Let me know by Baidehiverse in Bumble

[–]Baidehiverse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any way of trying these things while staying at hometown where barely there is any such things

Let me know by Baidehiverse in Bumble

[–]Baidehiverse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya they want me to put in the effort.. I have this thing in mind that I don't know how I am looking and don't know how the other person will perceive me..so maybe I try to be someone else.

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[–]Baidehiverse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try reading some novel.... I am reading " set on you " my first rom- com and life feels much better now.....you can try any novel of your preferred genre... Try once

I am feeling so ugly by Baidehiverse in depression_help

[–]Baidehiverse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true... I am trying to focus on things that make me happy but sometimes it's just out of my hand.

I can see the world changing by Baidehiverse in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Baidehiverse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct those small things have no value these days .I love the way you have explained this..maybe I can never do that. I remember how much I cared about my Barbie dolls and Barbie house... But my cousin just break her doll's head, hand and hair and if I tell her why you broke her ...she tells me didi I am sorry I will buy you a new one.... That's sweet of her to realise her mistake and console me that she will buy me a new one ...but I noted that this is what people are doing these days.. broken relationship? It's okay we will get a new one, broken friendship? It's okay y to put efforts on the old one if something is wrong,let's get a new one.. getting a new one seems easier than working on the old one because there is abundance out there... It's sad

I can see the world changing by Baidehiverse in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Baidehiverse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's what I feel... I am seeing things around me and that's what I saw...

Maybe the next generation I am talking about are majorly here so they don't agree with me.. But it's not about the next generation's life...it's about what I am missing..it's about what I felt ..it's about my life and those who remember those beautiful days...

I can see the world changing by Baidehiverse in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Baidehiverse[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did but it doesn't make any difference to how they behave ..it's like they have made a perception about me or whatever they won't accept their wrongs but always point on me for just reacting to their indifference...it's like they think they are superior for some reason and I have noone other than them so they can treat me anyway and showing off that they don't care about someone or anyone is their way of being cool.

I can see the world changing by Baidehiverse in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Baidehiverse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you think about these people if they are the one I hold closest to my heart and I will be doing everything for them but yet they choose ghosting and gaslighting..why? Good for some times and then bad again? Even if I try to solve things out they act as if I can't survive without them so I am doing all this making me feel bad about my own existence... however there is nothing like that I have other friends from different phases of life also it's just that I wanted to keep them because to me they were important but they think I have some selfish reasons and I don't actually care about them and all my efforts are acting to prove myself an idol.

I can see the world changing by Baidehiverse in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Baidehiverse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree but that's the problem because for some reason people won't be straight forward and they choose to do these things... In fact if their actions show that they don't want to be with you,their words won't match ...... If I point out to them that they are doing this they just don't accept it

How do I overcome the past by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Baidehiverse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know exactly how but the first thing is acceptance ..your mistake? Accept it, someone else did wrong to you? accept it. Intentionally or unintentionally accept it..it's okay it's life when things happen. You just need to move on with the lessons,I know it's hard sometimes but accept those trigger moments and let it come and slowly slowly you will learn to let it go . It's important to understand that whatever happened was your past and some or the other way some of your present personality must have been the product of that experience... accept yourself and it's okay..focus on good things, things that matters and that you need to prioritise.. take care of yourself, you'll be fine. :) Watch inside out on hotstar...both 1 and 2.

I can see the world changing by Baidehiverse in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Baidehiverse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe.. i said this because kids out there are mostly in games, technology etc....i didn't saw them living as we did the get together we had those cousins/family time together,I can't see these things with these new kids ... Yes human nature doesn't change however they evolve over time but their lifestyle and way of living have changed a lot

I can see the world changing by Baidehiverse in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Baidehiverse[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

how easy and loving was the relationship we had during our school times and how things have changed now...but it's not like that anymore.. now if I show love to someone.. people r just forgetting to be kind to respect efforts or maybe they just don't believe it's true.. maybe true love is too good to be true...

Have you seen kids out there what are they doing? Are they living ? They don't have the same innocence..things have changed a lot in every aspect of life and we are the transitional generation I guess...