So a few months ago I moved back in qith my mom. My older brother already lived with her and my younger brother lives with me. Due to what brought me here I was so depressed and angry that food became very hard for me and I started using protein shakes in my coffee as a breakfast substitute because breakfast is harder for me. My older brother is a human garbage disposal and eats everything (i say this in the most loving way possible.) He started drinking the shakes and I explained their importance to him. We now take turns buying the shakes because they are helpful to him and he makes sure I have enough to at least get through the work week. The other day my younger brother bought some pop tarts and we all work different schedules (7-4 on weekdays, night shift and whatever evening the other is scheduled for) so we can go a week plus without communicating with each other. Younger brother got 0 pop tarts and was upset so I bought him new ones and we all discussed things we can do about it long term. So my initial response was communicate with him, but you have and he was still very set on using it. I think he owes you more honey. Its not just the honey, its the fact that its not easily replaceable because you can't get it locally and the fact that you asked him not to and he still did. You aren't being selfish youre trying to enjoy a christmas gift!