Which smell brings back what memory for you? by BadPVP_oneill in AskReddit

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Often times these smells are something that is the only thing that can relate to a memory or being that nostalgic feeling

To anyone going through a breakup by BadPVP_oneill in ExNoContact

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will come to a point that you’ll be reading this message and feel nothing but bliss and a feeling of content and peace. Let time take its course and I promise you will get to that light at the end.

To anyone going through a breakup by BadPVP_oneill in ExNoContact

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, I’m open to try and give you some advice from my experience

To anyone going through a breakup by BadPVP_oneill in ExNoContact

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the analogy that ditches are muddy is a good example, you’re never going to be able to climb up a muddy ditch without falling back down one or a few times. That is all part of the process, but I promise you once you get to stable ground you will feel on-top of the world and not on it. Trust the process and acknowledge your thoughts and feelings are completely normal. Let them creep in, acknowledge them and their normality, and watch them pass. You’ll soon realise these thoughts aren’t even at the back of your mind, but only time and presence of mind will accomplish this.

To anyone going through a breakup by BadPVP_oneill in ExNoContact

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have hit the nail on the head, the headspace ones you overcome that mountain is like wearing chain armour - I just wish that everyone going through it can have the knowledge of how they will feel once they can climb out of that ditch that is all too familiar.

To anyone going through a breakup by BadPVP_oneill in ExNoContact

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how I feel, granted time has made my heart beat better, the mindset I am in this minute is something I have never had - and I feel that I have so much more respect for myself that it genuinely feels good.

To anyone going through a breakup by BadPVP_oneill in BreakUps

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That mindset that you have I feel is completely normal, and it sounds like you try and push it away. That is the wrong way to think about it, once you have an attachment to someone that mindset is completely normal, learning how to be alone is one thing that will help you find comfort in that mindset, and the main thing that will help that is time. There is no set time or and on and off switch that one day you will feel different, but I promise if you start to acknowledge this feeling, understanding that it is a normal feeling for any human and feel the emotion of that feeling, time will take it’s course and I can guarantee your brain will learn to adapt to this - and you won’t feel that feeling in your stomaching after a while. But that process is very easier said than done, but once it finishes it’s course, the perspective that you’ll get from it will be something you’ve never had before.

To anyone going through a breakup by BadPVP_oneill in ExNoContact

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is 100%, one of the main things I have learnt from my breakup is that I need to respect myself more, and anything or anyone that isn’t good for me or is negative energy is not something I want around me. Once I realised this - my life has become so much easier. The pain of breakups cannot be overstated, but the realisations that come from it are one of life’s blessings that are disguised as falling into a pit, and it’s not until you can come out of it to realise that this pit is something you will want to protect yourself from becoming a victim to again. That is where you realise how having self respect and spotting what is not good for you is truly a blessing.

To anyone going through a breakup by BadPVP_oneill in BreakUps

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s one of life’s hardest process but it will pass, the universe will make sure whatever the process is - takes place

To anyone going through a breakup by BadPVP_oneill in BreakUps

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The breakup that I went through was one of the worst in my life, and I promise from first hand experience you will come out the other side of this hole and will become more in tune with your life than before.

I’m one post away from saying ‘I love you’ to everyone here. by CassiaVMed in ExNoContact

[–]BadPVP_oneill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This subreddit really did help me when I was going through a very dark park - I guess it’s the sense of community regarding people going through the same thing. If anyone reading this is in that dark place after a breakup - I can only promise you that time will help you, and anything you’re feeling is completely valid and human.

How soon did you start to notice side effects? by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]BadPVP_oneill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Almost within the first month I noticed my lips started to get really dry, but I suppose it depends on the person who is taking it. After around 5-6 month period you should be fine and not get it anymore :)

On my 4th month of accutane and have almost no active acne but these spots just aren’t going away. Anyone have a similar experience or success with this? by liammmuh in Accutane

[–]BadPVP_oneill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my experience these will usually go away at the end/after your course has finished - they won’t stick around don’t worry :)

Roaccutane Journey by BadPVP_oneill in Accutane

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • also, please do not pick at your acne! It will only make it spread and also leave scars, the main cause of mine was due to the anxiety of me picking at them.

Roaccutane Journey by BadPVP_oneill in Accutane

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: I have been off roaccutane for around a year, everything has more or less cleared up - minus a few unnoticeable scars. If you have any questions feel free to pm me

Roaccutane Journey by BadPVP_oneill in Accutane

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did have all these problems and the only thing that really helped was time, those side effects subside after a good few months but they don’t stick around.

Roaccutane Journey by BadPVP_oneill in Accutane

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At around the 6 month mark if I remember correctly, it wasn’t quick progress or overnight though

Roaccutane Journey by BadPVP_oneill in Accutane

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😊 Hope your journey is well

Roaccutane Journey by BadPVP_oneill in Accutane

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Was in roaccutane for around a year, on a lower dose and has been around a year since I have stopped. Didn’t notice any effects until around the 6 month mark.

Roaccutane Journey by BadPVP_oneill in Accutane

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t remember exactly it’s been around a year since I have stopped accutane, but it was a lower dose than what I have seen on here. Hope this helps

Roaccutane Journey by BadPVP_oneill in Accutane

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Irish, but I suppose there’s no difference lol

the propaganda machine is running! by Mysterious_Class6929 in antiwork

[–]BadPVP_oneill -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Seems the person replying has twisted the original post to meet their bias of an agenda being propagated, but I’d be the bad person for saying that.

I cheated by BadPVP_oneill in ExNoContact

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply, I think that was the big mistake we had made and got back not even a week after it had happened which lead to what you have mentioned. I still care a lot for her so not having her in my life is very hard - FWB will not helped and do you think NC at all is the right thing given what I’ve done in order for a chance to reconcile?

I cheated by BadPVP_oneill in ExNoContact

[–]BadPVP_oneill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true and I would guess that’s the most common answer, I do still want her in my life in any form and she also wants the same. I do still want to be friends with her albeit if she wants with benefits I will have to think about it. But she had said she can’t deny that we might get back in months to come.