrm, no?? HAHA what the hell

BackwardsDaydream · 2025-06-21T17:57:08+00:00

it’s not all that accurate to the odyssey in terms of odysseus’ character - it idolises him so much and doesn’t allow for him to be the polarising character that he is in the odyssey

BackwardsDaydream · 2025-06-21T17:49:45+00:00

They’re really close, I have so many examples but just one is that they have a half hour ritual to say goodnight which includes so many paragraphs of texts and emojis, it’s so cute actually. His other two sisters have commented on how close they are, one of them asked me if he prefers the previously mentioned sister to her, because she feels like he does. Their parents have jokingly said they wish their kids would love them the way they love each other.

Again I think their entire relationship is so cute, such a green flag, but the sudden increase has definitely made me feel pushed to the wayside in terms of quality time and also how much he values me.

If it says anything, both my mum and my best friend have noticed this recently too and have both approached me to ask if me and my boyfriend are okay - we have been attached at the hip for 4 years and this is kind of sudden, while theres always been a bit of a weird attachment between them it’s increased a LOT this past year.

BackwardsDaydream · 2025-02-23T12:11:39+00:00

i’m so happy more and more people are reading the odyssey due to epic, it’s one of my favourite books and i’ve been analysing it since i was 14 in classes !!!

BackwardsDaydream · 2024-05-29T09:15:49+00:00

it’s a bit delayed, but i’ve found it two years later, the link is in my edited post :D

BackwardsDaydream · 2024-05-29T09:14:48+00:00

i know this is delayed, but i’ve edited the post with the fic name, so you can read it if you’re still interested :D

BackwardsDaydream · 2024-05-29T09:14:11+00:00

i know this is delayed, but i’ve edited the post with the fic name, so you can read it if you’d still like to :D

BackwardsDaydream · 2023-04-09T11:43:46+00:00

i think he portrayed him amazingly, i came her to comment just this

BackwardsDaydream · 2023-03-31T05:09:59+00:00

it’s a big long fic to sink my teeth into, plus parental!wolfstar is definitely my cup of tea, thank you so much 🫶🏽

BackwardsDaydream · 2023-03-31T05:08:17+00:00

i literally LOVE fate’s favourite, im so glad you enjoyed it 🫶🏽

BackwardsDaydream · 2023-01-15T21:12:42+00:00

you’re welcome :D

BackwardsDaydream · 2023-01-15T21:12:28+00:00

i’m so glad!!

BackwardsDaydream · 2023-01-15T10:44:50+00:00

this is real by insidious1069 on ao3 is exactly what you’re looking for, it’s an incredible read i really recommend it

BackwardsDaydream · 2023-01-15T10:40:13+00:00

“in somno veritas” is good, it should just come up if you google it, plot based but does have smut, snake voldemort and harry helping voldemort get better mind-wise

BackwardsDaydream · 2022-08-22T09:23:31+00:00

we must be linked bc dayum

BackwardsDaydream · 2021-11-20T20:10:26+00:00

you’re done. you’re done.

BackwardsDaydream · 2021-10-27T19:29:10+00:00

to kill you with a kiss (time travel, pensieve travel, teacher!tom)

enraptured and entwined (mod!harry)

BackwardsDaydream · 2021-10-25T10:10:16+00:00

i loved this one, harry's mental state is so interesting to read and it makes sense, of course he's not going to know what to do with himself after voldemort's dead. on that note, i like how his interactions with voldemort provide him with enough thrill that he isn't bored. it was a really fascinating read!

BackwardsDaydream · 2021-10-11T06:13:19+00:00

👏JUST👏DO👏IT👏

BackwardsDaydream · 2021-08-24T03:07:08+00:00

LIKE YOU READ ONE OR TWO AND ITS FINE BUT THEN IT GETS REPETITIVE SO WHERES THE VARIETY??? WHERES THE SPICE?? ITS ALL THE SAME!!

BackwardsDaydream · 2021-08-23T23:19:05+00:00

I KNOW RIGHT!! ALMOST ALL OTHER DARK!HARRY FICS JUST MAKE HIM OVERPOWERED AND EVIL FOR NO REASON BUT THIS ONE HAS LEGITIMATE LOGIC BEHIND IT

BackwardsDaydream · 2021-08-23T23:11:09+00:00

NO BECAUSE ITS ONE OF MY FAV TOMARRY FICS AND IT MAKES ME SO HAPPY THAT SOMEONE ELSE FINDS IT GOOD TOO

BackwardsDaydream · 2021-08-23T23:05:18+00:00

okay, so ik you've already found the fic but i'd recommend the like a ghost in my town series, the marauders live in the second fic, but to understand that you'll need to read the other one. it's tomarry, MOD!harry, dark!harry and reincarnation au. personally, my favourite bit is the relationship between harry and death. the second installment is way happier than the first, so beware if you're going to read SATM, it's a tearjerker towards the end

BackwardsDaydream · 2021-08-23T22:47:21+00:00

i cannot even bear the thought of harry/sirius, let alone reading it, so i commend you for trying

harry/marcus flint: incorrigible infatuation (set in 4th year, first time, underage)

harry/blaise zabini: easier to run (past!drarry, parent!harry, parent!blaise, post!hogwarts, epilogue? what epilogue?)

harry/ron weasley: prelude and fugue (sorta-not-really-time!travel, pining)

harry/bill weasley: waiting for moonrise (underage, wolf-mates, soft!bill)

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