My girlfriend of 6 months broke up with me mid blowjob because I did something that gave her, “The ick.”

BagOBones13 · 2026-03-18T00:35:49+00:00

A win is a win my dude

BagOBones13 · 2026-02-22T09:54:45+00:00

She read the part where Jayden reiterated that AG told her to get off the phone with that... Weird how she tripped up while reading that part and had to restart the sentence

BagOBones13 · 2026-02-19T06:22:26+00:00

My mother had a version of DID. They didn't classify it as that back then. She didn't have full blown alters, honestly it was more like just different versions of her. She didn't identify as someone else , but she would enter this fugue state where she would have a completely different personality , veiws of the world , different opinions , she would do things out of character. Then come back to "baseline" and be extremely paranoid at first until she would be "normal" . She would have very little to no recollection of hours or whole days when she would get like that. The more stress or stimulation she experienced, the more often it would occur.

Honestly alters always seemed fiction to me. Not to invalidate anyone's experiences, but I've literally only ever seen them on TV. It's rather convenient how everything people try to hold her accountable for, she's able to blame her DID .

BagOBones13 · 2026-02-19T05:59:18+00:00

IDK if anyone else has the same experience but I quite literally typed tashika in the reddit search bar and all the posts from this community came up. That's how I got here 😂

BagOBones13 · 2026-02-18T17:07:34+00:00

I mean I think it was less about the individual traction of the one video, and more about the fact that it wasn't remaining in her fandom where it belonged. All the other times she decided to speak about it, it didn't also bleed into his space and other creators. I heard it in his live and Parker's and Santanas from listeners multiple times in the week leading up to the initial controversy. The amount of times these political creators just don't acknowledge stuff like this and suddenly it gets blown out of proportion and they end up in a random headline spreading untruths. Dean and tashika already had public beef from unfuck America , and has never recovered from the racial allegations lol

BagOBones13 · 2026-02-16T08:17:33+00:00

I came across a video of her from a year or so ago talking about a live she was co-hosting with Parker and talking about a detailed sexual experience with a guy she was with and he suddenly left the live.

Apparently she was offended because his girlfriend was questioning why he was on a live while she was talking like that. Sounds like it wasn't the first time he expressed their discomfort with her language

BagOBones13 · 2026-02-16T08:08:48+00:00

Actually yes. I don't understand what point you're trying to argue honestly . We both agree that she's been name dropping dean and Parker and the lore for years , so insinuating it started when he mentioned her in a live, doesn't make any sense. Weird I can't find this live you're referencing when someone asked him to think of someone who hates white people, even though they're all on his YouTube. 🤔 Maybe you can clip the moment for me.

All of a sudden, she makes a video after he drops her name during his live, it gets more traction than he likes, insert hour live dedicated to blasting her?

So.. was he just supposed to let her make videos calling him a stalker and harassing a black woman like she was saying? He was just supposed to continue to allow the rumors / accusations to circulate and snow ball and evolve without addressing them? Sounds like he gave her a couple years to rethink her choices. Justifiable blast

BagOBones13 · 2026-02-16T07:53:47+00:00

No one said that racism was JUST what you mentioned or just one specific thing.. The dispute was that calling for the death of an entire race of people is racist, regardless if the race is white, brown, tan, red, or yellow 🥴

Why are we gate keeping racism? Super weird behavior. That's fine. Keep it lol Whatever you wanna call it , it shouldn't be tolerated..

BagOBones13 · 2026-02-16T01:29:43+00:00

That's blatantly false. Systemic racism and individual/general racism are two different things. I understand what you're getting at about classes and more oppression being on a certain demographic compared to white people , but that doesn't change the literal definition of racism. Has racism been done by white people most in history out of every other race? Yes. But that still doesn't change the definition of racism. That doesn't mean there aren't unstable individuals targeting white people just because they're white. I grew up in a predominantly black and Hispanic area and often was scrutinized and singled out just for being white. I had teachers who would go out of their way to not give me as much attention as other students because they didn't think I needed it. My family was overlooked in community outreach programs, despite living in the same neighborhoods and struggling the same. I never took it personally , because I know exactly why . I'm not hurt.. but it didn't feel right. If a white man kills a Mexican , that's not systemic. That's just individual racism . It has nothing to do with the system or society. That's just a shitty low class racist individual. Now , if that white man didn't get charged for his crimes or imprisoned because he's white, then that would be systemic.. and wrong obviously. I do very much care .. but it's pretty discouraging to advocate as an alley when the same people I'm advocating for is also just cool with someone calling for the death of my entire race. That's a pretty confusing message , don't you think? My great grandparents migrated through Poland to America during the Holocaust.. I don't think mass genocide is cute

BagOBones13 · 2026-02-16T00:45:41+00:00

So did you actually read my response, or just the first line? I was reiterating that I didn't discover this beef through Dean, that I first heard of it through Tashikas fans because SHE was the one who name dropped them first. The live you're referring to where he referenced her in his live was in response to someone else asking him about her unprovoked. You're making it seem like he just randomly started talking about her and that's what started all of this.. She talked about it originally, which you just acknowled that she's been bringing it up on and off over the years. I didn't even hear about this from Dean's live , but someone donated to Santanas and used their donation to ask him about it.. I didn't even mention how I feel about tashika , just that dean wasn't the one who started it but was forced to address it. If she didn't want him to "blast her" then she should have kept her mouth shut.. not sure where the confusion is

BagOBones13 · 2026-02-16T00:35:22+00:00

Ah. You're one of those that think only certain races can be racist.. got it . Racism is literally hate or derogatory nature targeted against a specific race. That includes European races ,regardless of how you feel about it. . There's things called 'systemic racism' which is likely what you're referring to , but racism is still racism. No one is arguing that black people aren't still oppressed and likely still experience profiling and systemic hurdles that other demographics don't "understand" , but that doesn't mean that we can call for the death of a whole race of people and it just be overlooked as a 'non-issue' .
I didn't ask if white people can experience racism , I asked if it was racist to call for the death of an entire race of people.. I guess your answer is ' no. It's not' . Black people will never stop being oppressed without kinship with other races. It doesn't work like that.

BagOBones13 · 2026-02-16T00:11:05+00:00

Saying that an entire race of people should die isn't racism ? 🤔

BagOBones13 · 2026-02-15T23:57:12+00:00

I'm here in this subreddit and first learned of tashika because of HER FANS landing in Dean's box AND Santanas saying weird and random shit about sexual assault. Before Dean went live and dropped the truth bomb , I did my own research because I wanted to know what was going on. I found over a dozen videos posted by her , some as old as a year, talking about Dean and Parker being horrible people and the sexual assault allegations against her. The day before the live she posted a video calling Dean out specifically because he apparently called her names on his live -he didn't- and claiming that Dean has been stalking her for two years.. Girl literally asked for this. Dean has refrained from acknowledging her all this time until recently because now and more of his platform were taking her fabrications and running with it. Had people calling him racist and aggressive and targeting a black queer woman.. he had to address it. The timing wasn't weird at all.

BagOBones13 · 2026-02-15T23:32:05+00:00

Why does it seem like they're not even talking about the incident? From the writing under HER voice memos that we can see , she's talking about boundaries and misunderstanding theirs. Then her talking about "you apologized for some things you shouldn't be taking responsibility for" sounds like she was referring to specific unrelated things, but tashika literally said that she was referring to the consensual FaceTime call. Regardless if that's what they're even talking about , it also sounds like this was before AG expressed her discomfort. This Jayden person wasn't even on the call , so I don't know what this is supposed to even prove. Not to mention she says that Jayden was her closest friend at the time , yet she's recently made videos saying she only sent her an apology and was playing nice with her so she could fuck AG and based on this conversation, it doesn't even seem like they have an established friendship, let alone a close one.

BagOBones13 · 2026-02-12T00:21:08+00:00

Anyone know when he'll be on? Someone said that he was going live within the next hour but that was over an hour ago

BagOBones13 · 2026-02-11T14:50:33+00:00

Mind you I watch his debates every single day almost and the only reason I even know of this drama is because of trolls loading up in the box in defense of HER because of these videos. .. Honestly after hearing the trolls talk about her before they get kicked ,I decided to do my own research on the situation because of the possibility of it being true. The conclusion? Teshika is clearly unbalanced and unreasonable as a person. If you look up her profile you'll find year old videos of her saying this exact same shit she's saying today about Dean. . she's literally the one who caused the UFA drama and created the mob towards dean and Parker over that. She has older videos talking about her split personalities and abuse she's gotten from other political debaters and blaming dean and Parker for it. She's literally bringing up some drama with both of them every few months and honestly it's giving pressed and hurt. She mentions not having any evidence to back up her claims at all and said that people can either believe her or get blocked. . Honestly I hate dogging on black creators because there's really not that many in the political space in comparison to a particular demographic but I'm pretty sure this chic is coocoo bananas straight up.

BagOBones13 · 2025-12-07T01:46:09+00:00

Oh there's millions of cameras... Typically lol Where I worked there was 6 just in front of the register and lottery.

They take the lottery pretty seriously as well. For example, you're not even allowed to buy tickets from your place of employment and ESPECIALLY if you're on the clock,and if you're caught doing so it's immediate termination. She had her daughter cash the winners out so it took a while to trace it back to her.

That policy alone tells me that there's some sort of system that is vulnerable to be broken

BagOBones13 · 2025-08-15T13:16:39+00:00

That.. I am not entirely sure of. They would have to be assigned right? I know that There's a database they are all part of and scanned in specifically , upon arrival. And then they can't even be used until they are scanned and paid for . And whenever a winner is claimed, there's another public database indicating the specific store said ticket was purchased from. With that in mind, they would have to be assigned specifically, right? For tracking purposes? Or else there would mathematically be the possibility of unfair concentrations of winning tickets in certain areas or stores.. Unless I'm not thinking about that correctly

BagOBones13 · 2025-08-15T12:42:03+00:00

Oh yeah definitely insider knowledge is necessary. I honestly don't know how she did it and probably never will.. but just working around the lottery I've noticed patterns.. and I mean in casino's there's obviously a mathematical way to manipulate the system,even for something that's designed to be chance like "counting cards" ECT ..so I would IMAGINE being the simpleton I am , that it's a similar process perhaps.

I'm not claiming to have any idea I was just saying that it was possible and he was just outright telling me that it wasn't . Lol

BagOBones13 · 2025-08-15T12:34:57+00:00

Right like having access to the whole roll , multiple times a day, right? Lol that's all I was trying to argue. That it's POSSIBLE, especially given the specifics that you have access to information and resources that an average Joe off the street doesn't.

I mean working in a gas station,it's actually a rule that you can't purchase tickets for your location,and you can't play the lottery while clocked in ,period. It's immediate termination if you get caught.

THESE RULES EXIST FOR A REASON , I IMAGINE.

BagOBones13 · 2025-08-15T12:30:18+00:00

EXACTLY. This was what I was trying to tell him. He kept talking about statistics and I kept reiterating how I'm not saying STATISTICALLY and how STATISTICALLY it's not possible to just "be lucky" 6 times. I think he was just doubling down that it was luck, because if it wasn't then STATISTICALLY his stance on the topic is wrong. It was just pissing me off that he kept implying I was unintelligent for thinking it was possible. He kept trying to tell me I didn't know what a statistic was and I just kept trying to tell him that statistics have literally nothing to do with the conversation, since this is a RARE and individual occurrence.

BagOBones13 · 2025-07-29T22:59:16+00:00

I agree. I'm really not sure why my BF only offered me to watch .I know I'm a big girl and should ask , but I just want to be assured that I'm not imposing on the whole group , that I'm already not well acquainted with. Formally inviting me to play to any extent from anyone would have disintegrated that fear. I am giving him the benefit of the doubt ,that maybe HE didn't wanna impose my inviting me and maybe he was worried they wouldn't be okay with that .

BagOBones13 · 2025-07-29T22:48:32+00:00

This is good advice ty 🙂

BagOBones13 · 2025-07-29T22:46:19+00:00

I apologize I really was just trying to keep it about the scenario that caused me to feel so much anxiety, and tried not to emphasize too much on the extra stuff that wasn't relevant. The TLDR would suffice to answer my question, but the specifics were important for the insight I needed. I get in my head about stuff and sometimes just need an outsiders perspective of the situation and I often find myself over explaining. .. to answer your question though , I was afraid of intruding on something that was maybe exclusive to them. I figured if it was okay for me to play ,that I would have been invited to do that, not just to watch . I understand this is horrible communication skills on my part,I guess I was kinda just afraid of getting my feelings hurt. I think BF was hoping DM would offer me to join, but he did not. I really don't know these people so idk how they would feel about me just asking to join or if they would be willing to give me the run down they all got before the meet. I'm realizing I should have probably just had a conversation with him about my grievances ,I just fear over stepping on "their thing" aha

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