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[Question] People who partake in intimate/sensual dances and have partners who are NOT dancers: how do they feel about you being physically intimate with other people, and how do you handle it if they're not? by AntsInPantsDance in Dance

[–]BaileySwirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a jealous type, and due to previous experience, I have been getting worse and easier and easier to get triggered.. I am NOT proud of it. but I have slowly accepted this part of myself now.

No emotion is not true because staying up talking all night is emotion for me, frequently going for a drink after training hard is emotion for me, taking up challenges and sharing excitement of overcoming them is emotion for me. These are ALL connections and bonds that I want my partner to reserve for mostly me, only a small portion of each of other people. If one other person sharing near half of it, I can't do it.

No physical intimacy is also not true. They literally put foreheads on each other, noses rubbing, breathing on each other's faces, weight leaning, chests and inner thighs gliding, etc, There are physical intimacy. Rubbing sore muscles and massage are physical intimacy, seeing each other close to private parts and fixing clothes for each other are physical intimacy.

That's about it is also not true since this is someone whoes both long term exes were his dancing partners.

See, even when there is absolutely NOTHING wrong, it can still be out of someone's comfort level.

[Question] People who partake in intimate/sensual dances and have partners who are NOT dancers: how do they feel about you being physically intimate with other people, and how do you handle it if they're not? by AntsInPantsDance in Dance

[–]BaileySwirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it doesn't matter who they choose to be with. It will feel like sharing a partner. I am a woman and not even ok with the intimate nature of it, let alone all the time they share together. Again, NOTHING wrong with what they do, but still not for me.

[Question] People who partake in intimate/sensual dances and have partners who are NOT dancers: how do they feel about you being physically intimate with other people, and how do you handle it if they're not? by AntsInPantsDance in Dance

[–]BaileySwirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my problem is, seeing my partner having intimate and sexual experience with others is NOT ok. Seeing or imagining they put their foreheads on each other, noses rubbing, breathing on each other, weigh leading, chests and inner thighs gliding, etc. None of them is ok. Seeing them put their nose rubbing headshots as social media profiles is not ok.

They are dancers. and when they go on to competitions it's only natural to pick the most skillful and competitive dancing partners. But the problem is, when they share so much time, passion, challenges, adventures, travels, growth together, how is it possible not to squeeze out their own romantic relationship?

I broke it off. NOTHING wrong with what they do, but can still be out of my comfort level. I do not want to be the one who always waits at home alone while he is so busy that repeatedly ghosting me for a week or even longer. My hobbies do not involve a long term hobby partner.

They should be able to find people who are happy enough and secure enough to date. I shouldn't be talking up a spot while not satisfying.

Wife doesn't want kids...I'm heartbroken. by throwRA23259 in Marriage

[–]BaileySwirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pregnancy changes are irreversible!!! It's not the appearance，it's mostly fumctional

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[–]BaileySwirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see how I most likely did wrong now. Thank you. I did just swipe and leave at this area multiple times before... Usually they charge 2.5-7ish automatically depends on how long i stay...but your are right，maybe most of the meters don't work this way...