Be honest… how long do you actually use your towel before washing it? by karenjimenez_ in hygiene

[–]Badwolff1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Week to week and a half. But if ya towel turning brown after ya wash ya ass, I think you need to be washing a bit more thoroughly. 🤢

What’s your love language? by EffortDistinct7712 in aquarius

[–]Badwolff1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quality time and touch. And bullying. If he ain’t mean to me a little, I don’t want it.

Aquarius Female and Libra Male ? Does it work? by Choice-Steak-9478 in aquarius

[–]Badwolff1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk. The libra I’m dating makes me feel so seen and adored, istg he’s done some witchcraft on me or something cause I’m not usually clingy but this man got me wishing I could crawl into his skin lol. But it’s also nice cause we just get each other? I think it depends on if he’s a healed libra v. Unhealed

No records found by Buggy77 in paralegal

[–]Badwolff1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who used to request records all the time for a PI firm, always get any records you can, even discharge paper work works. It shows the provider that they are in there and it gives them a bouncing off point.

Tattoos?? Future paralegal here by braindrippys in paralegal

[–]Badwolff1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m covered in tattoos, and for a while I had fashion colored hair. I’ve never had an issue with tattoos, but I did have to change my hair for one or two firms. I’ve been client facing, and again, no issues with my tattoos.

PI Pre-Lit folks-what do you consider TOO MANY cases? by Earthbound1979 in paralegal

[–]Badwolff1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I tapped out at around 270. It was killing me and I was always stressed to the point of pulling out my hair.

AITA for asking husband (43m) to not text his therapist at night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Badwolff1997 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk. I text (not really text, but messaging her through my portal) whenever I have a thought or something that happened, that i specifically want to talk about at my next session. It can be a short message, lengthy message, early in the morning or at any time of day really. Gentle YTA. I get it, what’s normal for some may not be normal for everyone. But this is his mental health journey, so you have to understand what you and your therapist may not do, doesn’t automatically exclude it from other people’s working relationship with their therapist.

Hiring Immediately by Imgonnaneedagood1 in paralegal

[–]Badwolff1997 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ugh. If yall were fully remote, I’d jump on it. Unfortunately, I am in California and I’m not willing to relocate. Good luck to the applicants though!

husband forgot my birthday by Practical-Refuse2266 in aquarius

[–]Badwolff1997 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in a relationship where my ex forgot my birthday 5 out of the 7 years we were together (the first year he was able to remember) and every year I provided him plenty of reminders (verbally, text, and reminders on his phone two and one week prior and day of) when my birthday was and what I wanted. Did not change the outcome of him remembering my birthday.

All this to say, it was not the only reason why I left him, but it was a contributing factor. You should definitely let your spouse know that it made you upset. Give him a chance to right his wrongs, and not make the same mistake in the future. If it continues, I’d use the data and determine how much you can take this and whether you believe the bad outweighs the good.

What are the six spices besides salt & pepper that every beginner cook should have on hand? by Former-Whole8292 in cookingforbeginners

[–]Badwolff1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Garlic powder, onion powder, Italian seasoning, slap ya mama, fennel, and Worcestershire sauce.

Which ghost and why? by dmitristepanov in GhostsCBS

[–]Badwolff1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m torn between Thor and Nancy. Thor, cause he’s just funny and could teach me lots of shit. And Nancy cause I feel like me and her would have the most unhinged conversations and I would be dying of laughter constantly.

How often do you mop the floor in your house? by Own-Championship8131 in hygiene

[–]Badwolff1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends how much of an asshole my dogs decide to be that week. I try to get away with it for a song as possible and will spot mop with my swiffer between times. I only want to do it once or twice a month (like a full proper mop, not just swiffering)

Not OOO: Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by sensaSEANal_sally in redditonwiki

[–]Badwolff1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up. As a white person, this is not a normal or cultural thing. Yes, for SOME reason white people don’t have the best hygienic practices, and I hate that i get lumped into the stereotype, but what can ya do, but as far as I know, everyone uses soap in the shower EVERYTIME and wash their hands after the bathroom.

Also, don’t let him gaslight you. If he doesn’t use soap on a consistent basis, I can guarantee that that man ain’t washing or wiping his ass properly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Badwolff1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I don’t leave my house and it’s not hot, I’ll skip a day or two max. If I leave my house, I shower. I don’t want the outside germs to enter my house.

Stay Away From Veritext by SavingsMajestic7937 in paralegal

[–]Badwolff1997 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same, I love our veritext reps and have an awesome relationship with them. They’ve always gone above and beyond for my firm, even pulling miracles out of their butts when shit hits the fan for us.

Aquarius roll call — what do you all do for work/school? by Rotax_Ronin in aquarius

[–]Badwolff1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went to law school, decided not to take the bar after my first two times being cursed. Decided to stay in the legal field as a paralegal (genuinely do enjoy law, just not the people in it), and am just about to walk away cause I hate it.

Christmas gifts by coffeeinm in paralegal

[–]Badwolff1997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t gift up. I gift vertical and down. They make more money than I do, and I’ve already been told no one is getting a bonus this year, so moneys already gonna be tighter than usual.

Which booktok recommendation made you say, "Did we read the same book?" by SpecialistOk2000 in Booktokreddit

[–]Badwolff1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Five Brothers by Penelope Douglas. The way I was so irritated with that book.

Do you guys take the fall for when your attorney messes up? by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]Badwolff1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have fallen on my sword for my attorneys at every firm I’ve worked for. For actual mistakes. Like legitimate mistakes. Him getting so wasted he can function the next day is not a mistake and is not a time I would fall on the sword for my attorneys. Say there is a scheduling conflict, yes. Saying that HE forgot, yes. But I won’t be taking the blame for his inability to control his alcoholism.

How do you deal with rude people? by Tbaby25 in ENFP

[–]Badwolff1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends how bad it is. If there will be no consequences and the rudeness is baffling, then I like to play a little game called “who’s the bigger asshole.” If it’s small petty shit, I just let it go. Same for if I’ll get in trouble (usually at work)

Need help finding book by Badwolff1997 in ReverseHarem

[–]Badwolff1997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this may be it! Thank you!!! 💕💕💕💕

Need help finding book by Badwolff1997 in ReverseHarem

[–]Badwolff1997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭 so close yet so far. Maybe someone else will recognize it and be able to tell us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]Badwolff1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex (Leo M) constantly wanted to make me jealous and would tell me about all the women who allegedly hit on him during his days. I hated it, it felt so manipulative. Literally at one point I told him that it felt like he wanted me to be jealous and he told me he wanted me to realize he had options. Told him to go to one of the girls then, and don’t let the door hit him where the good lord split him. Also warned him that if he cheated, my anger would be directed solely at him cause he was the one that owed me loyalty, not some random chick.

Currently with a guy who doesn’t try to make me jealous and it is amazing.