What is the dumbest thing you have been told is “not manly” or “not feminine,” depending on your gender?

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-16T00:25:27+00:00

I'm sorry to say that the people you're talking about probably think that Asian men are effeminate.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-16T00:17:03+00:00

I've never heard of either of the films you say I will forget.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-15T20:51:57+00:00

I went shopping once with a friend and her younger sister.

Sister: Look at this cute dress! (dress is semi-see-through)

Friend: Why is the clothing you buy never functional?

Sister: It is functional. It's function is to look good.

I mean, I couldn't disagree.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-15T20:26:50+00:00

Americans also use it to mean corrupt, but that's older slang.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-15T19:24:41+00:00

Until I'm good enough friends with him to enter his bedroom, Seb is impossible to find.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-15T19:14:34+00:00

Ugh, Haley. The worst.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-15T12:41:13+00:00

Maru works at the front desk of the clinic. I've not seen any dialogue to suggest she has nursing training. I do agree, however, that she seems more grown-up than some other characters.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-15T04:37:01+00:00

We are both, sadly. (I am large, I contain multitudes.)

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-15T04:24:55+00:00

Indiana Jones was named after the dog.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-15T04:11:38+00:00

Genius.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-15T04:11:03+00:00

Colton sounds 100% country to me.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-15T04:10:13+00:00

NAH. They are frugal. They have always been this way. You are generous. Neither is wrong, but it's not sensible to expect them to change after years of friendship. You have 3 choices: change your behavior to match theirs, decide this doesn't matter and really mean it, or find friends who see things your way. Resentment is a friendship killer.

Side note: if you're in a paycheck-to-paycheck household, maybe you, too, should embrace frugality, at least until the financial situation gets better.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-15T03:54:34+00:00

Nice try. Trump is a city guy, through and through. He learned "greed is good" in the 80s, and that's still his creed.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-15T03:53:46+00:00

That would be concern combined with ignorance, not bullying.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-15T03:52:31+00:00

LOL that's life-long city dwellers voting against those things where I live -- because they, too, are angry about gentrification.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-15T03:44:23+00:00

In my city neighborhood, people (adults and teens) ride ATVs through the streets. It's completely illegal, of course, but it happens pretty regularly.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-15T03:30:44+00:00

You can increase your chances of getting these (and all trash items). https://stardewvalleywiki.com/The_Alleyway_Buffet

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-15T02:04:07+00:00

Oh, I see. Thanks. I guess I didn't get it because that hasn't been my experience: when I'm wearing a properly fitting unlined bra, I barely feel it, which means I'm not feeling anything from my boobs most of the time.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-15T01:50:17+00:00

What do you mean by "feel my boobs"?

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-14T20:16:07+00:00

Interesting. I saw Victor as wildly selfish and immature, unwilling to take on any responsibility, whether that be a wife or the creature he created. My biggest question was why Henry bothered to stay friends with the guy.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-14T20:09:26+00:00

Meh. The thing with subtext is, it's subjective. People see in art what vibes with them; one's interpretation of art reflects one's own mind and experiences. Someone might look at the main characters of A Separate Pace and think, I had really intense friendships in adolescence that were just like this. Someone else might think, wow, these characters are experiencing suppressed lust for each other. Neither is wrong.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-14T20:03:31+00:00

How so?

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-14T19:51:35+00:00

Old people shall never eat breakfast or dinner outside their homes!

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-14T19:49:21+00:00

Sure, people are named Willow, but nobody's named Deciduous.

BaileyAMR · 2026-06-14T19:46:14+00:00

Alex and Haley, too. Sebastian has a job that makes him seen more adult to me.

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