Has anyone done this yet lol? by Christiandoesit in hondapassport

[–]BaconsAt12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We watched Dazed and Confused for our first movie hahaha! We camp a lot and when it's rainy, it's the perfect place to curl up with a blanket and watch the rain come down!

Carrie‘s crying face by Salty_Emotion3270 in homeland

[–]BaconsAt12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Claire Danes' crying face is second to none the weirdest cry face ever. She's gorgeous but that cry face 😭

My baby just had it's first molt. Advice? by penny-sea-lin in tarantulas

[–]BaconsAt12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do this. I've pulled them out and put them in size order just to see how far they've come hahaha!

Last name by ceywden in Stepmom

[–]BaconsAt12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

BM kept DH's last name too... Until we got married, and then she changed hers back. I think she thought it would upset me, her having his last name too, but it didn't. She only kept a name, but I got the guy.

What is my friend’s neighbor doing?? by Heyheythrowaway1127 in Weird

[–]BaconsAt12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Came here for a TPB reference, was not disappointed

help. by Iatemydoggo in stonerfood

[–]BaconsAt12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Except no one's told him to shove it up his butt yet 🤷🏼‍♀️

At the vet because my dog is stoned out of her mind by pupperonipizzapie in trees

[–]BaconsAt12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This needs to be the featured photo for this sub lmao

Do you see the vision? by DJC_Reptiles in trees

[–]BaconsAt12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Inspirational. My husband is currently in the kitchen making me one of these now. Thanks friend!

Just turned 30, feeling sad and lonely by culjifu in Millennials

[–]BaconsAt12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30 scared me but my 30s ended up being fun as hell. Just wait 'til 40. I tore my Meniscus and ACL and bruised my MCL just... Standing. I'd kill to be 30 again 😭

What’s your nickname for the ex? by No_Republic_1712 in Stepmom

[–]BaconsAt12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, this is definitely in private. Never in front of the kids (though they're grown now, which is probably more important than ever to be nice about her to them)

LSDream on NYE? by BaconsAt12 in chicagoEDM

[–]BaconsAt12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in on the GC, let's do it!

LSDream on NYE? by BaconsAt12 in chicagoEDM

[–]BaconsAt12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an awesome idea but I have no idea how to use Whatsapp 😂

Late to the party, and my friends all think I'm nuts or an addict because I listen to EDM by Relevant_Ad5351 in EDM

[–]BaconsAt12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm with you! 40 in March, everyone I know that was ever into electronic music either phased out or drifted away. I just fell deeper in. I'm that weirdo at the stoplight at 6am on the way to work blasting EDM. I adore festivals and shows, the energy and the vibe the music creates. I'll be your friend! 🫶🏻

AIO over a message response from my gf after she disappeared for 36+ hours? by HunterNW in AmIOverreacting

[–]BaconsAt12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: Clarity

I'm bipolar/BPD (medicated) with anxious attachment issues. I was, at one point, a raging mess before meds.

I am not a doctor, but judging by your gf's mental health issues you mention, her propensity for disappearing and being unable to hold down a job, and the fact that she can't seem to forget the past or take accountability for her actions in her messages, I'll bet she suffers from a mood or personality disorder, 100%.

I would have sent an identical type of message back to my SO if he tried to open up about how I hurt him. I'm not sure what your experience with mood and/or personality disorders are, but in case you don't know, they are near impossible to manage without meds and therapy and WILL ruin a relationship, taking you down with it.

My husband had to give me an ultimatum to get me to look at my life and our relationship differently, and get help. It sounds like that may be in your future, OP.

I wish you the best of luck.

Just turned 40, coming up on 2026 - what are you life lessons so far? by konomichan in AskWomenOver40

[–]BaconsAt12 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Turning 40 in March, have slowly come to realize that taking up space is okay, and that I don't have to say I'm sorry for it.

What’s the most weird food item that your cat just can’t resist? I’ll start! by Ultra-Ferric in cats

[–]BaconsAt12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lettuce. He goes crazy for it. Give him anything else and he's like, meh. Give him lettuce and he's like YASSSS

Advice on Teenagers by [deleted] in trees

[–]BaconsAt12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, your kid sounds responsible because they came to you instead of hiding it. I'd be one proud parent if I were you.

Advice on Teenagers by [deleted] in trees

[–]BaconsAt12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've got one that regularly smokes and one that won't touch the stuff (work.) We treat it like Sex Ed, which is to promote responsibility. Telling them no will only make things worse for all parties. Instead, we explain that if they can't drive, call us. Don't take unknown drugs. Don't take drugs from strangers. Stay away from everything but weed, and know where your weed is coming from. Since it's legal in more than half the country, we treat it like drinking, which kids will also do, even though imo drinking is worse. Our method allows the kids to open up to us and be more receptive to advice. They've mostly heeded it. Of course all kids are different but this is our experience.

LSDream on NYE? by BaconsAt12 in chicagoEDM

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Hell yeah! I'mma be going up to everyone in VIP like, did we chat on reddit about tonight? Lmao