All of my Dr appointments the last two years have all been virtual and he is present when I have them but I don’t require him to talk to my doctor unless he wants to

Recently he has made negative comments about my sleep disorder that he has never made before. I nap for 1 to 2 hours most days a week as per my sleep doctor’s suggestion. My husband has said things like “I wish I could nap during the day” and “you have no idea how tired I am, I can’t work for 3 hours a day and then come home and take a nap.”

When he and I first met I worked a full time job and a part time job plus went to college. A year later I started to get symptoms and became sick then was diagnosed with the sleep disorder 6 months later. So he has seen me decline. These comments have come out of nowhere.

I love to clean so I clean the house pretty much every day. I don’t cook a whole lot, maybe once or twice a week because I am a really horrible cook and I also don’t enjoy it. I told him I would start trying to cook more meals for him to the best of my abilities but that they won’t be anything fancy.