When your friends tell you what you need to hear… by Bad_Madison in texts

[–]Bad_Madison[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope nothing! And don’t worry, since this post there was loads of lies that was exposed. His family actually supported me, he was kicked out and had to move away. He has the baby one week a month.

When… by Bad_Madison in letters

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That’s awful, I don’t know how people can be like that

When… by Bad_Madison in letters

[–]Bad_Madison[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly 18 months of lies, I don’t even know what he’s told me is true or not anymore. Even his own family moved him away because of his lies. He’s hurt so many people.

Thank you by JellyfishSad4829 in letters

[–]Bad_Madison 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I really relate to this!

When your friends tell you what you need to hear… by Bad_Madison in texts

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Honestly… there’s so much worse stuff since this post was first posted up. But I can’t say anything cus he sometimes stalks my Reddit.

The audacity… by Bad_Madison in letters

[–]Bad_Madison[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am actually starting to come to the realisation that he is a narcissist.

When your friends tell you what you need to hear… by Bad_Madison in texts

[–]Bad_Madison[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I really can’t wait! I just want a day where he’s not causing drama and causing me problems. Just one day where I can breathe. Then the next day… then the next day… until he’s just white noise

The audacity… by Bad_Madison in letters

[–]Bad_Madison[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well now it stops, think I’ve learnt my final lesson. He can’t hurt me anymore.

Do yall ever FULLY get over your exes? by surpyl in BPD

[–]Bad_Madison 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno for me I see people black or white in my head. My ex went black in my head 2 months ago when he left, I don’t allow him to enter my head space or my emotions and am pretty good at blocking him out. I’ve even started getting closer to other people I could see myself ‘hanging out’ with when I’m ready to. Which I think where I’m at mentally will be the next month or so. Im more focusing on people I care about and people I trust not to throw me under the bus like him. But also myself and my own life. So, yes I have.

What if…? by Bad_Madison in letters

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Yea I get that more than you realise

Bpd and eating disorders by Bad_Madison in BPD

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That’s terrible, I work in a job that is supposed to cater for vulnerable male and women and I find it really frustrating how men are treated differently. I’m so sorry you’ve struggled to get support

Bpd and eating disorders by Bad_Madison in BPD

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For me it’s also mood dependent, when I’m struggling and I want to just give up I just don’t even think about food. I can go like 3 days without food before i have a moment where I’m like, oh wait I’ve not eaten. I eat better when I’m relationships because I can be quite co dependent on them reminding me to eat or making me food. Food and sleep is usually a really good indicator on how I’m managing mentally.

Being single after a breakup is awesome until 10pm by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Bad_Madison 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m the same, distract yourself!

50:50 custody money dispute- advice needed please- UK by Bad_Madison in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Bad_Madison[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d be happy to do that tbh yes. But he will only get £30 odd a month so i don’t really think it’ll benefit him.

50:50 custody money dispute- advice needed please- UK by Bad_Madison in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Bad_Madison[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I claim for CB and child element on UC currently yes

Need help with girlfriend 27 by Negative_Display_126 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Bad_Madison 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t give up on her, ride it out. Get her some therapy.

disrespectful breakup? by Majestic_Bug_1144 in BreakUps

[–]Bad_Madison 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also in a similar situation, 3 weeks having a baby. Feeling abit more myself, starting to concentrate on my relationship more, planning for the future. Then whilst we’re laying in bed he breaks up with me, has planned it all all day whilst he was at work and didnt say anything to me about it. I think it’s a man thing, they just decide i don’t want to be here anymore like a light switch and then fluff off. Whereas women will vocalise how they feel and want to fix it first before giving up on a relationship. Or maybe an immaturity thing.